

Shirley attended Flora Macdonald College in North Carolina and later worked as a travel coordinator at NASA until her retirement in 1995.
Shirley was a devoted member of Wythe Presbyterian Church, where she served as a Ruling Elder and faithfully shared her many gifts. She served as fellowship chair, participated in the women’s circle, taught the children’s choir, and led the handbell choir. When the elementary Sunday school class grew large and extra help was needed, Shirley readily stepped forward to assist. She also organized elaborate Christmas pageants that brought joy to the congregation. She is especially remembered for her work in the church kitchen—cooking, preparing meals, and decorating for countless gatherings and special events. Her meat loaf, coconut cakes, and pink punch became treasured favorites.
Music was another important part of Shirley’s life. She especially enjoyed hearing the church choir and praise band and was also a member of a local organ club that gathered in members’ homes to enjoy music and fellowship.
Shirley also loved Mardi Gras and looked forward to returning to Alabama, where she and her family would gather, celebrate, and enjoy being together. These happy family gatherings, especially during Mardi Gras, held a special place in her heart.
Above all, Shirley loved people. She had a gift for welcoming others, entertaining friends, and caring for those who needed her. Over the years, she helped and cared for many people.
Shirley held a special place in her heart for the Myanmar families in her church and community. After coming to Hampton as refugees, many of these families began attending Wythe Presbyterian Church, where Shirley welcomed them with an open heart. She tutored the children with their schoolwork, taught cooking classes in which families learned to prepare dishes such as spaghetti and meat loaf, and helped the families in countless other ways. Through her kindness, generosity, and faithful service, she formed lasting friendships and touched the lives of many, many people.
In her later years, Shirley was lovingly cared for by her dear friend Aye Ber Paw, who affectionately called her “Grandma.” Aye Ber cared for Miss Shirley faithfully for many years, and they shared a very special bond.
Special thanks are extended to Personal Touch Hospice for the loving and compassionate care provided to Shirley.
Shirley was preceded in death by her parents, three of her sisters, and all three of her brothers. She is survived by her sister Elaine Saucier of Mobile, Alabama; her niece Paulette Maurin and Paulette’s daughter, Ashley, both of Alabama; her nephew Louis C. Smith and his wife, Debra, of Kentucky; her niece Beth Grace and her husband, George; her cousin Chuck Davis and his wife, Debbie, of Gloucester, Virginia; and many cherished friends and members of her church and community who became like family to her.
A memorial service celebrating Shirley’s life will be held on Saturday, September 5, 2026, at 1:00 p.m. at Wythe Presbyterian Church, with Pastor Charles Tucker officiating. A reception will follow.
Shirley will be remembered for her generous heart, her welcoming spirit, her love of music and fellowship, and the countless acts of kindness through which she brought comfort and joy to others.
Donations in Shirley’s memory may be made to Wythe Presbyterian Church, 151 Robinson Road, Hampton, VA 23661.
Arrangements are under the care of Parklawn-Wood Funeral Home, 2551 N. Armistead Avenue, Hampton, Virginia.
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