Alice Ann (May) Dellinger

Born at home in Bergton, VA, on February 17, 1942, Ann was the daughter of the late Everett Atlee May, Sr. and Vada Pearl Hensley May. Except for several years in Northern Virginia, she spent her entire life in Rockingham County and Harrisonburg—a place she dearly loved and called home.

Ann graduated from Broadway High School and Shenandoah College, now Shenandoah University. She went on to build a remarkable 52½-year career at Sentara Rockingham Memorial Hospital, where her dedication, strong work ethic, and cheerful spirit left an enduring mark. During her time there, she worked in many areas including medical records, radiology dictation, insurance, EKGs and EEGs, medical transcription, and later in corporate communications, retiring in August of 2019. Her coworkers and friends will remember her as someone who gave her very best every day and always found joy in her work.

While living briefly in Northern Virginia, Ann also worked for H.L. Rust Company in Washington, DC, and Fairfax Hospital in Falls Church.

Ann’s life was defined by her generosity, faith, and love of people. A devoted member of Otterbein United Methodist Church, she served faithfully in many roles, from singing in the choir to serving on the Board of Trustees, administrative board, pastor/parish committee, and as president of her Sunday school class. Her deep Christian faith guided her daily life, and she lived it out through her kindness and tireless service to others.

Her heart for giving extended far beyond her church. Ann was active in Beta Sigma Phi Sorority, where she served in multiple leadership positions and was honored as “Girl of the Year” in 2002. For 16 years she sponsored a child through Children International in Honduras, and she gave her time as a reader for Valley Voice, a service for the blind and visually impaired, for more than a decade. She volunteered with Open Doors, supporting those experiencing homelessness, and served as a board member for Weekday Religious Education, an organization whose mission she firmly believed in.

Ann’s family was her greatest joy. She adored her two sons, David Carroll Dellinger of Harrisonburg and Michael Alan (Kim) Dellinger of Grottoes, and she poured her love into her grandchildren, Ariana (AJ) Morris and Camden Dellinger, and great-grandson Finn of Grottoes. She was overjoyed to welcome Camden’s fiancée, Jessica Stewart, into the family. Ann also treasured her siblings Jean Dove of Broadway, Everett May, Jr. (Betty) of Bergton, and N. Wayne May of Broadway, along with her many nieces, nephews, and extended family. Her best friend, Jennifer Ritchie, held a special place in her heart.

She was also preceded in death by her beloved cat, Punkin, whom she dearly missed.

Those who knew Ann will always remember her bright smile, her infectious laugh, and her ability to make everyone feel welcome. She loved to cook and bake, gathering friends and family around her table for a meal filled with warmth and laughter. Her home was a place where all felt loved, cared for, and uplifted.

The family gratefully acknowledges all expressions of love, concern, and sympathy, with special thanks to Dr. Terry Overby, Dr. Robert Vernooy and their staff, and the compassionate team at Blue Ridge Rehabilitation and Nursing for their excellent care.

A memorial service celebrating Ann’s life will be conducted 2:00 pm, Sunday, November 9, 2025, at Otterbein United Methodist Church, with Pastor Adam Blagg officiating.

The family received friends on Thursday, September 18, 2025, from 6–8 p.m. at Lindsey Funeral Home in Harrisonburg. A private entombment was held at Eastlawn Memorial Gardens.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Gideons International or Weekday Religious Education, in Ann’s memory.