OBITUARY
Thomas Candol Fitzgerald
August 23, 1929 – March 13, 2021
Thomas Candol Fitzgerald passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family, after a brief battle with cancer on the morning of March 13, 2021 in Henderson, Nevada; he was 91 years old. Thomas, affectionately known as Tom or Tommy, was the 5th of six children born to Thomas Allan and Candida Fitzgerald. He arrived into the world on August 23, 1929 in Legazpi City, Philippines on a staircase before his mother could be taken to a hospital. After his own father’s unexpected death in 1933, his mother eventually remarried and gave birth to his four half siblings.
As a young boy, his family was living a quiet life in the beautiful Bicol region when World War II began and the resulting Japanese occupation of the Philippines in 1941. His schooling, sports and all enjoyable activities were interrupted during this dark period. His only mission at that time was to survive. At 15, he was traveling through central Luzon in the north with a 60-passenger convoy when they were stopped by Japanese soldiers and suspected of guerrilla activities. He was 1 of only 4 survivors of the ensuing massacre. Alone and almost 500 miles away from his family, Tom was taken in by the Mania family. He remained with them as they fled into the jungle evading capture for 6 months. During this time, Tom provided much needed food for the Mania family, becoming a skilled fisherman and frog hunter. After the American liberation of the Philippines in 1945, Tom was finally reunited with his own family. His older brother John and many friends did not survive the war.
In 1946, Tom was 17 years old when he was sent to the island of Samar, some 200 miles from home. With the help of two other teenagers, he refurbished three LST Landing Craft vessels left abandoned on a beach by the Americans after the war. The repairs took 7 months to make the vessels seaworthy. The 3 teenagers then sailed them back to Legazpi where they were used to transport people and cargo as all the bridges in the area were destroyed by retreating Japanese forces towards the end of the war. He also learned to skipper PT Boats, purchased as surplus from the Philippine government. Tom later moved to Manila to work for Captain Manuel Isidoro, a tug boat captain he knew from his hometown of Legazpi City.
Being a US citizen by birth, Tom enlisted in the U.S. Navy in 1953 during the Korean War. He served aboard the U.S.S. Nemasket and was also stationed in Naples, Italy serving with NATO allies at a listening post high up in the mountains. While stationed in Italy, Tom enjoyed traveling through many European countries. With the rank of Petty Officer 3rd class, Tom left the U.S. Navy in 1957 and requested to be discharged at the Brooklyn Naval Shipyard in New York with the goal to search for his father’s family living in Long Island. Without a list of names or addresses, he mailed a letter to every Fitzgerald listed in the Long Island phone book. He received a reply from his cousin Michael Fitzgerald, who arranged for him to meet the entire Fitzgerald family. They were equally elated to be reunited and learn more about Tom’s family in the Philippines.
Tom left New York after accepting a former shipmate’s invitation to relocate to the West Coast. He enlisted in the U.S. Air Force in 1957 and was stationed at Hamilton AFB in Novato, CA working atop Mount Tamalpais’ radar station. While serving full time in the U.S. Air Force, he pursued a college degree and attended night school. Throughout his overseas enlistments in the U.S. Navy and U.S. Air Force, Tom kept in touch with a young woman he had met 9 years’ prior who lived across the street from Captain Manuel Isidoro’s family in Manila. Her name was Josefina Manuel and they married on May 8, 1961 after he graduated from Golden Gate University with a Bachelor of Science degree in Traffic Management and Commerce. Upon leaving the U.S. Air Force with the rank of Staff Sergeant, Tom then began a 30-year career with Matson Navigation Company based in San Francisco. During his early years at Matson, he was the very first customer of a new courier service that would become DHL. Tom and Josefina, also known as Josie or Nanette, lived in San Francisco before settling into their first home in Pacifica, California in 1966 with their three children: Michael, Thomas and Catherine. Tom always prioritized quality family time over continuous career advancement with long work days.
Tom was a dedicated and involved family man. A devoted husband and a present, supportive, and fun-loving father. He was a life-long learner and self-motivated to learn how to repair and build many things for the benefit of his family. Working only on weekends, he single-handedly built a large backyard patio, brick by brick, for his young children to play on – a project that took almost a year to complete. In 1977, the family moved to their 2nd home in Concord, California, which became the epicenter for holiday gatherings, work events and countless pool parties. He loved the role of Host and was often the first on the dance floor. He was also an excellent cook who’s Filipino pancit dish remains unmatched. He continued taking on challenging home improvement projects, while making time for his new found passion for playing golf. After a round of golf, he’d often take a nap on the couch with his favorite family pet dog, Windsor. Tom eventually retired from Matson Navigation Company as the Manager of Revenue Accounting Department with 30 direct reports. Many of his colleagues considered Tom a dear friend and mentor who were grateful he gave them opportunities under his leadership. With their children grown, Tom and Josie decided on a change of scenery and moved to Henderson, Nevada in 1999. Both retired, they spent the next 20+ years traveling to many countries in 6 continents by car, plane, train and cruise ship. Tom relished in meeting new people, sharing stories and experiencing different cultures. Closer to home, they sometimes tried their luck at the casino (nickel) slot machines followed by a trip to the all-you-can-eat buffet with sugar-free desserts.
Through the decades Tom enjoyed many camping and fishing trips, large family get-togethers and many visits back to his home country of the Philippines. Because of the hardships he encountered in his life, he believed in the importance of giving back and helping those in need. Everyone could count on him for advice, honesty and humor. His greatest joy was quality time with his grandchildren and watching them grow up. From feeding them with baby bottles and playing chess with them… to attending birthday parties, sporting events and school graduations… to playing mini-golf and sliding down waterslides with them at age 89 – he loved every minute!
Tom is survived by his wife of nearly 60 years, Josefina; their three children: Michael, Thomas and Catherine; and two half siblings, Romeo and Rudolfo. Tom will be greatly missed by his 5 grandchildren: Brandon, Lauren, Thomas IV, Jack and Chase. All who knew Tom are inspired by his kindness, wisdom and ability to live a full life with integrity. His stories, life lessons and cherished memories will live on in the hearts of his extended family and countless friends.
Visitation for Thomas will be on Sunday, April 11, 2021 from 3:00 PM to 6:00 PM with a Rosary at 6:00 PM, at Palm Boulder Highway Mortuary, 800 S. Boulder Highway, Henderson, NV 89015. A Funeral Mass will be a 10:00 AM, Monday, April 12, 2021 at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church, 2300 Sunridge Heights Parkway, Henderson, NV 89052. Thomas will be laid to rest with Military Honors at 12:00 PM at the Southern Nevada Veterans Memorial Cemetery, 1900 Veterans Memorial Drive, in Boulder City, NV 89005.
Due to COVID-19, all government restrictions will be in place, and all guests in attendance will be required to wear a mask.
Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.palmboulderhighway.com for the Fitzgerald family.
Services
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Visitation
Sunday, April 11, 2021
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Rosary Service
Sunday, April 11, 2021
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Funeral Mass
Monday, April 12, 2021
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Graveside Service
Monday, April 12, 2021
Memories
Thomas Candol Fitzgerald
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ADD A MEMORYCharles Fitzgerald
April 11, 2021
Special memories with family that will always be cherished. From your loving nephew and family.
Julie Brim
April 10, 2021
We are so sorry for your loss and send our deepest sympathies. What an amazing life Mr. Fitzgerald led! He is truly an inspiration. We are personally so grateful to him and Mrs. Fitzgerald for bringing our wonderful friend, Catherine into this world. We are so blessed to have her and your wonderful family in our lives.
With much love and gratitude,
Vince, Julie, Ronan and Makenna
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Amy McLaughlin
April 3, 2021
I want to offer my heartfelt condolences to the Fitzgerald family. Thomas was a honorable, outstanding man who was such a positive influence to all who knew him. I know through Catherine how much his beloved wife, children, grandchildren, family and friends meant to him. His love of family, travel, the Philippines and the United States will always be remembered. He served his country with dignity and respect. May God’s peace and love lift you all from sorrow.
With love and respect,
Amy McLaughlin Smith
Jason Bernier
April 3, 2021
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Baby Thomas held by his "yaya" (lower left) and with his older siblings and mama (late 1929)
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The Fitzgerald Brothers
- circa 1938
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...visiting Mama and his siblings (Elizabeth, John, Rudolfo, Romeo) in the Philippines
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...on the way to dance class w/ brother William (holding 45 records and record player)
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Thomas in the Navy (far right)
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Rome, Italy
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Piazza di Trevi in Rome, Italy
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...always popular with the ladies
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...always popular with the ladies
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...with Mama in the Philippines
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...always best dressed at a party! (at bottom w/ bow tie)
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...meeting the Fitzgeralds in Long Island
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...meeting the Fitzgeralds in Long Island
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May 8, 1961
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May 8, 1961
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May 8, 1961
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Josefina on her honeymoon in Baguio, Philipppines May 1961
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Honeymoon in Baguio, Philippines in May 1961
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Honeymoon in Baguio, Philippines in May 1961
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1961 - BS, Transportation Management & Commerce from Golden Gate University in San Francisco
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...always on the dance floor!
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July 1, 2000 in Palo Alto
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sinking his grandson's ships with Battleship
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...the tango for the Father / Daughter dance
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Lake Tahoe
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Princess cruise in Alaska
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with his grandkids in Costa Rica
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...on the dance floor w/ Kim and Margaret
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even the butterflies like him!
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Thomas' surprise 75th Birthday Party at The Aladin in Las Vegas 2004
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Bass Lake, CA
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Sailing Rex Griffin's catamaran in SF Bay
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Thomas with siblings Charles, Frank and Rose
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Tom and & Josie's 25th wedding anniversary 1986
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Thomas' staff hired a singing telegram
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with brother Charles
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with brother William
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Dad consumed too many mai tai's in Hawaii
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w/ grandson Chase
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Royal Caribbean cruise
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with Josie in Nasau, Bahamas
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Golfing at Tommy's birthday party
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...just keeping up w/ the grandkids!
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with Matson colleagues at one of many work parties he hosted
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with Brandon & Carmen
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in Prague, Czech Republic
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Thomas' surprise 75th Birthday Party at The Aladin in Las Vegas 2004
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Norwegian Cruise in South America 2005
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Norwegian Cruise in South America
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with Charles, Evelyn, Nenita and Josie in Rio de Janero, Brazil 2005
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with Charles in Valparaiso, Chile 2005
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off the coast of Chile 2005
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with Charles on South America cruise 2005
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Manila, Philippines
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with Brandon in Manila, Philippines
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scuba diving in Borocay, Philippines - June 2005
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with the grandkids
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with grandson Brandon in Manila, Philippines - June 2005
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August 2011
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celebrating 50 years!
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August 2011
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Princess cruise in Alaska 2011
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walking dear friend Emma Rillera down the isle at her wedding
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at the bottom of the Lombard Street steps in San Francisco 1969
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with baby Catherine 1969
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Panguitch Lake, UT Sept 2020
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Panguitch Lake, UT Sept 2020
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Panguitch Lake, UT Sept 2020
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Costa Rica 2019
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San Diego July 2019
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Cabo San Lucas, Mexico
November 2018
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Cabo San Lucas, Mexico
November 2018
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...the traditional family portrait w/ the fake bookcase!
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...with his favorite neighbors at his 90th birthday dinner! August 2019
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...with 3 beds in the house, they prefer to spoon on the couch
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...with 3 couches and multiple chairs in the house, they prefer to sit together and share 1 chair
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Costa Rica 2019
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Baby Thomas held by his "yaya" (lower left) and with his older siblings and mama (late 1929)
FROM THE FAMILY
The Fitzgerald Brothers
- circa 1938
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...visiting Mama and his siblings (Elizabeth, John, Rudolfo, Romeo) in the Philippines
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...on the way to dance class w/ brother William (holding 45 records and record player)
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Thomas in the Navy (far right)
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Rome, Italy
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Piazza di Trevi in Rome, Italy
FROM THE FAMILY
...always popular with the ladies
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...always popular with the ladies
FROM THE FAMILY
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...with Mama in the Philippines
FROM THE FAMILY
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...always best dressed at a party! (at bottom w/ bow tie)
FROM THE FAMILY
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...meeting the Fitzgeralds in Long Island
FROM THE FAMILY
...meeting the Fitzgeralds in Long Island
FROM THE FAMILY
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May 8, 1961
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May 8, 1961
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May 8, 1961
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Josefina on her honeymoon in Baguio, Philipppines May 1961
FROM THE FAMILY
Honeymoon in Baguio, Philippines in May 1961
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Honeymoon in Baguio, Philippines in May 1961
FROM THE FAMILY
1961 - BS, Transportation Management & Commerce from Golden Gate University in San Francisco
FROM THE FAMILY
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FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
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...always on the dance floor!
FROM THE FAMILY
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July 1, 2000 in Palo Alto
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sinking his grandson's ships with Battleship
FROM THE FAMILY
...the tango for the Father / Daughter dance
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
Lake Tahoe
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
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Princess cruise in Alaska
FROM THE FAMILY
with his grandkids in Costa Rica
FROM THE FAMILY
...on the dance floor w/ Kim and Margaret
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
even the butterflies like him!
FROM THE FAMILY
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Thomas' surprise 75th Birthday Party at The Aladin in Las Vegas 2004
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Bass Lake, CA
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Sailing Rex Griffin's catamaran in SF Bay
FROM THE FAMILY
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Thomas with siblings Charles, Frank and Rose
FROM THE FAMILY
Tom and & Josie's 25th wedding anniversary 1986
FROM THE FAMILY
Thomas' staff hired a singing telegram
FROM THE FAMILY
with brother Charles
FROM THE FAMILY
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with brother William
FROM THE FAMILY
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Dad consumed too many mai tai's in Hawaii
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w/ grandson Chase
FROM THE FAMILY
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Royal Caribbean cruise
FROM THE FAMILY
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with Josie in Nasau, Bahamas
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Golfing at Tommy's birthday party
FROM THE FAMILY
...just keeping up w/ the grandkids!
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with Matson colleagues at one of many work parties he hosted
FROM THE FAMILY
with Brandon & Carmen
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in Prague, Czech Republic
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Thomas' surprise 75th Birthday Party at The Aladin in Las Vegas 2004
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Norwegian Cruise in South America 2005
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Norwegian Cruise in South America
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with Charles, Evelyn, Nenita and Josie in Rio de Janero, Brazil 2005
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with Charles in Valparaiso, Chile 2005
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off the coast of Chile 2005
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with Charles on South America cruise 2005
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Manila, Philippines
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with Brandon in Manila, Philippines
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scuba diving in Borocay, Philippines - June 2005
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with the grandkids
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with grandson Brandon in Manila, Philippines - June 2005
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August 2011
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celebrating 50 years!
FROM THE FAMILY
August 2011
FROM THE FAMILY
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Princess cruise in Alaska 2011
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
walking dear friend Emma Rillera down the isle at her wedding
FROM THE FAMILY
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at the bottom of the Lombard Street steps in San Francisco 1969
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY
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with baby Catherine 1969
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Panguitch Lake, UT Sept 2020
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Panguitch Lake, UT Sept 2020
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Panguitch Lake, UT Sept 2020
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Costa Rica 2019
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San Diego July 2019
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Cabo San Lucas, Mexico
November 2018
FROM THE FAMILY
Cabo San Lucas, Mexico
November 2018
FROM THE FAMILY
...the traditional family portrait w/ the fake bookcase!
FROM THE FAMILY
...with his favorite neighbors at his 90th birthday dinner! August 2019
FROM THE FAMILY
...with 3 beds in the house, they prefer to spoon on the couch
FROM THE FAMILY
...with 3 couches and multiple chairs in the house, they prefer to sit together and share 1 chair
FROM THE FAMILY
Costa Rica 2019