OBITUARY
Robert Berry Hughes
April 23, 1969 – December 26, 2020
Hickory --- Robert Berry Hughes, 51 of Hickory, formerly of Boone NC, gained his angel wings Saturday December 26, 2020. He was surrounded by family, following a brief illness. Robbie, was born on April, 23, 1969, in Watauga County he was the son of Nancy Shull Berry and the Late Robert "Bobby" " Blackberry” Dean Berry Sr. of Boone. In addition to his parents, he was proceeded in death by his Maternal Grandparents Fred, and Jettie Marelle Ward Shull, and his Paternal grandparents Dink, and Blanche Shoemake Berry, 4 Uncles Phil , Billy and Jerry Shull, and JD Franklin and 2 special Cousins Ellis Parlier and Elisha Hicks
Robbie was a 1987 Graduate of Watauga High, he was part owner of Whiteners Florist of Mountain View and a Member of First United Methodist Church of Hickory, where we was very active with the Table of Grace, The Warming Station, Served on several Kitchen Teams, and a Member of The Vine Praise Band. He was a former board member of Casting Bread Ministries, where he often cooked in the soup kitchen. Robbie had a big compassionate heart for the senior citizens, the homeless, and he never met a stranger. He will be missed by his family and many friends.
Survivors in addition to his mother, his husband Mike Hughes of the home, 2 daughters Lindsey Hughes Buff (Joshua) of Vale Linda Duffield, (Jimmy) of Granite Falls, a son Mike Hughes (Kelli) of Denver. A granddaughter Maddie Hughes, of Hickory 2 grandsons TJ Hughes of Denver and Austin Hughes of Hickory; his Special Sister Joanna (JoJo) of Boone. A Brother Phil (Christy) Berry of Maiden; 2 Brother in laws David Hughes, and Tommy Hughes (Shelley) of Hickory; a sister in law Kay Mashburn (Eddie) of Hickory. 2 Special nieces Savannah Berry , and Jettie Lee Hicks and nephews Caleb Hicks, Dallas Hughes and Josh Null (Brittany) 4 Aunts Verdola Coffey of Granite Falls, Gloria Parlier, Maxie Franklin and Pat Shores of Boone. Many Cousins, friends and special fur babies Reggie and Bella.
A Celebration of Life Service will be Held 2pm Thursday December 31, 2020 at First United Methodist Church of Hickory, Officiated by the Rev. Paul Christy, Rev. Jennifer Forrester, Rev Troy Howard. He will lie in state 1 hour prior to the service. Mask and Social distancing are Required. Service will be livestreamed on First United Methodist of Hickory, Facebook page. The Body will lie in State on Wednesday December 30, 2020 at Hickory Funeral Home from 12pm to 5pm. A grave side service will be held at 2pm on January 9, 2021 at Mt. Lawn Cemetery in Boone, officiating will be Rev. Ben Carson, and Rev. Kyle Sigmon. Memorials may be made to The Table of Grace C/O First United Methodist Church of Hickory 311 3rd Avenue NE Hickory NC 28601 The Hughes Family is under the professional care of Hickory Funeral Home 1031 11th Avenue Blvd SE Hickory NC 28602
DONATIONS
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The Table of Grace c/o First United Methodist Church of Hickory
311 3rd Ave. NE, Hickory, NC 28601
Services
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LIE IN STATE
Wednesday, December 30, 2020
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LIE IN STATE
Thursday, December 31, 2020
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A CELEBRATION OF LIFE
Thursday, December 31, 2020
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GRAVESIDE SERVICE
Saturday, January 16, 2021
Memories
Robert Berry Hughes
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ADD A MEMORYJamie Young
January 2, 2021
Mike, sending my deepest and most sincere condolences. You have always been a special person from my childhood and I wanted to send my love and prayers. Love, Jamie
Michael Abernethy
December 31, 2020
This has obviously been a crazy year but words can not ever begin to express what a great servant I know our community has lost here! Robbie was not really family but I certainly considered him like family! He was somebody who you could just tell loved people and would give anyone the shirt off his back! He will surely be missed by all who knew him and knew his great big heart!
Well done good and faithful servant.....truly WELL DONE!
We will miss you but I have no doubt that heaven has gained a great one!
Tj Hughes
December 30, 2020
Pawpaw,
I can't believe you are gone... I am gonna miss you so much...we had so many fun times together...i love you so much!
Love your lil man TJ
Janet Specht
December 30, 2020
Robbie came to a small Bible study at my home One of the things our group was asked to do is be the feet of Christ in Boone. Robbie and I and Morgan and with Mike’s help decided to do supper and Bingo at ivy Terrace Assisted Living once a month. We did that for at least 2 years. Robbie always had folks in stitches and all the folks loved him. He would come back and do special things for them during the month We had 10-12 folks there every month. Robbie had a big heart and a generous and loving soul. He will be missed but will have a loving home with God. Mike and Nancy you are in my thoughts and prayers. Janet
Madison Hughes
December 30, 2020
I love you pawpaw. You were alway so happy and cheerful. You light up every room you walked into. You were always the light of the party. You made people feel better, you were such a good person and you were taken far to soon. I will never forget you. I miss you already. I hope your having a blast in heaven tho. I know you missed your sam and now you get to see him again. I love you l, Rest easy. ❤️
Tara Callan
December 30, 2020
Mike I am so blessed to have met you both and shared such beautiful adventure with you! You and your family are in my prayers. Robbie was such a kind soul with a compassionate heart. Always making me and Tommy laugh! Thanks for the wonderful memories. May God be with you during this heavy time of grief! Much love to you Mike
Maxine Honeycutt
December 30, 2020
Mike and Family-Please know I am sending my deepest sympathies to each of you. Praying that God will wrap you in His arms of comfort and peace and give you strength. Love in Christ.
Sandra (Nan) Meyer
December 29, 2020
I am saddened for your family, but rejoice for Robbie. He was a light on earth and leaves me with fond memories of his generous, giving spirit. May you feel his presence eternally.
Danny Johnson
December 29, 2020
Nancy, Mike, and Family I was saddened to hear of Robbie's passing. I remember well meeting him 35 years ago and will always remember his kindness, huge heart, willingness to help others, and his ability to light up any room with his smile. May he rest in peace and may you be uplifted by his legacy of lifting up those around him.
James Thompson-Whitfield
December 29, 2020
Robbie I’m just so devastated that you’re gone. We shared a large part of our lives together and over the 20+ yrs we maintained our friendship. You had a heart of gold and a laugh and charisma that could turn any room into a celebration. I pray that you rest easy now my friend. ~~ The Thompson-Whitfield Family
Virginia Peurifoy
December 29, 2020
Oh what a servant for what some call the least of these...May his servant's heart encourage us all. Virginia
Lockwood Cornett
December 28, 2020
I can still here that laugh and feel that Special Hug he always gave me!!, and he always said love you "Lockie"!!🥰!!, he was SPECIAL.! God bless all the family, Love you cousin, miss you, Aunt Cleo and Jesus will look after you!! Sending LOVE & BIG HUGS to all of family!! "Lockie" 🙏❤🙌🌹🎇🌹
Kim Beach
December 28, 2020
Such a beautiful soul
Karen Hawfield
December 28, 2020
Fondest memories of Robbie. Never a negative comment, always helpful, always trying to be better. A gentle, loving, giving, and generous God-loving person. He walked the talk. So glad I knew him. My deepest condolences. Will miss him so.
Betty Edmisten Shoemake
December 28, 2020
To Robbie's dear mother, Nancy Berry and family and many friends, I send sincere condolences and love. He was a great friend and will be so missed...
Jerry Coffey
December 28, 2020
Sending prayers and thoughts.
Kim Jones
December 28, 2020
Robbie you were so many things rolled up into one, but most of all you were LOVE, LAUGHTER and LIFE! You gave it all you had, now take in Heaven and the presence of Our Lord. When you get a second, let us know how things are there, for we will be reunited with you one day!
Mike and Family my heart breaks with you. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
God Speed my Friend!
Nancy Lawson
December 27, 2020
My heart is broken... Robbie is one of the sweetest souls I've known. He taught me to ride a bicycle, made me laugh when I was sad and "talked me down" when I was angry. He loved God, people and cooking. This world won't be the same without him ❤
Joanna D’Alonzo Blalock
December 27, 2020
Robbie and I met at Faith Bridge United Methodist Church years ago, cooking and serving lunch once a week.
He was instantly family too me. Such a warm heart and smile. He was so easy to talk to and it made it easier to deal with a loss in my life.
Michael and family, I am so sorry for such a great loss. I will miss him dearly. I pray for peace and comfort for you during this time.
Much Love,
Joanna
Nancy Love Ensminger
December 27, 2020
Robbie was a wonderful person and friend. Terry and I had the pleasure of talking and visiting with him several times. We will never forget him. When he found out that I knew you and that his Grandmother Jettie and my mother(Addie Mae Love) grew up together and were best friends, we talked for a long time. He was so proud that you were going to move with him. He just lit up when he talked about you, and all the things he wanted to do for you. He will be greatly missed. Prayers, thoughts, and love are going your way.
Keri Shoemake Wiley
December 27, 2020
My heart is broken. You've made everyone fortunate enough to know you better people. Your smile and laughter brightened any room you were in. I Love You and will Miss You so much until we're together again in Heaven, My Sweet Cousin.
Kay Mashburn
December 27, 2020
This seems like dream. You was the most kind person i ever meant. Proud to have called you my brother in law! I love you Robbie gonna miss you!Like I said this is not goodbye see you later! Keep watching over us in heaven!
Barbara Donato
December 27, 2020
Words cannot express the pain in my heart for you Mike. I know he was your world, and vice versa. All I can do is to let you know you and he were so loved. I also, went through the agony of grief when my husband died. No words can give you solace. But perhaps the love so many share with you helps a little bit.
You are in my heart as well who all knew and loved him. May God grant you peace.
With love
Barbara Donato
Charles SPARKS-BARLOW
December 27, 2020
My dearest friend Im in so much pain from your loss. Im in shock and cannot put into words. I love you and omg will miss you. The random texts..your laughter..rest easy sweety...
Larry Burleson
December 27, 2020
Mike and family so sad to hear of about Robbie. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and hard days ahead. May God grace be with each one of you. If there’s anything I can do please let me know. We love you very much. I know if Deb was here she would be by your side, she loved you like a brother. May God bless and keep you during this difficult time.
Larry Burleson
Kelli Hughes
December 27, 2020
Dad3,
You were the life of the party. You lit up a room like the Griswold's house. There was never a dull movement with you around. I never knew a person you didn't love with open arms like Jesus did. You loved like Jesus did. You were an amazing dad to Michael, me, Lindsey and Buff. And you made Dad a wonderful husband. You took a huge piece of me with you. I love you so much. Thanks for all the memories and laughs over these years. Love your Daughter, Kelli.
Michael Hughes
December 27, 2020
Robbie i sure cant believe that you are gone...this breaks my heart,you were the most selfless person i ever met...you never met a stranger and had a heart of pure gold...watch over us up there and we will all be reunited again one day...rest in peace old man.....love your son michael!
Kim White
December 27, 2020
Robbie, the Coffey’s and White’s loved you so much. We could always count on you and Mike to go see grandma, flowers in hand with smiles of love and laughter. Thank you for always showing love to your Aunt Verdola and all your family. I will miss you cousin! ❤️❤️
Deanne Cooper-Roettger
December 27, 2020
Robbie always had a heart of gold, an infectious smile and laughter with a personality larger than life! There was never a dull moment when you were around! I can only imagine the laughter as you walk those streets of gold! You will be forever missed but never forgotten!
Nancy, Michael and grandkids are in my thoughts and Prayers during this difficult time!!
Fly High Now Robbie 🕊💔
Brian and Helene Juneau
December 27, 2020
We are so very sorry and heartbroken for your loss. Robbie was such a fun loving, kind, generous, and giving person. He donated so much of his time with Casting Bread Ministries in Boone cooking and helping to feed those in need. He will be missed very much by his friends and the community that he so selflessly served. Our thoughts, love and prayers go out to his spouse, Mike, and family.
Alison Ayers Sandstedt
December 27, 2020
My Dearest Robbie, so many memories from Hardin Park to Watauga High School. You win the most caring award and everyone cared and loves you too. May you rest now and may peace come to your mother, Michael and the rest of your family.
April Graham
December 27, 2020
Robbie was such a sweet spirit in high school. I hope he and his family can find peace. This is heartbreaking.
Becky & Danny Duggan
December 27, 2020
Our heart breaks with you as you navigate through this most difficult time. Robbie was a blessing to us all! May sweet memories ease your heartache. We love you ~ ❤️
Chris H
December 27, 2020
Robbie was the best roommate and friend I could have hoped for. He was always laughing and upbeat and kept you in a good mood. I got to know him through One Perk Avenue and became a regular because of him. That is how it began, but it grew to much more. I will cherish every moment I had with Robbie and will be forever grateful for having him in my life. He was a kind caring person who always made you feel welcome. Rest well, dear friend, you have earned it...
Karen Sullivan
December 27, 2020
Robbie you were loved by so many people you never met a stranger you were always willing to help someone in need you will have your crown in heaven for all your good deeds you did for all. I’m so glad I got to be a part of your life I will dearly miss you! Love you Robbie until we meet again go rest high on that mountain ❤️
Tina Booth
December 26, 2020
Robbie always had me laughing with his antics and his constant dimpled smile. He cared about others and asked for prayer for those he loves frequently. He opened his heart and home to those around him. His family and adorable dogs were his top priority.
I will miss you Robbie and I dread seeing your picture instead of you at our next reunion. Love and hugs to Nancy, Michael, the kids and grandchildren.
Ponza Millaway
December 26, 2020
His lord said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you have been faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.’ This is you my brother! A faithful servant to all who knew you! Godspeed Robbie ♥️ Prayers for peace and understanding to all of you .
Linda Duffield
December 26, 2020
I will miss you dearly. But this goodbye isn't forever it's just until we meet again. I love you! Rest high on that mountain.
Carol Green
December 26, 2020
Dear Michael and the whole Berry-Hughes family,
I remember getting to know Robbie well when we were all volunteering at Casting Bread. Robbie and Mike prepared good, hot lunches while I greeted clients and helped with paperwork.
Robbie, you will be missed by so many people.
Until we meet again in heaven,
Carol Green
Jennifer Lacy
December 26, 2020
So much love and joy came from this beautiful soul! I will miss my friend, but I know he is dancing in the stars. Much love and many prayers for all of Robbie’s family. ❤️
Doug Sigmon
December 26, 2020
So sorry for your loss Mike, wish there was some way to ease your pain. Stay strong.