Wesley Bradford Brown

Wesley Bradford Brown was a man whose life was defined by faith, family, music, and a love that extended far beyond the walls of his home. Above all else, Wesley loved his people deeply and found purpose in using the gifts God gave him to make a difference in the lives of others.

Perhaps nothing tells Wesley’s story more beautifully than the love he shared with his one true love, Cassie. In his wedding vows, Wesley spoke of spending his life not knowing what true love felt like or believing that he mattered to anyone. Then he found Cassie. She was the person who looked beyond his walls, stood beside him through his hardest moments, and made him feel special and loved every single day. On their wedding day, Wesley shared that he knew he loved her long before the words ever left his lips.

Wesley promised to love her for the rest of his life, to protect her, hold her hand, kiss her hello and goodnight, and always make sure she knew how much she meant to him. He promised there would never be a place he wanted to be without her right beside him. Their love was found in the grand moments, but perhaps even more so in the everyday ones: a hand held in the car, snuggling on the couch, letting her cheer as loudly and obnoxiously as she wanted for their boys, and never letting a goodbye or a goodnight go unsaid. Cassie was his princess, his partner, and his one true love. Their story was a testament to the kind of love that makes you feel seen, chosen, safe, and home.

Wesley leaves behind his beloved wife Cassandra Rose Brown. Wesley also leaves behind his sons; Roman Brown, Matthew Moore, Jones Brown, and Jacob Moore as well as his chosen children; Lucie Gomez-Martinez, Jackson and Emma Griffin. Aside from his desire to glorify the Lord through his life, Wesley desired to be the greatest husband and father. He promised to love Roman, Matthew, Jones, Jacob, Lucie, Jackson and Emma his own. His family was his greatest pride and joy.

Wesley is also survived by his brother and sister-in-law, Greg and Regina Brown; his niece, Mallory Bentley, her husband, Colton Bentley, and their daughter, Rubiana Bentley, his great-niece; his nephews, Kaleb Richards and Ashton Richards; and his niece, Mackenzie Richards. He also leaves behind one aunt, an uncle and many beloved cousins, and friends whose lives were touched by his presence.

He also leaves behind his chosen siblings and family who were so much more than friends: Brian and Anna Lowman (Luke, Brooks, and Addy); Taylor and Kyle Arney (Brooklyn and Kole); Alex and Logan Weaver (Parker, Reece, and Beckham); and Justin and Mallory Weaver (Walker and Denver); and Lin and Jamie Ward (Ayden). These relationships were built on a love that made family out of friendship, and the bond they shared with Wesley will forever hold a special place in their hearts.

Wesley was preceded in death by his loving parents, Pamela Robinson Brown and Tommy Ray Brown; his paternal grandparents, Horace Brown, Sr. and Marjory Matthews Brown; his maternal grandparents, Benjamin Robinson and Martha Robinson; and many beloved aunts and uncles.

Wesley’s life was a reminder that family is not always defined by blood, that faith is best shared through how we live, and that the greatest gifts we leave behind are the lives we touch and the love we give.

A 1998 graduate of East Burke High School, Wesley built lifelong relationships, as evidenced by his closest classmate Lin Ward. Wesley believed in working hard, he had been employed with Premium Water since 2012, where he dedicated his work days to supporting his closest friend Justin Weaver.

Wesley was gifted with talent and love for music. As a member of the FAM worship team, he shared his God-given gift of playing guitar, dedicating his time and talent to leading others to Christ. Music was more than something Wesley enjoyed; it was a calling, a ministry, and a way he shared his heart with the world through many different bands and outlets.

Outside of music, Wesley’s favorite place to be was wherever his wife was. Over their marriage wherever Cassie was, Wesley was surely standing beside her, cheering from the sidelines, making sure her chair was carried to all of the boys sporting events and concerts, he made sure she never spent a night without him beside her.

Wesley showed his love through the little things and by always showing up. He found joy in being present, making memories, and supporting the people who meant the most to him. Wesley spent his life using music to point others toward Christ, and his love will continue to be heard in the hearts of those he leaves behind. Though his guitar may be silent here, the song of his life is far from over. He promised Cassie a lifetime of love, and while his time here was not as long as they had hoped, that love does not end. Until they meet again, he will always be her Dubdaddy, and she will forever be his one true love.