Mother,
I'm  going to keep right on talking to you and telling you everything that I think, hope, wish and dream about...just like I always have! Just keep listening, like you always did! Your words always made me smile and gave me great comfort. I now see you in the tree tops as they sway, the butterfly as it floats around beside me, the ladybug that  appeared on my arm  today and the bright ball of sun that we saw as the plane landed. I will continue to look for you and 
I know that you are watching over us! Now, go and have that glorious banquet, flap your wings and dance and sing! You have reached your final destination! We will all be there soon!  Love you forever!  DeeDee

Pat Pat-

I love you and will miss you so much. You were the rock of our family. We will honor you by carrying on as best we can and loving like you loved. You should have seen all the people that came out to the memorial service. You had so many friends!  Vella and I spent the whole night together. She loved you dearly. Watch over Marcia and Mom and Phil. Give them all the signs you can that you're okay. Tell Denny we love him, and we will all see you again soon! 

Love you,
Natalie

Mom, I will miss you everyday of my life but find comfort in knowing we will be together one day and oh what a joyous day that will be. In the meantime I take comfort in knowing you are reunited with Denny, maybe you can find Jamal and Toby and have 2 dogs! For now rest easy my pretty mommy, I love you for eternity??????

Pat always had a big smile and a loving hug.  She made my brother Denny, so extremely happy and not only was a great sister-in-law, but a good friend. We were truly blessed when she became part of our life and family.
Love Harry and Joan(Phelps) Williams

There are no words to make things better.  I do hope knowing that your Mom is with Denny and that they will both be watching over all of you will help ease the pain.  Never stop talking to your Mom because she'll always be listening.
Love Dad and Dani

Marcia, Denise and Philip, your Mom was one of the sweetest, kindest individuals I have ever met and a great friend to me. I truly hope she knows how very much her friendship meant to me.  She loved her family very much and only God knows why he chose to take her from us so soon.  Pat will forever be the friend I carry in my heart. My love and prayers are with all of you.
In love and friendship,
Joan Higbea

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.


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Patricia A. Phelps

November 20, 1939 – April 10, 2014

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