Joseph "Buddy" de Armas

Joseph Armando “Buddy” de Armas was born in Caldwell, Texas to Joseph Ivan de Armas and Nellie Greatorex. Raised in Houston, he attended Waltrip High School and was a longtime resident of the Oak Forest / Garden Oaks area.

Buddy was preceded in death by his parents and siblings Ivan Gregory de Armas and Mary Linda Matandos. He is survived by his devoted life partner Mary Angelone, his daughter Lindsey de Armas, grandchildren Tyler Moquin, Ryleigh Sederlin, Gavin de Armas, and great-granddaughter Lilah Marie Ray. He also leaves behind siblings Thomas, Daniel, Deborah, Lulu, Renee, Yvonne, their spouses, and a wide circle of nieces, nephews, and extended family who cherished him.

Nicknamed “Buddy” by his grandmother, he carried that name with warmth and generosity throughout his life. He proudly served in the United States Air Force and later became a beacon of hope in the recovery community. After overcoming his own battles with addiction, Buddy celebrated 38 years clean—a milestone he wore with humility and pride. He often said, “I will be forever grateful for such a precious gift that was so freely given to such a hopeless drug addict.”

Buddy poured his heart into helping others through Narcotics Anonymous, traveling to speak, sponsoring countless individuals, and founding the halfway house Without Parallel. His honesty, compassion, and ability to connect with people in their darkest moments made him a lifeline to many.

Outside of his service to others, Buddy was a man of many talents. A skilled hunter and fisherman, a motorcycle adventurer with Mary by his side, and a self-made businessman who could fix just about anything. From air conditioning systems to life’s toughest problems, Buddy had a knack for making things work.

He lived with gratitude and grace, reminding those around him to “Be grateful for the green lights.” His legacy is one of redemption, love, and unwavering support—a life lived without parallel.