Archway Academy H.S. Graduation 
May, 2019.  Braden could relate to Kirk’s struggles. He stayed in touch with him and really cared! God Bless you Kirk! You are now at peace with Our Lord & Savior.🙏🏼
The Northcutt Family sends love ❤️

The fidget ring Kirk gave me became more than just a ring. He gave it to me because we both knew what it felt like to struggle. It became a small symbol of comfort and a reminder that we always had each other, even in our darkest moments.

The second ring, with two hands holding each other, was always Kirk’s favorite. To us, it represented the unbreakable bond we shared. The way we were always there to lift each other up through every joy, every challenge, and with an endless love that never wavered. It reminds me that no matter where life took us, our hands and our hearts were always connected.

Kirk I will always love you endlessly. I miss you more than words can say. I will wear these rings and carry your memory with me for the rest of my life.

My handsome friend . I love you more than I can express , I’m forever grateful to be your friend .In this life and the next. Through our struggles on earth , you never failed me as a friend .  I miss you deeply , our FaceTime calls and the blessing of being connected even miles apart . I pray you’re at peace , in no pain the flesh held against us , and I know you’re in heaven looking down on us 💜 I love you kirk . im gonna get better while you’re watching over us 🪽 I love you . #wedorecover 💜

Kirk and Mathew were the first kids my son met when we moved to the Hunters Creek area.  Jaylen bonded with both brothers immediately and spent day after day over at Mrs Heidi’s and Mr Tom’s house.  So many summer nights Kirk, Mathew, Jaylen, and even sometimes Kira would go out to “rescue” frogs from the backyard.  Between swimming, frog rescues and soccer in the front yard there was never a dull moment.  Kirk was like a big brother to Jaylen and we will miss him immensely.   To Tom, Heidi, and Mathew, I have no doubt you will all carry on the free and loving spirit Kirk always embodied.  Kirk and your whole family will always hold a special place in our hearts.  Your family was a special light for Jaylen, Kira and myself throughout the time we spent in Houston and helped us create memories that we will never forget. We love you Kirk.

I was really into techno/ house music.  One of my favorite memories is how he would look for music for me. It wasn't his thing, but I was his thing, so he curated this little soundtrack of love just for my ears. I am a very uppity, groovy person. Would always tell him about the day I found my “groove”, the “groove of the universe”  I was very mentally exhausted one day, and he pulled me up off the couch by both hands. Rhythmically along with the beat, letting go of one hand snapping his fingers, then to the next. I was a tad resistant but I was going along with it too! And he and I danced together to cheer me up. We danced for about 3-4 songs before my son had gotten up and started grooving along with us. Sure enough all 3 of us danced in a little circle together. I thought it was the silliest thing but the sweetest thing.

Kirk had made me feel a way inside I’ve never felt. He made me feel an actual love. I remember the exact night, the exact moment. My entire body went tense, and I was scared because I had no idea what was happening. Kirk was my favorite part of this whole experience. He was the experience. 

There are so many more things I want to add, so many more things I want to tell all of you. But words, for some reason, won’t form things won’t come across; I can’t explain it. 

Every night I’ve said good night, Kirk I love you. Last night my son said it along with me. Kirk would make this noise “oOoOo” and depending on his mood or the emotion associated with the situation he would make it a sad “OOooo” or a happy “OOoooOO” and right after me and my son said “good night Kirk I love you” my son said “oooo” but it was an absolutely sweet, loving-sounding one.

Kirk, Kirk was something different. The good kind of different. You know the kind of difference that you can’t even say is different from something because it falls into no category. You didn't compare Kirk to the world. You compared the world to Kirk, and suddenly, the world looked a little more ordinary, while he just looked like the only real thing in it.
 
I love Kirk, I understand Kirk, I took the time to see him inside and out. I studied Kirk; I made it my job to get inside his body and learn who, what, when, why, and how behind every thought, every decision, every action. And I did, I was not patient with him, nor would I ever get mad at him. I’m not a quick-to-anger person, and Kirk knew. I keep speaking in the past tense as if he’s gone; he’ll never be gone. 

Kirk had gotten me some candy from the store right around the corner from his apartment on West Branch. He had asked me what I wanted I had told him to surprise me. He brought me home a Reese’s stick, and oh my Lanta, that candy. I don’t know what it is about that candy, but I was just obsessed with it. I mean, I craved that candy bar so much it was sick! But he kept getting me that candy almost every day, and he created an addiction to this candy bar. I mean, from the moment I got home, I just wanted this candy bar. I don’t know if I had trauma-bonded to this candy, but holy crap. I had ended up not liking the candy anymore, just something about it, a few months ago. Someone who was very abusive towards me was eating it, and I hated it ever since. But Thursday night, after leaving Kirk’s parents' house, I got that candy again. Oh my, it was like heaven on earth. It tasted just like the first one Kirk ever got for me. I know this sounds silly, and you’re probably thinking it’s just a candy bar. But no, it’s a candy bar that the person who made me feel happiness I’ve never felt before got me.

I learned that I prefer Cool Ranch Doritos after a car ride with Kirk. We were in Bayfield, CO, on the way to a general store for some snacks. I remember how that car ride felt, carefree with no judgement or fears. We could just be our silly, friendly selves in there and be grateful for the other person’s company. He was also singing along with Mo Bamba at the time, and even though I didn’t join him, I’m glad that he was having a blast with a song I loved.

He taught me the value of honest friendship, and I hope I can share that with others however I can.

I will miss you my buddy. 


Cool photo of Kirk, when he Hayden  and I were making late night pancakes. Great times.

From the day you met me, you took me in like I was already your brother. You looked after me, taught me more than you probably knew, and never stopped showing up. That’s just who you were.
I’m sick that you’re gone. Life won’t be the same without you.
Thank you for everything, Kirk. I love you brother.

My friend. My brother.  I love you infinitely. Rest In Power. 
Love you Kirk.

The Tucson Kirkpatricks extend deepest sympathy to Kirk's family and friends. You are in our prayers at this difficult time.

Kirk. The day I met you I knew there was something special about you. Maybe it was your great personality or the way we connected so quickly. From that day forward we spent almost every day together. Every one of those days are a blessing to me. You came to work with me - which made it more fun, we binged movies or would sing and dance to lil peep, juice wrld, lil uzi or anything else. Our late night slushie runs nearly every night. Going to the beach during night to listen to the waves and play fun childhood games with other friends like duck duck goose or tag. Watching you come up with all of your new clothing idea, business ideas and more. You made my life better. I will always remember you. I've gained a guardian angel. I love you.

I love you more than life. You’re a blessing. You were my best friend. We spent every waking moment together for 3 months. I love you kirk

Heidi and Tom you two are amazing parents. Though I never got the privilege to know Kirk personally.  His parents have been a beacon of who Kirk was in his physical life. Kirks impact he had on many missions to further the Lord's kingdom, Heidi and I was talking about a couple days before Kirk was gone. 
Life is about your journey. Don't take it a day at a time, take it a min at a time. Enjoy those precious  moments. 
 Kirks passing has helped my own son in his growth of how sudden change can affect those close to you. His life was short, but his legacy will live on through his family and what he did for others.  Our hearts are hurting with you all. Knowing Kirks story will impact others is something to cherish!  His story has made a more clear understanding  for my own son in his moments of confusion, about life.  An how precious life is to those around you. I believe the Lord sees these moments and what impact Kirk has made on many around him, even those he never got the chance to encounter in this life.
Kirk may not be physically here but his testimony is a powerful one and will continue to build others known by his family and friends. Tom and Heidi thank you for being a part of my life and sharing stories about Kirk and what a sweet soul he was. May the Lord comfort you in this time and as the future continues. 
With all Love from your Colorado,
Singletary family ❤️

My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Kirk.  
May you forever cherish his memory from beyond space and time, and may his soul rest in peace.

The Queen Bees have cherished our special group ever since we first met—playing tennis together, sharing countless meals, and vacationing side by side. Kirk, or as we affectionately called him, “Kurrkey,” was always the Pied Piper of the group. All of the kids followed their fearless leader everywhere. Whether it was around the neighborhood, through restaurants, to the "secret" spots at The Racquet Club, or all over Vail, they wanted to be wherever Kurrkey was.

The kids shared incredible adventures and loved one another like siblings. We spent so many wonderful summers together and created memories that we will treasure forever. They adored their Kurrkey and could spend hours playing, swimming, and laughing together.

The moms may or may not have always been paying as much attention as we should have, but we always knew the kids were safe with Kurrkey. He had a special way of looking out for everyone.

One of our favorite memories is of Conner, who was only three years old at the time, insisting that he wanted to spend the night with Kurrkey. I remember thinking, “Um, he still wears a diaper!” But none of that mattered. Conner simply wanted to be with the Pied Piper—whether they were watching movies, playing games, or just spending time together. The kids never wanted to miss a moment when they were all together.

We will love Kurrkey forever, and he will be deeply missed by all of us. His kindness, spirit, and the joy he brought to our lives will remain in our hearts always. We are so grateful for the memories, the laughter, and the love he shared with all of us. He will never be forgotten. Love, Staci, Jamie, Parker, Emma, Ally and Conner.

This was on Kirk’s 21st birthday. I’m so grateful I got to spend this birthday with you and several more after it. One thing about Kirk was that he could make any moment feel special. He had the kind of smile that made everyone around him smile too, and a heart that was bigger than most people ever knew. Looking at this photo, I see someone who was loved deeply, who brought so much laughter into the lives of those around him, and who had a way of making people feel welcome exactly as they were. I’m so grateful I got to be part of so many memories with you. Your light, your kindness, and your beautiful spirit will never be forgotten. What a gift it was to know you.

My deepest condolences to Heidi Tom and Matthew may God hold your fragile heart's.  I only knew Kirk for a short moment, he was a very respectful caring person knowing someone a lifetime does change knowing a person for  a season I'll never forget hearing him talking with his grandpa!

Just a simple photo of us, but it perfectly captures our friendship. Kirk was one of my best friends. Someone who could always make me laugh, listen without judgment, and remind me that I wasn’t alone. He was one of the most beautiful souls I have ever known. Kirk was incredibly creative, artistic, thoughtful, and passionate. He had a way of making people feel seen and cared for, and his kindness left a lasting impact on everyone fortunate enough to know him. His smile could light up a room, and his presence brought comfort, laughter, and joy to so many. I will forever be grateful for every memory we shared, every conversation we had, and every moment of friendship he gave so freely. I miss him more than words can express and will carry him in my heart always.

This was one of those simple days that ended up meaning so much. We spent time together at his parents’ house, talking, laughing, and just enjoying each other’s company. Looking back, those quiet moments are the ones I cherish most.

Kirk picked me up for dinner and a movie that night. What I remember most isn’t where we went, but the time we spent together. Some of my favorite conversations happened in the car, talking about life, dreams, and everything in between. I would give anything for one more drive with my best friend.

One of my favorite memories with Kirk. We spent the day together getting tattoos, laughing, talking, and making memories like we always did. Some of my favorite moments with him were never anything extravagant. Just spending time together and enjoying each other’s company.

OBITUARY

Kirk Foster Hedrick

May 3, 2002 – May 24, 2026

Earthman Funeral Directors

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