OBITUARY
Marcy Taub-Wessel
Passed away on January 6, 2021
Marcy Taub-Wessel, passed away Wednesday, the 6th of January 2021, in Houston Texas. A native Houstonian, Mrs. Taub-Wessel graduated from St. John’s School, earned her BA, Magna Cum Laude from Southern Methodist University. Marcy went on to the Southern Methodist University Graduate School of Business to earn a MS in Real Estate as well as an MBA, with a Finance concentration. Marcy was President of MetCo Capital Corporation. She founded and operated several successful businesses. Active in other realms of commerce, Mrs. Taub-Wessel also served on the Board of Directors of one of the Texas Commerce branch banks. She continued her family’s deep-rooted tradition of philanthropic activities in the community and was respected as one of Houston’s active philanthropists and humanitarians. She was particularly passionate with her time and financial support of numerous charitable organizations, various institutions of higher education, museums, hospitals, medical research endeavors, libraries, and the arts. In honoring her beloved mother and father, Mrs. Taub-Wessel organized with her two brothers a gift of a new gymnasium and theater bearing the name of their parents, The Carol and Henry J. N. Taub Gymnasium and Theater to Deer Park ISD for the new San Jacinto Elementary School. Additionally, Mrs. Taub-Wessel, together with her two brothers made a donation of historic significance to St. John’s School where she, her brothers and son all attended and their father was a trustee of the school for 14 years. The donation to and opportunity for St. John’s was made in honor of their mother and father to enable the establishment of the school’s new West Campus, named the Carol and Henry J. N. Taub Campus.
Mrs. Taub-Wessel was known for her commitment to duty and service for the Houston community. Marcy has been proud to serve on the Board of Directors or as a Trustee of the Menil Collection, Alley Theatre, Contemporary Arts Museum, UNICEF-Houston/Galveston U.S. Committee, Society for the Performing Arts, John P. McGovern Museum of Health & Medical Science. Taking a personal interest with her commitment to the various foundations, she served as Vice-Chairman of the Harris County Hospital District Foundation and as a trustee for each of the Baylor Medical Foundation, the Taub Foundation, and the Pauline Sterne Wolff Memorial Foundation. Mrs. Taub-Wessel also has been proud to serve on a variety of other organizations, including Methodist Hospital Society for Leading Medicine. Marcy immersed herself in all of life, including the outdoors, horseback riding, skiing, tennis and basketball. First and foremost, she loved her dear friends and most of all her family for whom she has always been fiercely devoted.
Mrs. Taub-Wessel was predeceased by mother, Carol Ellen Joseloff Taub, father, Henry J. N. Taub, brother H.Ben Taub, and uncle, John Ben Taub. She is survived by brother, Henry J. N. Taub II; her husband, Thomas Freimuth Wessel; her sons, Henry Taub Wessel and Maxwell Elliot Wessel; her daughter, Lauren Elisabeth Wessel; her cousins Bernhard L. Kohn Jr, Bernhard L. Kohn III, Kathryn K. Rieger, Kimberly M. Frezados, Elizabeth A. Kohn and Michael B. Massius; her Aunt Carolyn Taub, John B. Taub, Jr., Casey C. Taub, Risa Taub McDonald, and Margie Taub Brown.
The Funeral Service will be private for family only Sunday the 10th of January.
In lieu of usual remembrances, memorial tributes may be directed to the Carol and Henry J. N. Taub Memorial Library or the Carol and Henry J. N. Taub Campus at St. John's School, 2401 Claremont Lane., Houston, TX, 77019; the Ben Taub and Henry J. N. Taub Wall of Memories at the DePelchin Children's Center, 4950 Memorial Dr., Houston, TX, 77007; the Carol and Henry J. N. Taub Gymnasium and Theater at San Jacinto Elementary School, 1302 E. 13th St.,Deer Park, TX 77536; H. Ben Taub Department of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation at Baylor College of Medicine, 7200 Cambridge St., Houston, TX 77030; Henry J.N. Taub Department of Emergency Medicine at Baylor College of Medicine, Ben Taub Hospital, 1504 Taub Loop, Houston, TX 77030.
DONATIONS
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The Carol and Henry J. N. Taub Memorial Library or the Carol and Henry J. N. Taub Campus at St. John's School
2401 Claremont Lane, Houston, TX 77019
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The Ben Taub and Henry J.N. Taub Wall of Memories at the DePelchin Children's Center
4950 Memorial Dr., Houston, TX 77007
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The Carol and Henry J.N. Taub Gymnasium and Theater at San Jacinto Elementary School
1302 E. 13th St., Deer Park, TX 77536
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H. Ben Taub Department of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation at Baylor College of Medicine
7200 Cambridge St., Houston, TX 77030
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Henry J.N Taub Department of Emergency Medicine, Ben Taub Hospital
1504 Taub Loop, Houston, TX 77030
Services
No public services are scheduled at this time. Receive a notification when services are updated.
Memories
Marcy Taub-Wessel
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ADD A MEMORYCarl White
January 20, 2021
She was a true blessing to her family and the community. I have fond memories of her and all the rest of the Taub family at SJS. Her dad was a prince and the apple did not fall far from the tree.
Liz Wessel
January 20, 2021
Sending so much love to you all. We are so lucky to have had Marcy in our lives and in our family.
Love,
Liz
Steve Massed
January 19, 2021
Tom, Max, Lauren, and Henry,
Stacy and I send our deepest condolences for you loss. From Tom's stories it was always easy to tell that Marcy was an incredible, fun-loving person that was always surrounded by family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
-Steve and Stacy Massed
Beverly Rogers Singleton
January 18, 2021
Kitch: Our prayers are with you and family during this time. The Taub family has been very special to our family and we were saddened to hear of Marcy's passing. -The Family of Texas Ranger Captain James F. "Pete" Rogers
Clete Buckaloo
January 18, 2021
Kitch
My condolences to you and your family please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Respectfully
Clete Buckaloo
Texas Ranger Captain
Michael DeBakey
January 17, 2021
Kitchi;
My sincere condolences for your loss. Marcy was a bright, intelligent vivid girl, and then grew into an even better woman. She will be dearly missed and we are all very sorry.
John and Margaret Omohundro
January 16, 2021
Kitch and family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss and offer our deepest condolences. You all will remain in our thoughts and prayers,
John and Margaret Omohundro
Florence Gautier-Winther
January 15, 2021
Marcy,
I will always remember you as a beautiful, elegant and smart lady.
You were so discrete and reserved that it took me a few years to find out one day that you could speak fluent French with a charming accent.
That special moment will always be my best memory of you.
Love,
Florence
Todd and JoAnna Brooks
January 13, 2021
Henry, Tom, Kitch
We're deeply sorry for your loss. Marcy was incomparable. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this time. May you find grace and healing and hope.
With Deepest Sympathy,
The Brooks Family
John Tsacrios
January 13, 2021
My deepest condolences to Tom, Henry, Kitch, and all the Family.
Marcy's generosity of spirit on behalf of many philanthropic causes in Houston and worldwide will always be remembered. As a Founding Member of our UNICEF Board Marcy helped to raise significant awareness and lifesaving funds for children and families in need throughout the developing world.
May Marcy's memory be Eternal and a blessing forever and ever.
John M. Tsacrios, Jr.
Founding Regional Director of UNICEF from 1982 to 2008
Lynn Wyatt
January 13, 2021
I will miss Marcy for all the things she did for Houston and beyond. A beautiful girl, inside and out. With all my love to the family, Lynn Wyatt
Melanie Gray
January 12, 2021
I had the honor and privilege of meeting Marcy, her father and brothers, shortly after moving to Houston in the mid-1980s in connection with a case involving oil & gas assets in South Texas. Through various strategy meetings attended by all the Taubs in preparation for a 5th Circuit argument, I came to know Marcy as whip-smart, accomplished, passionate, vivacious, capable of being both serious and fun, and fiercely committed to her family and the values they stood for. And loyalty was one of them. I did not win the case; Marcy and the rest of the family nonetheless treated me always with kindness, generously expressing thanks for my efforts, and genuinely appearing interested in me and my family. Little did I know that some time later, my husband – Mark Wawro – and I would end up living across the street from Marcy and Tom. We welcomed each other with open arms; Marcy often inviting our daughter over to play with Henry in those early days. Our paths continued to cross at numerous celebrations for organizations we both supported, and I had the pleasure of watching Marcy and Tom out there on the dance floor, cutting it up with the best of them. Stunning, impeccable, graceful, and full of joie de vivre. At those times, I felt I had a front-row seat for the love they shared. Mark served on the Board of the Menil with Marcy and so admired and respected her relentless efforts in support of it. The last time I saw Marcy was on December 21st when we gathered on our common street looking for the “Christmas Star.” Beautiful as ever, enchanted with a child’s delight at what we were about to see, and enthusiastic about the future. I will never forget it and consider myself fortunate to have this last shared experience. It is truly hard for me to capture and express the regard I will always hold for Marcy and her family. Houston is a better place because of Marcy , and I am a richer – and better -- because of her legacy.
Beth Young
January 12, 2021
Dear Kitch,
I was so sorry to hear the sad news about Marcy. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers; and I hope your loving memories of her will give you comfort.
Ellen Wessel
January 12, 2021
Dear Tom, Lauren, Max and Henry, Among the many hundreds of people mourning for you, your cousin in central Virginia is one of them. Max, thanks to your wonderful playlist, I’m getting to laugh, cry and dance with Marcy’s spirit.
Love, Ellen (Wessel, Orange, VA)
Anna Cleary
January 11, 2021
To my marvellous and magical Texan friend Marcy.
I was so lucky to have met you years ago with my mother and your father.
We shared such fun times together whether in Aspen, Houston or Sydney, Australia.
I still love my handmade branded cowboy boots from Houston.
To have beautiful sons close in age has been a journey that we were able to share across the world. A highlight being able to come to Henry's Bar Mitzvah in Houston. What a great party!
I will so miss your smile, laugh, incredible generous spirit and true joy in life.
My love to all the family at this sad sad time.
Anna, Ash, Sam and Amber Cleary xoxo January 2021
Babs Veyna
January 11, 2021
Marcy was a beautiful lady both inside and out. I worked with her on several events in Houston and always a joy!
Prayers to all the family.
Emily Farr
January 11, 2021
To Tom, Henry, Max, and Lauren,
We hold you in our hearts during this awful time. We love you and are here for you whenever you need to talk.
Love,
Emily, Dave, Calvin and Holland
Xavier Paz
January 11, 2021
We are very saddened to hear about Mrs. Marcy Taub-Wessel's passing. Our thoughts and deepest sympathy are with her family and especially his brother Mr. Henry J.N. Taub II.
We are sending healing prayers and comforting thoughts.
Xavier Paz, CEO
Ambulance USA
Cheryl Davis
January 11, 2021
I was deeply saddened to hear of the Marcy's passing. My Prayers are with you and family. May her memories bring you and family comfort and peace.
Love and Blessings to all,
Cheryl Davis
Pete Beale
January 11, 2021
Tom,
My sincere condolences to you, your children, you and your wife's family. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Life can be very hard and just know you have many who care and love you. Your KPMG family is here as always to support you. Whatever you need just ask, even if it is just a call to laugh or smile.
Pete Beale
Anthony F. Cutugno
January 10, 2021
To Henry Taub Wessel, Mr. Thomas Freimuth Wessel, and the Taub family.
Francesca and I send our heartfelt condolences to your entire family. Words and prayers can console and help, but they cannot fill the void your family is feeling. With time, joyful memories replace pain and sorrow. Celebrate Mom/Marcy's life and her life lessons by keeping her always close to your heart.
With deepest sympathy, Anthony F. Cutugno and Francesca Giangrasso
Debra Smith Long
January 10, 2021
Dear Tom, Henry, and Kitch,
My heart is heavy knowing Marcy has crossed into the arms of angels. Her life was woven into mine from the Houston City Club with exercise and then many outings when we were single ladies enjoying the arts in Houston. My first time skiing was at Buttermilk staying with Marcy with a few subsequent trips to follow. On a lovely Sunday afternoon boating trip on that glorious wooden boat with Mr. Taub and Marcy did I meet Dr. David Baskin, new to Houston then and also along for the ride. Dr. Baskin ended doing surgery on my mother, and I believe that “chance” meeting was meant to be. Marcy’s magic and zeal was infectious to all in her presence - her smile and generosity planted in your heart and mind forever. The trajectory of some of my life events would not have been the same without her, and I am forever grateful to have ever called her a friend. Praying for your comfort and healing in all of the days ahead. With deepest sympathy, Debra Smith Long
Joe Roady
January 10, 2021
I am deeply saddened by Marcy's passing. The Taub family will always be a part of my fond memories of the many contacts we had over the years. My sincerest condolences to the Taub and Wessel families.
Laura SoRelle
January 10, 2021
Having had the great privilege of knowing Marcy and her beloved family for many years, my heart is broken for Tom, "Little" Henry, and Kitchy. As a young girl, she was a competitive athlete and loyal friend. As an adult, she was a beautiful, intelligent and kind lady. The only comfort I find with her loss here is the thought that she is now with her beloved and doting father, mother, and adoring brother. She was a treasure.
Sandra Kamrath
January 10, 2021
Dear Tom, Henry and Kitchy,
We are deeply saddened to hear of Marcy's passing. Her boundless love of and dedication to her family, friends and community and her incredible generosity and vivacious spirit will be greatly missed.
With love and heartfelt sympathy,
Sandra and Jack Kamrath
Lorraine Jacobs
January 10, 2021
I am deeply saddened to hear of Marcys passing. She was a lovely, generous lady. Prayers for her family Lorraine Jacobs
Jennifer Cook Woodson Dennis Frely
January 10, 2021
Marcy was my role model for much. I knew her father better. Marcy was what I aspired to be in terms of providing pater support. I know this is supposed to be all cheerful and so forth but Marcy was the only female I thought I would finally be able to share all the prop-up anecdotes as regards filial support of aging Houston development giants... in total sororal confidence. I left Houston long ago but the relationship between her family and American General - when it was Gus Wortham's, and then my maternal grandfather Ben Woodson's "show," was extremely close functionally. I sobbed for two hours upon hearing this terrible news - and I am considered a bit chilly. I am so grateful Marcy had the best statistical demise; I grew up studying morbidity and mortality charts. I walked away from a never hugely supported five-year relationship with a man I truly loved because her father asked me to do so; Henry J.N.'s reasoning made fantastic sense. Of course, what parents calculate and modern life doesn't always march in step. I dearly wish Marcy and I had enjoyed an opportunity to discuss patriarchal support roles in a nearly forgotten era, pre-Internet..before her surprise passing. We both attended st. John's School and knew many people in common. Marcy was my role model in very many ways and in this case...I feel we're all a bit robbed on the proper farewell process...but Marcy's passing was in fact a quick and graceful ending to the best daughter's life...in Houston history. And I knew Miss Ima Hogg well, too! Love to Kitch and everyone else who loved and admired Marcy. A worthy and reliable human being in all ways.
Laura Holmes Gruy
January 9, 2021
What a great loss! Marcy was such an incredible civic maven in Houston for the arts, medical research, education and more. But I loved Marcy as the cool sister to H. Ben and Kitch, the smart as a whip MBA student who knew how to have fun in Dallas, the helpful thoughtful neighbor in Aspen , the super proud mother, and the fun girl friend. This photo is 1977. Marcy is on horseback at your cattle ranch. Always her family first. I send love and prayers to you.
Fay Ann Lee
January 9, 2021
Dear Tom, Henry and Kitchy,
I've known Marcy since I was a teenager in Houston during the height of her tennis days, and we've stayed in touch all these years in both Houston and NYC. We were looking forward to meeting in L.A. with both our boys at USC. She was like an older sister, a mentor and finally a dear friend that I always looked up to. She touched countless lives and always spoke so proudly about the three of you. She was an amazing woman and the world is less of a place now without her. I will miss her forever, and she will never be forgotten.
Sending you solace and strength at this unfathomable time.
Fay
Theodore Franklin
January 9, 2021
To the family:
There are no words to tell you how sorry we are for your loss. Marcy touched so many lives for the good. She was an amazing lady, and we feel privileged to have known her. Please know you are continually in our thoughts and prayers. During this time of bereavement, we are thinking about you and praying for comfort for your family. It is our hope you feel surrounded by much love and solace. We are missing Marcy along with you...
With heartfelt sympathy,
Theo, Swan, Jarrett, and Jordan Franklin
Lauren Keating
January 9, 2021
I weep and mourn with all who have lost this amazing woman. Never did Marcy not share about the two main loves of her life, Tom and Henry. I loved how our times together were consistently interrupted by phone calls made to or from her brother, Kitch...a true loving relationship between siblings. Who Marcy was on the outside was magnified of she was on the inside. I’ve included a photo of Marcy and Tom...one that is not posed but organic. Marcy leaves behind an incredible legacy, and this picture reveals the side of Marcy that was whimsical, classy, and fun; she always knew how to have a good time and enjoyed the people she was blessed with. Her presence and bright smile will be greatly missed.
Marcy, until we meet again, enjoy reuniting with your loved ones. I know they’ve been waiting for you and were ready for your arrival.
With much love,
Lauren Keating
Michael Wessel
January 9, 2021
All our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Marcy will be remembered as a devoted wife, mother and family member and deeply committed to making this world a better place.
Joan Wessel
January 9, 2021
To Tom and Henry and family:
My thoughts are with you now as you say goodbye to Marcy for the last time. With love, Joan
Shayna Andrews
January 8, 2021
Beautiful woman, inside and out. My heart goes out to all of the family. May her memory always be a blessing.
Love,
Shayna