Mommy, I will forever love you and miss you so much. I miss brushing your hair and calling you pretty, your heart-shaped pancakes, your incredible creativity and artistic abilities. I miss your kindness and love, your beautiful smile and your sweet voice. I miss you. You were the greatest thing I could've ever had in my life, I'm so thankful to God for making you my mother. You made my childhood so happy and bright each day, dressing up Bisma & I in cute little outfits, always caring about us in each and every single little way, cooking dinner for us even though it wasn't your favorite and you didn't think you were the best at it; but I always loved it. You and your mashed potatoes will forever have a special place in my heart. I can only dream of a life where you're still here and you & Daddy could have raised us together. I'm still so sad that you're gone, you were such an amazing, incredible person and mother. I love you so much

Mi querida Maye:

11 años sin ti, para mi parece que fue ayer, te llevo siempre en mi mente y corazón. Me quedan los dulces recuerdo y el amor que diste incondicionalmente.  Eres una bella alma y hermosa persona,  desde aquí te mando un fuerte abrazo hasta el cielo. Te quiero y extraño muchísimo bonita

Diez años sin ti
Ya son diez años desde que te fuiste, desde que el destino te llevo a un lugar mejor donde se cumplen los sueños y siempre eres feliz. Se cumplen diez años desde la última vez que te vi, desde la última vez que escuche tu voz, desde la última vez que te dije adiós sin saber que ya no te vería mas. 
Quiero contarte que te extraño, me gustaría hablar contigo, pasar horas juntas sin decir nada pero sintiendo tu presencia. Me gustaría tanto volver a mi infancia cuando compartíamos tardes de juego, andar en bicicleta o jugando algún juego de mesa.  Extraño tanto tu sonrisa que por donde ibas nos iluminabas la vida a todos. 
Aunque hayan pasado diez años, para mí es como si te hubieses ido ayer. A veces, por las noches veo tu foto, hablo contigo, sólo espero que estés bien, sólo espero volver a verte y que me estés esperando. 
Esto te lo dedico a ti, mi preciosa Mayela, y hoy me miras desde el cielo. Siempre, siempre te llevaré conmigo, en mi pensamiento y corazón. Te quiero y extraño muchísimo

Hi Mommy. I miss you so much, I really wish you were still here. It’s hard growing up without you. I love you.

Hey, Mommy. It still feels like it's only been seven years without you. Or maybe I just can't move on. Either way, I miss you I miss you I miss you. And I love you so much. I'll never stop thinking about you, or crying about you, missing you, or loving you as the years pass.

I love you so much, Mommy!! I wish you were here right now. I miss you so much <3

Happy birthday in Heaven my sweet friend!!  I miss you every day!!  You are forever in my heart!!!

My little Sister, I miss you so much and Love you forever~

We all miss you dear sister !!  there is not one day that goes by that you are not in my mind amd I'm sure I can speak the same for everyone that loved you.  I constantly feel your presence. You were a shining star in all of our hearts and that beautiful light will never go away. 
Love you with all my heart and miss you so much :/
Rosita - as you liked to call me

My Dear May:
“Tears....There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.”
Miss you and love you deeply.
Mire

Missing you every day my sweet friend!  We were born exactly 9 months apart, in two different countries. ..but sisters at heart forever.  
There are so many things I wish I had said to you the last day we spoke.  I wish I could hear your laugh and tell you that I love you just one more time. 
Happy Birthday Loca!

Aun recuerdo como si fuera ayer lo triste que me sentí al enterarme de tu partida. No es fácil, dicen que el tiempo ayuda, pero lo que si es claro es que uno va aprendiendo a vivir con el dolor. 
Mi querida Maye hoy es tu cumpleaños quisiera poder darte un fuerte abrazo y cantarte las mañanitas, espero que algún día nos volvamos a ver. Que daría por ver tu sonrisa, eras una persona que contagiaba a cualquiera de alegría, que sabía animar a los demás, te extraño bonita. Te quiero

It's been  it's been eight months since I've been on this website mommy but I didn't get the chance I miss you so much  and I love you.me and Bisma's homeschooling is done just one  more test.Were going back to America this august for school.And I can't wait till I see you in heaven.lots of kisses and hugs.From your oldest daughter.

Hello I missed you this is Bisma I love you??

Missing you more than ever Mayonaise ! Been thinking about you all day long !  I wish I could just call you and hear your sweet voice and feel your warm hugs and see your beautiful smile and to just know that you are ok, but I'm sure that you are ok in God's kingdom watching over all of us and your beautiful girls. For some reason God called you way too early but you will never be forgotten by those who loved you unconditionally and we will never forget the beautiful legacy you left behind.  we will always miss you!   Until we meet again hermanita !  It is still unreal you are not here with us anymore.
Love you and miss you soooo much !!!  Sending you big hugs and kisses

Eid Mubarak to you in Heaven. We missed you so much and May Allah give you the highest place in paradise.

I thought of you on our birthday, but it didn't seem right to send you a happy birthday note. I am still sad that you are gone but glad that you are not hurting. I know you are watching over your family. Hopefully our girls will get together again to play soon.

Mi Hermanita Bonita, God speed your journey to the next, may your spirit be forever at peace. I think of you every day, I miss your beautiful smile, I miss you sooooooooo much! With abundant love xoxoxo, Tu Hermanita~

Happy Birthday my sweet friend.You have been on my mind off & on for a long time now but especially yesterday. I wasn't around to post, but you were in every thought.You always pop into my mind when i"m doing something with the girls - i think man, I would love to be here with May & the girls or i think its something you would like... i miss you SO much, May. Especially, with school starting again, supply day & the 1st day, i will miss your sweet face & laugh this year. I still don't understand how this all even happend, why you had to leave so soon. I will be your friend forever, May. Chloe & Lyla speak of you often, they too, miss you!
miss u friend
Stacy

HAPPY BIRTHDAY in heaven hermanita!!! we all Love you sooooo much !!!

hi mami! happy birthday!we got you a 3l cake that says happy birthday mami. so umm today i am making you a card and we picked up Cosas yesterday and today we are going to visit you at the cemetery and we might go to papa sitos in a few days.and Cosas can get used of us in just a few days but i can not beleve it! and we brang her to judy and judy as a cute little cat and cosas and that cat are best friends and today we might go to judys house to give her back a cage that she let me borow.again happy birthday! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!! YOUR #1 BYE!

Hi mami.Happy birthday!we got you a tres leces cake that says happy birthday mami!We also got cosas yesterday.We are going to visit you today.I love you and I'll always will.

Happy Birthday Honey. We love you and pray for you forever. I know you are watching from heaven and only Allah can justify things.

Mayonaise! i hope you have an awesome birthday in heaven! Finally free of all suffering 
We all miss you sooooo much! But we will celebrate when we meet again !!! Today would had been your birthday and it also marks the fifth month since you went to reunite with God. There is not one day we dont think and pray for you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN MAYONAISE !!! I Love youuu and miss you soooooo much !  Everything happens for a reason ! 
I wish I could hug you right now !!!!!! I Love you May !

Querida Maye:

En unas horas mas sería tu cumpleaños, asi que te escribí unas palabras para decirte como me siento.
Fuiste una persona que supo apreciar cada momento de la vida, te recordamos por ese optimismo y buenas energías que irradiabas a todos nosotros. Sé que partiste tranquila porque cumpliste con tu misión. 
Una de las cosas que nunca olvidaremos es la gran simpatía que despertaba en nosotros, podría alegrarnos incluso en los momentos más difíciles y darnos una voz de ánimo que nos hacía sentir capaces de lograr todo. Cuánta falta nos harás Maye, no hay nadie que te pueda reemplazar.
Hasta pronto bonita, hasta ese día en que nos volvamos a encontrar.
Te quiero mucho!!!!
Elena

Always thinking of you and praying for your eternal peace. I love you.

It's ok baby sister. I know you are watching everything from heaven.  Rest in peace, you are now with God in a beautiful place and NOT suffering anymore !!! Nothing else matters..

Por lo menos, una vez, nos ha pasado,
que a un ser querido, tenemos al lado.
y por estar tan cerca, lo hemos ignorado,
creemos que siempre, estaremos cercanos,
creemos que siempre, nos estará esperando,

No nos damos cuenta, que la vida pasa,
y un día cualquiera, al ser querido,
al ser amado,
la muerte tan fría, lo aparta, de nuestro lado,
y en un segundo, todo ha terminado.

Entonces, decimos, que tonta he sido,
mas tiempo, con élla, hubiera compartido,
cuantas alegrías, le hubiera ofrecido.

Queremos encontrarla, en todas las cosas,
que le han pertenecido.
queremos encontrarla, en todas las cosas,
que a élla le gustaban.
queremos encontrarla, en todas las lagrimas
que por élla, hemos derramado;
pero no hay nada, por más que busquemos



Son lecciones, muy duras, que enseña la vida,
porque el tiempo pasado, en el pasado
queda sepultado.

Por eso, ahora he aprendido,
que si quiero a alguien, en vida debo de decirlo,
en vida, debo demostrarlo.
no esperar que me escuche,
no esperar que me sienta,
en el cementerio,
cuando todo, ha terminado.

No querer ofrecer, en su muerte,
lo que no hice en su vida,

Porque ahora, cuenta me he dado.
que todo eso, no tiene sentido.
cuando el ser amado,
para siempre, se ha marchado.
y un gran vacío, queda en el lugar,
en el que siempre estuvo esperando,
a un ser querido, que se me ha adelantado, que en el cielo,
me estará esperando.

We miss you so much today:( we will
always love you and pray for you honey.

Today marks the second month God called you back to be with him. You've been away physically but you are with us every single moment in all our hearts. I wish I could just grab the phone and call you!  You have no idea how much I miss you! Your upbeat voice when you used to call me, your emails always so full of energy. Your amazing hugs full of love and tenderness, your BIG smile every single time I saw you !! I thank God for the big gift of having you as a sister, a companion of life, my sweet little sister. You have taught us all a big lesson in life. A lesson of strength and perseverance. I know you are embraced with God's light and love and are now a pure spirit free of pain and suffering,  a pure Angel.  We all love you so much.
There is not ONE day that goes by that I don't think about you and what an amazing and strong person you were on this earth.. 
Until we meet again Mayonaise !!! I love you and miss you sooooo much!!!

I wish I can come and join you soon but need to raise our angels. Once they are all settled down, the only thing I would ask Allah is to take me to your land where we can be together again. Miss you and love you so so much Honey! Life doesn't seems so attractive without you but need to live it anyway. Hopefully these years will go by in a blink of an eye. Allah took the precious thing in life I had and inshallah he will give that back to me in afterlife.

May, we have many very special and beautiful memories of you. 
From young age, you gave us a lot of affection and joy. I have great memories of happiness when Mom gave us the good news that we would have a sister. 
You filled our home with joy. 
Remembering when you arrived for the first time at the house, I was astonished to see such a beautiful baby girl. How cute and funny you were, especially when you began to walk on your stroller around the house, and when you began to walk, your first steps gave us happiness and joy.
Also, you provided a smile for all and for us at all times. It was very rare to see you with a serious face; you were always very happy and laughed at simple things.
For all of us was a very pretty experience when you arrived at our family, we could feel the unconditional love that you gave us.
You had the good luck to receive all the attention and the affection of all for being the youngest, nobody fought with you, and on the contrary always we had very pleasant moments. You were admired and the preferred one by many in our family. You were always “our Baby”.
I remember that everybody would complement you for being such a beautiful girl and with such a pretty personality. 
May, you were always a very good sister, that never gave problems to nobody, you never had bad understandings, you were always very warm and amiable with all of us. 
May, I remember with much affection your so positive form to salute, although to be sincere, at that moment did not see it as something extraordinary but now, I realize it was something very special; it seems that I can listen to you with your sweet voice saying: “Little Boy” ha-ha”. You always had a very special way to demonstrate your affection towards us. From your amiable and affectionate form when you spoke, to your emails, you never got tired to remained us how much you love us.
All your emails finished with some phrase describing your love and affection towards us, like: “I love you very much”. You were not ashamed to demonstrate the affection that you felt for each one of us.
Never gave problems to Mom and Dad, on the contrary, you always brought peace to our home, with your sincere way of being, smiling and joking, like when you said to Daddy: “hey you old guy”… you gave us very pleasant moments.
May, you were always a strong fighter to move ahead in the life, with your own means you gave the best to Sofia and Bisma, they will always remember you as the excellent Mother you have been.
I believe that we are in this world to learn with experiences that can help us be better human beings and by your means of love; we have learned very important lessons. 
May, I think that you lived in this world a life in which you managed to increase and uplift your spirit to a higher level, no doubt that you arrived at this world with a great soul but by the simple fact that you have had all the experiences you had in this life you were an extraordinary spirit. Your experiences let you grow and simultaneously we grew with you; you experienced another culture different from ours and also you obtained the admiration and affection of all those people in spite of the differences. 
You taught to us to accept and to respect another culture and religion completely different from ours. Because of you, we could experience other customs and that has helped us to see the rest of the world in a better way.  
May, there is no doubt that we are going to miss you very much, but at the same time we are calm because we know that you are already resting in peace in the Kingdom of God, in company of all our dear family members who have departed before we.  
It is comforting to think that when it is our turn to pass to a better life you are going to be the one receiving us with open arms. Although honestly, I hope it is not in any time soon… We are not in a hurry…
May, this is not a goodbye but so long, we feel your presence and we know that you always will be with us in our hearts. 

We love you forever,
Your brother Roger and Fam

My Dear May, my youngest sister-friend:
You were the first to go from home to God's paradise, without a doubt I am sure you are resting in peace and from there looking after your girls, Sofia and Bisma; making sure they grow strong, happy, and knowing you are in their hearts and souls forever. 
God is bringing some comfort to all of us you have touched and whom one day shall be there with you…. For now and always, we love you and miss you very much… praying for your eternal life. 
“A life that touched the hearts of others lives on forever”.
Your oldest sister-friend: Mire

Dear Mami thank you for coming to my dreams a few days ago.Also thank you so much for helping me with my homework when you where here.Me Bisma and Daddy miss you as much as anyone else in the world.I really hope you enjoy heaven.Today Cosas was running all around the house and when she was done she sticked her tonge out like a dog.I have to have dinner right now so i will talk to you next time.

love,
Sofia

Dear Mami I still hope you will come to  my dreams.Please ask god permission to come to my dreams.Bisma and Daddy already had dreams with you I feel a little left out.They said that they got their dreams with you in them by thinking about you. I tryed that and it did not work.Right now I have to go to bed so I'll talk to you tomarrow.

hi mami i just came to say hi lots of people sent cads to us and they said they love you!and i do to!ok bye bye and bye and bye wait what am i doing? ohhh! ok for real bye!

Dear.mami i didnt spent much time wid u but i must say the moments i had spent was memorable u were a loving and a caring person i still remember when i used to call u alot from my call centre and though u had busy routine but u always used to pick my fone u never made hurt or disappointed and when u came first time to pakistan we were having  haleem. At our place and u were so comfortablee non of us had felt  tht. We r meeting for the first time i really pray for u to allah tht he should grant u the highest place in paradise and u will always remaim in our heart for ever and ever and dont worry about your daughters they are and they have a huge family here to support them love them care for them.biSma and sofia beta u r alone we all are wid u although not physically but morally sweetheart i theere to help u in an any mean u want we love u both and u both are the strong gals make ur father and ur mother feels proud oof u love u both sukaina apa

dear Mami thank you for coming to my dream last night!thank you for getting coins for me!Thank you for getting lots of dolls and toys for me!i love that place!we had fun!And you chose that place!It was four million Dallors!you got a brownie for me!only Daddy,you and me were there.Daddy was a robot so it relly felt like you and me!we got a CAT well a kitten Her name is cosas she is 4 to 5 months old!She is adorable!She looks like a adoult but she is actually a kitten1 i hope you have a wounderful time in HEAVEN!i lllllllooooooovvvvvvvveeeeeee you!Bye!

Mayela I enjoyed watching you and Katie grow up into fine young ladies. You were so special to us and even though it has been a long time since we have seen you, you have often been in our thoughts. You will always be in ours hearts along with all the wondeful memories we have of you. You will be misses by all that knew you. God bless your family and especially your presious little girls,

Dear Mommy I hope one day you shall come to my dreams and I always wonder what it will be about.I love you so much and I will never forget you.I hope you are having a great time in heaven.I glad that you can be with Cosas in heaven.We have a new cat that is also named Cosas.And she is so cute!She is only 4 months old but she looks like an adult cat.Me and Bisma are visiting the school counsler when ever we feel sad about you.

My Lovely Super, Special, Smart, Strong Sister. I want to thank you with all my heart for being such a wonderful sister to me, I will always be so proud of you. Thank you for your beautiful smile, your joy and enthusiasm, I miss you A LOT!!
Now that God call you back home, May your soul have sweet rest and forever at peace. I will always love you, with gratitude and all my LOVE~ Tu Hermanita~

I can't believe she's gone. I will always miss her and my condolence is with her family. May God give you courage to overcome such an enormous tragedy!

Dear Maye: Saying goodbye 
Was the hardest thing to do
I never thought I would
specially not to you.
I am so glad I met you, you have made a big impact in my life, thank you my dear friend to bring joy in to my world. I miss you and love you so much. You will always be the sister I never have. Love you sis.

May  we will always remember you, your smily face and always laughing, we will miss you and always praying for you.


Salim raza nayani and family, peterborough, U.K

I am so sorry to hear of May's passing. I'm still in shock. I first met May when she was first out of high school and we worked  at the same company back in the early 90's. We lost touch after that and I recently found her on Facebook 2 yrs ago. We've kept in touch  through Facebook but never got the chance to get together. I will always remember May as a kind, sweet, always happy and smiling, joking around kind of person. She called me her Lita Bolita. I was just reading our conversation on FB since Feb 2011 when we  reconnected and just makes me sad to hear she's no longer with us. My thoughts and prayers are with her family for comfort and peace during this very difficult time. I will miss you May and your beautiful smile.

Dear lifepartner and soulmate, I love you so so so much and it hurts alot to even think about what happened and how it happened. God only gave us 15 years together to share beautiful moments of our life together and you left me two beautiful gift ( our daughters ). I don't know how I will proceed in this lifetime without you, but thinking about being together in the heaven gives me a little comfort that we will be together again and this time for eternity. I will always love you in this life and the life after. I will pray for you my love for the rest of my life and I am sure that God will answer my prayers someday and then get our souls together and this time not to get us seperated. I will love our daughters so much that hopefully you will be proud of me when we meet each other again, meanwhile please rest in peace and may Allah gives ou the highest place in the paradise and forgives all your sins and keep your soul happy forever. INSHALLAH!

My sweet & silly May, I was taken back to hear of your passing so suddenly. I had just saw you picking up the girls from school, we were going to hang out over spring break. I am very upset about losing you. I didn't get to say goodbye to my friend. I will watch out for Bisma & Sophia as much as I can for you. I will miss your sweet face waiting at the back door of school & all our silly conversations. Mr. Ali, please let me know how I can help you out, with the girls, school anything. I would love to hear from you or May's sister, Linda. Please know I will keep everyone in my thoughts & prayers. May will always be close to my heart.
254 371-6269

My dear sister, I love you and miss you soooo much! I know you are in a better place now. I think about you ALL the time ! My life is different without you ! Rest in peace my sweet sister! 
LOVE YOU <3

I am truly sorry for your loss.  I will always remember how May lent me her expertise and knowledge when I was just a "newbie."  She was always very kind to me.  I know how devoted she was to her family, especially her "girls."  I was lucky to be able to work with her and will miss her very much.

May, we shared many laughs and you were a good friend to talk to in the wee hours of the morning as we worked.  I will miss "seeing" you at work and I'm praying for your daughters and family to get through this difficult time in their lives.

I am so sorry for your loss.  Things will get better with time.  May was a very kind and funny person, always making me laugh.  I'll never forget our Marty McFly jokes.

May:  My thoughts are with your daughters and husband during this most difficult time.  You were kind, genuine, and loved your family very much.  We were going to meet the next time I was visiting my family in your area.  Rest in Peace and may your family find solace amongst friends and family during this difficult time.  You will be missed.

I truly cannot believe it!  How heartbreaking, my heart goes out to your girls and family.  You were a wonderful person to work along side and you will be truly missed.

My heartfelt condolences to the whole family.  I will truly miss seeing and talking with May every day at work.  I'm so sorry for your loss.

Dear Ali Family, I will miss May telling me Happy Monday every Tuesday. I am deeply sorry for your loss.  My prayers are with you all.

To Sophia and Bisma - I know your mommy loved you so very, very much, and she didn't want to leave you.  She is watching over you from heaven, watching you grow up and become beautiful young ladies and she will always be with you in your hearts.  Although we never met, I loved your mommy - she was a good friend, and she will be missed.  My prayers are with you and I will be thinking of you often.  Dios te bendiga mis amigas.

To Mayela's family:  I am so sorry for your loss!  She often talked of her little "girlies", and we know she loved her family very much.  My thoughts and prayers are with you all.  Sherri Bickert, PA

May - I can't believe we just met and now you're gone. I hope you have peace in your heart. Rest well.

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Mayela Salazar Ali

July 27, 1971 – February 27, 2013

Chapel of Eternal Peace at Forest Park

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