Ralph was always the sweetest guy I knew.  We went to school together in Sheldon and in third grade did the May pole dance together.  We graduated from King high school and went off on our own adventures.  God bless his family lifting y'all in prayer.  Another angel has gained his wings.  See you some day at that big cloud with the May pole in the sky!Hugggggggss

Mr Ralph..

Been thinking of writing this remembrance for a while, some things just flood out and some I really got to scratch my brain. That’s just the kind of man you were. And that’s what I love about ya. 

When I met Missy you guys were very protective and I would not want it any other way. Through the years we both opened up and I wish sickness and distance were not issues in the past so we all could have had more time. I learned so much from ya just watching or hanging out or just life in general. I probably still will. I hope so!

We got to watch these children turn into fine adults, something that definitely would not have happened without your style of compassion and love. Seems like these last two decades have either stood still or flew by. Right now, it feels like a whirlwind. 

I learned quickly you may have had a hard shell but the love you have for your family and grandchildren is a step above. You absolutely loved these dogs too! I believe you made the trip to SC to see our pups.. I know!

I wish we could have hunted or fished, traveled and vacated together more for family activities, just have more chances to be around each other. But I guarantee you this, and I hope you watch from up there..

I will take care of your daughter grandchildren, wife and any other person I need to take care of including these wonderful animals you cared for so much. 

I will miss you, and it breaks my heart I couldn’t be there but I’m so thankful for FaceTime because I got to have that one last conversation and see ya. 

Help guide me and your family. You have the best view in the house. Tell our families hello again.. so we can catch up one day soon. 

With Love
Jamie

Dear Grandpa, 
I will always remember the trips we would take while I was growing up and riding in the truck for all those hours. I remember going fishing with you and papaw on many different occasions and I wish we could’ve had another trip to go catch some fish together. I remember going hunting with you and getting my first deer and you told me all about the process of hunting. Many of these things I didn’t do for a long time but I picked them back up because of memories I had of us going on trips together. You taught me a bunch of odd tricks to fix things on cars and so much more. I wish we had more time to make more memories and you were taken too soon but I’m glad you’re not in pain anymore. I love you and miss you very much. 

~Gavin

Dear Ralph,
You have been my “Rock of Gibraltar “ in the family.  We miss you and love you dearly.  I am joyful that you are experiencing the things that God has prepared for those who love him—everlasting love, joy and peace forever.
Love you always,
Pam Simpson


Dear grandpa, 
You taught me so much from driving, shooting, hunting, fishing, and raising livestock. We had many wonderful memories on family trips and outings. You helped me move to college...then back...and you got to come see my first house in colorado. Im grateful for the time i had with you. I love you and miss you. 
-kenzie

Dad,
You are already missed by all. Mr. Lucky, Barney, and Harley have even come to your room many times and laid next to where you were. The last few years were rough and tough for you, especially the last 7 months, but you handled it well. You never complained and were more concerned with making sure that everybody else was good, especially Mom.  
You were set in your ways and stubborn but you were always helping anybody in need and finding ways to streamline things or make improvements to things to make it safer and easier for all. 
You passed on the ability to be as neat, precise, & concise as much as possible to me.  You taught me how to work on cars, build things, fish, and so much more. You loved to hunt, fish, be outdoors, and travel. You could drive across country admiring it’s beauty while never stopping, just driving straight through to get to the destination but never missing a thing, no matter how long the drive. I’m very thankful to have been given that gift as well, I’ve put it to use many many times this past year alone. 
I’m grateful that I was able to be here for you at your bedside the last couple of weeks. I’ll miss your weird sense of humor, your pickiness, and all your stories. I’ll take care of Mom. You can rest easy, Dad. 
Love,
Missy

My Uncle Ralph never hesitated to help anyone who needed it.  Some might say they didnt see him show his feelings or affection but I saw it all the time. I saw how he loved my Aunt Judy like she was always his best friend. They were forever doing everything together. I saw how no matter how tired he was he and Aunt Judy would drop everything to drive to any state their children or grandchildren who needed them. My Uncle Ralph and Aunt Judy even came and rescued me in the middle of the night from a bad situation. Uncle Ralph liked to pick but thats because he secretly had a huge heart and didnt want to put that on display. Uncle Ralph and Aunt Judy very much doted on their grandchildren MacKenzie and Gavin and would do absolutley everything in their power to make those babies feel happy, safe and secure. I will always remember my Uncle Ralph as a loving devoted husband to my Aunt Judy and devoted father and grandfather to his babies. He was even a hero to me. I take solace in knowing he accepted Jesus and I will see him again. I love my Uncle Ralph and always will. I will  see you again Uncle Ralph and I love you.

Dear Ralph,

I can’t believe that you’re gone so soon. I thought that we would have many more years together, but it helps to know that you are in a better place, where you are whole again. I love you very much and miss you terribly. You were the BEST. 

Love you,
Judy

Dear Ralph,
We lost you way too soon and we miss you very much.   Ralph, you will always be on my (our) hearts, thoughts, memories and never forgotten.
He had a good heart and was always there to help family and anyone. 
Ralph loved my sister, Judy, his daughter, MeLissa and adored his grandchildren, MacKenzie and Gavin.
He worked hard all of his life to provide for his family and was a success.  Ralph was a good husband, father, grandfather and brother-in-law.
He did enjoy the outdoors, traveling and always ready to go.
Ralph put up a brave face, fought a good fight to live and did not want to leave his family.   He enjoyed life and living.
You may Rest In Peace, Ralph because as I promised you, we will be strong,  to help & take care of Judy, MeLissa, MacKenzie and Gavin.  We will always be there for them, that is what family do.
Ralph, I love you and miss you.
RIP and God bless 

My sympathy to Ralph's family at this sad time. I knew Ralph most of my life, we where good friends through out our school days, and after. I lost contact with him for a while, but have many fond memories of our times together. Ralph lived just down the street, and I was at his house often. Rest in peace ol buddy,  you will not be forgotten. 

OBITUARY

Ralph C. May

January 5, 1952 – May 24, 2021

Brookside Funeral Home & Memorial Park

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