Hey Dad, 

It's been just over two years since you passed. I think of you every day. I just wanted to say hi and that I miss you very much. I wish you could still be here with us but I'm  glad that you're healthy now and you and Mom are together. The family is doing well considering the state of the world at the moment. You wouldn't even recognize Ethan I bet! He's grown so tall in the past couple of years.  Time keeps marching on but my memories of you will never fade. I still love you oh so much. 

Your loving daughter, 
Michelle

Hey dad, 
   It's been over a year since you died, and I still don't exactly know what I am doing. I am in a much better place than I was last year, but that was one hell of a gut-punch of a year. I've done many things since you left, some I think, you'd be proud of like going to New York, and others probably not so much. I am doing well though, making a name for myself and forging ahead, because despite how I feel on bad days, forward is the only option.  There are so many things left unspoken, or incomplete. You might not have been the best dad, but you were my dad and I will always remember the lessons you taught me or tried to teach me and keep them in my heart. Life is far too short not to be happy. 
I remember mom would take me and david to the park and we'd play for what felt like eternity. Times were easier back then

Dad, 

Today is the first anniversary of your passing. It's hard to believe you've been gone a year already. Time flies so quickly. I miss you so much and think of you often. I wish we could have had even more time together. Larissa graduated from college on Friday.  When her name was announced, they pronounced it La-reesa instead of La-rissa. You were the only other person who would pronounce Larissa's name La-reesa. It reminded me of you and I thought, maybe just maybe you're looking down and can see us. I know you would be so proud! Your passing left a hole in so many hearts. It heals and we move forward but there will always be a scar. I'm glad you're at peace and I know you and Mom are together now and I can only imagine how happy she was to see you again! We're all doing well and I know you would be glad to see that Patrick & David are thriving and making it out there on their own.  Regardless of how much time passes, I will always miss you. You were the best Dad and I'm so grateful that you were my Dad. That I had the privilege of having you in my life. 

I love you, 
Michelle

To Everyone:

Thank you so much for all the love and support we've been given since Dad's passing. 
He was an awesome father, brother, uncle and friend. He touched so many lives through the years; 
it's warmed my heart to hear the wonderful stories and memories of Dad. 
He will be missed greatly. 

Daddy, I miss you so much already. Life will not be the same without you. I know you would want us to move forward and to always smile with the memories of you. 
You are forever in my heart. 

I'll never forget someone who gave me so much to remember. 

Love Always and Forever, 
Michelle


To Everyone:

Thank you so much for all the love and support we've been given since Dad's passing. He was a special person. An awesome father, brother, uncle and friend. He touched so many lives and we're all better people for it. 
Dad will be missed greatly but the  wonderful memories we all have of him will keep him alive in our hearts. 

Daddy,  I will miss you always. Life won't be the same without you but I know you would want us all to move forward,  remember the good times and smile when we think of you. 
I love you now and forever. 

Michelle


Ray was more than just a barber, He was a true friend ,it feels like I lost an uncle, We are going to miss him a lot.
My best whises to the family. I am very sorry your lost is Ours as well.
My good friend rest in peace.
Fernando Garnica and family.

Mis condolencias para la familia. Y que el Dios de todo consuelo le de paz en estos momentos difíciles. (2 Corintios 1:3,4) 

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Ramon Alcala

August 29, 1939 – May 13, 2018

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