It’s been 5 years.
It’s just as hard today as it was the moment we lost you. I feel so alone sometimes, I talk to you all the time, and I cry a lot of times.
I’m always wishing you were right here, doing whatever I happen to be doing, with me.  All of this surgery, doctors, treatments,  
I close my eyes and think of you, wishing you were here with me. Only God knows how desperately I miss you. 
One day we will be together, sisters in heaven, riding a golf cart down a beach in heaven. I love you my Sheila❤️

3 years Sheila.  This has been so very hard. 
I know now this will be a  way of life for me. I can't stop crying. I set at the cemetery and cry and talk. I look for you everywhere.  We promised we would never leave the other one behind. Now I'm here, alone. I am lost, I just exist here.  Please,when it's time for me to go, please be there, waiting for me. I'm looking for you in my dreams. I love you my precious sister, I always wil.

I love you she she with every beat of my heart. you’re hands down the most thoughtful, generous, caring, and loving person to ever speak to me. When I was down on my luck and didn’t have any one to give me a ride to my job interview you came through for me with no hesitation. My heart hurts because I know no one will ever make me laugh like you did. I’ll miss the sleepovers, lunches and the freestyles in the car. Please come visit me in any form I promise I’ll spot you 💚😓

She She, I love you so much! I’m missing you like crazy and I wish we had more time together. I know you’re so happy up there and I know you’re looking down on us. You truly were, like Russell said, a pillar in our lives. I’m going to miss hugging you and telling you how short you were and how you had nanny’s little legs. It’s going to be tough without you,  and it’s going to be hard making fun of kaykay without you but I’ll do enough for the both of us! ;) I love you very much and you will always have a special place in my heart! 

Rexie

Sheila, 
I will remember to love as much as possible. I will make sure that I am kind to everyone.  I will keep and share as much peace as humanly possible.  I will be as gentle as I can.  I will do all these things because you've shown me how to. You sacrificed so much of your life for others.  It's time we follow your lead.  Your unwavering love for your family. Your ability to find the humor and extend the laughter to everyone around you.  Your sense of adventure when you set out to do just about anything.  All of these things I promise, I will try to make you proud.  I love you with my whole heart.
LouLou

My thoughts and prayers are with all of Shelia's family,, remember her working at Fairway many years ago.God Bless each of you! Lou, you did a beautiful job with her service.

My Sister,  how do I put into words the love I have in my heart or sadness I feel .   I will never forget your free spirit  and generosity.  I have a lifetime of memories and I thank God for that.  I will never feel like your gone.  

My heart breaks for you.. Prayers for God's comfort and that your sweet memories of Sheila sustain you in the difficult days ahead. I love each one of you.

I worked with Sheila at KBR.  Sheila always took her job seriously and was very dependable for completing the activities she performed.  So sorry to hear of her passing  and wish to convey my condolences to her family. 

Sheila, 
Just heard about the news! I recalled emailing you years ago at KBR on work inquiries.. then eventually met you in person and worked with you under same department. We talked about your families..especially your 2 boys and the baby and Araon Roger .. fun memories... May you Rest In Peace! My sincere condolences to your family.  Lilian 

God blessed me with two mothers in life one given, and one earned. You were the most selfless person I've ever known and true gift in life. I couldn't possibly imagine how my life would have turned out without you. You chose to be a part of my life, provided for me, protected, and watched over me. I will forever remember your laugh, your hard headed ways, and above all your love. I will continue to take the things you taught me in life and apply them to be a better man. 

I Love You She She, Rest in Peace

My precious Sheila. My sister, my friend, my buddy, my confidante, my calm in life. We wiped each others tears and we turned them into smiles. We have stood shoulder to shoulder through our hardest times and we survived, with some scars, but loving each other even more. You always made sure you took care of everyone else.  You are the kindest, most loving, generous, sincere person I have ever known.  I am so very thankful that we always hugged and told each other I love you. That smile on your face convinced me that when the gates of heaven opened you were with Daddy, Mama and Brucie. I feel sure that you will be on the beach everday dusting the sand off all of the beautiful seashells.  I will always have my tears and I will forever miss you, but I will always smile, laugh and cherish the happy,  crazy,  love filled, fun filled memories.  I'll see you there.
I Love You Sheila. 

Those we know don’t go away. They walk beside us everyday. -Author Unknown

I was so sorry to hear about Shelia’s passing. My sincere condolences to the family. Rest In Peace, Shelia.  

I remember Sheila always smiling.  My sister, brother and I always used to love to visit our cousins in Houston.  She was a wonderful person and God now has another angel. My heart goes out to her family and friends.

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Sheila Ann Ray

August 10, 1956 – July 3, 2019

Brookside Funeral Home & Memorial Park

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