OBITUARY
Guadalupe Socorro Romero
January 1, 1963 – February 4, 2021
Guadalupe “Lupe” Socorro Romero, 58, passed away on February 4, 2021 at Cape Cod Hospital in Hyannis, MA. She was born on January 1, 1963 in Los Angeles, CA to Carlos & Juanita Arenas.
Lupe grew up in Norwalk, CA. She graduated from John H. Glenn High School in Norwalk, CA in 1981. After high school, she attended Cape Cod Community College in Barnstable, MA. She worked for the town of Barnstable as a paraprofessional where she worked for 26 years.
Lupe enjoyed spending time with her children and grandchildren especially during the holidays and each of their birthdays. She loved to play card games with her family and friends. She enjoyed traveling to visit her family. Lupe enjoyed cooking family recipes for her family and teaching her children so they can continue those traditions with their own children. Lupe was a member of Massachusetts Teacher Association. She is loved by so many in the community for her work as a teaching assistant in the local schools including Barnstable Early Learning Center, Centerville Elementary School and Enoch Cobb Early Learning Center. She loved being able to teach the little ones in her classes and was always so patient, caring, and full of happiness.
Lupe is survived by her children and their spouses; Veronica & Sirrone Ray, Patricia & Keith Jackson, David & Stephanie Romero, Elizabeth Romero, and Valerie Romero; her grandchildren Sierra Ray, Sirrone Ray, Asher Romero, Aiden Romero, and Annaliese Jackson; her great-grandchild Jordany Ray; her brothers and sisters Francis, Irene, Carmen, Rudy, Paul, Carlos, Liz, Mary, Jenny, Anthony; and her nieces and nephews and other relatives.
Lupe was preceded in death by both her father and mother, Carlos and Juanita Arenas.
Visitation will be held at Doane Beal and Ames, 160 West Main St Hyannis, on Wednesday, February 17, 2021 from 4-8 pm. Funeral mass will be held at St Francis Xavier Church on Thursday, February 18, 2021 at 10 am.
In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made to Dana-Farber Cancer Institute in memory of Guadalupe S. Romero to support cancer research and patient care at:
Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, P.O. Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284.
Services
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Visiting Hours
Wednesday, February 17, 2021
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Funeral Mass
Thursday, February 18, 2021
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Burial
Thursday, February 18, 2021
Memories
Guadalupe Socorro Romero
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ADD A MEMORYKara Beal
February 22, 2021
Lupe, was a co-worker but more than that she was a friend. She had patience and pose. She was always happy to listen, she gave advice by letting me answer my own questions. She so loved every child we worked with. I first saw her share that love with my daughter as her teacher and when I came to work at the preschool was touched by her myself. In recent years we became closer working in the same classroom. She taught me card games to take home and play with my children. When Mayflower served peanut butter pie she’d bring me a slice the next morning for breakfast. She brought me small gifts from California; a pen, a spoon. They were the littlest of things and not costly but I always knew she was thinking of me and that touched my heart. Her hard work was motivation for myself. Many mornings I would start to drag my feet and then remember Lupe is already at work. At night if I climbed into bed early, I’d remember Lupe is just driving home from work. She was and will forever be in my prayers. Lupe and I both shared our faith quietly. It is with that faith I know she is at peace.
Carmen Albrandt
February 19, 2021
We didn’t want to see you go so soon but don’t worry you are not alone, your with the Lord, and
with Mom and Dad, W e will truly miss you and now you are starting a new life in heaven with no sickness or pain. Everyone was blessed with you on this earth and we will meet again and may god bless your soul.
anthony ARENAS
February 19, 2021
I am Lupe's little brother. I'm glad I had many opportunities to visit you and your family out in Hyannis Ma. I recall last year going out there for your birthday .It meant a lot to me and something I will never forget. Sadly I just got home from your services yesterday out in Boston,Hyannis area. You gave me a tour of Boston, and other historic places. Fenway park,Paul Revere museum, New England patriots, stadium, Cape cod. Etc. As well many east coast restaurants. I will miss you . And if your kids need anything I will do whatever I can to help them. I was glad I was able to visit your home this week, to recall memories staying there.
How ard Stewart
February 19, 2021
I've known lupe for longtime no one ever said a bad word. About her and I only have had great things to say about my friend lupe god bless her and her family. May God take you hold him in his open arms.
Ps.rember God take of her. I love you pal
Nancy Turnbull
February 18, 2021
Sending you my deepest sympathy for your loss. I knew Lupe when working at Centerville Elementary School. Our sons, Dave and Brian, were high school friends and classmates.
What I remember most about Lupe was her smile. I could see that she was dedicated to her students and a beloved coworker. She demonstrated such patience and kindness. May Lupe rest in eternal peace ~
Victorine Romans Pells
February 18, 2021
Lupe will be in everyone's hearts and minds every day for all who knew her. We shared many fun times of gatherings and teaching moments. Sorry I had a lot to say I couldn't just fit it on one page of such an amazing person. Eventhough we had lost touch due to my depression I will never forget all the great times we shared and how she was always their for everyone and made people laugh . Her smile was infectious and it showed when she talked of her family who she loved dearly. Her friends and colleagues meant a lot to her as well and that showed in her heart. I will never forget our fun times together and will think of her every day. Love u my sister, love , vicki
Victorine Romans Pells
February 18, 2021
MY condolences go out to the family of such a beautiful woman Lupe. She was such a bright shinning light in many peoples lives and no matter what always had an amazing way of making you feel special or making you feel better if you were down. She always could make you laugh and turn the most negative of situations into a positive somehow . Lupe was one of my best of friends a colleague ' a sister. I remember so many good times with her and her family especially teaching with her was the best! When I first met Lupe in a classroom we became instant friends always laughing together and having the best of times teaching together! She and I were very close for years and would talk about everything ' sometimes on the phone after work till the wee hours of the morning! We would go out to dinner and have great times together with just us or our other coworkers but no matter what we did or who we were with it was always fun! She could always turn a grey sky blue and could pull you out of the darkest of situations with a positive or say something funny to get you out of a funk or bad day! Lupe was a great listener and the best friend you could ever have. I knew her over 20 years and when anyone was feeling sad or having a hard time she would be their for them no matter when or what time it was. Lupe even would put her problems on hold to help others and was never selfish. She was a very compassionate person and a wonderful teacher ' everyone who knew her or met her loved her' she had no enemies! Lupe and I had a lot of laughs and often said to each other it was as if we knew each other our whole lives because we had our own language and would just look at each other and know what the other was thinking or if the person was hurting and then when we talked it out we would be all good again. Lupe was close to my family as well and came to many family event's and I hers. She will be dearly missed !
Fern Garreffi
February 18, 2021
I hope that Lupe’s family can find comfort in knowing that she gently touched the lives of all who knew her in her own special way. The work she did every day at the Enoch Cobb Learning Center helped so many young children grow and learn. When I think of Lupe, I see her patiently listening to and talking with preschoolers. With a smile on her face, I see her teaching them by helping and encouraging them to accomplish all types of tasks. I see her in the classroom, sitting at the table while they learned to write their name, count objects, or cut with scissors. I see her zipping up coats and putting mittens on little hands. I see her standing on the playground watching them run and play. I see her holding small hands as she walked them down the hallway at the end of the school day. I also see her wiping away a child’s tears and giving a hug whenever it was needed. Although many of her students will be too young to remember Lupe in the years ahead, the adults who knew her always will. Rest in Peace Lupe.
Elizabeth Enriquez
February 18, 2021
My dear little sweet sister, I am going to miss your sweet smile an miss our summers together we always enjoyed your visits we wonder what game is Lupe going to show us this time. You’d bring your big bag with you an introduced us with new fun cards games we would stay up till 1:00am playing cards those were fun times an when we went to Puerta Vallerta in October you made sure I packed the card games reminding me don’t forget the games. We had such a good time there you were so happy that Veronica an Patricia were there an Frannie an Ray an Carlos an yadi an Antonio was there . You enjoyed sitting at the beach for the day ordering drinks an ordering lunch going into the water. Then we would come back to the room an go into the Jacuzzi on our balcony then of course playing cards I don’t know how many times you thank me for the vacation but it was a family effort we all chipped in from getting your passport to getting your flights we would do it all over again. But we are thankful we got to spend our mini vacation with you . We are going to miss you dearly I love you Lupita my dear sweet little sister hugs an kisses
Mary Moreno
February 18, 2021
Forever in our hearts lil sis
Nikki Caucci
February 18, 2021
Our dear Lupe touched the lives of countless children, families and colleagues during her many years working in the preschool. Lupe had a wonderful way with people, especially children. Her bright smile, calm demeanor, positive nature and overwhelming generosity brought joy to everyone she encountered. As the principal of the preschool, I got to observe Lupe working her magic with children on a regular basis. Even with our most challenging students with disabilities, she seemed to naturally know exactly what each child needed when they arrived at her learning center to work, learn and play. I got to know Lupe more personally on our lunch breaks. She would often sit in the lunch room with me and share stories. I could always count on Lupe to chuckle quietly at my attempts to be funny! Her smile lit up the room. One thing I will always remember about Lupe is how generous she was. She went out of her way to help her colleagues and never hesitated to do what was asked of her. Recently, I bumped into Lupe at a store near school just after I had gotten off work. I was attempting to get cash back at the register, but was unsuccessful due to a technical issue with the machine. Lupe immediately offered to get cash out of her own account to give to me. Just one small example of her genuine, kind hearted nature. Lupe truly made our lives better just by being in it. I am so grateful to have had the chance to know and love her. She will be greatly missed by all of her friends and colleagues at Enoch Cobb Early Learning Center.
Lauretta Pfeifer
February 18, 2021
I worked with Lupe at Centerville Elementary School. She always had the biggest, warmest smile for everyone even if we were just passing in the hall. She was sweet, kind, loving and she lit up whenever she worked with the children. Her love for them was so evident. After the preschool moved to Hyannis West, if I ran into Lupe out in the community, she always greeted me with that infectious smile and took the time to talk. Certainly one of the kindest people I have met.
Erin Neally-Williams
February 18, 2021
Lupe was one of the most patient, caring, gentle people I know. But she was also brave and strong. She is now an angel in Heaven and a star in the sky shining down.
Jennie Arenas
February 18, 2021
Please permit me to express more fully my appreciation to my sister Lupe’s wonderful friends that through the years brought her so much joy and happiness. Your evidence of love, friendship and support for her and her family brings me much comfort. I felt like I knew you because she always spoke so highly of you and was very thankful to have you in her life. I know now why it was so hard for her to ever want to leave. You were her extended family. I believe she will leave a void in all of our hearts. Let us all draw close and comfort one another. Lupe would want that.
Barbara Gonzalez
February 18, 2021
My Dearest Auntie Lupe,
Your Beautiful Smile and Big Heart will be terribly missed.
Always so easy to talk to, you were a beam of light to all you encountered.
Your Charisma and Charm won the Hearts of many.
Rest in Christ’s Love ❤️
Till we meet again My Dear One
Staci Bridges
February 17, 2021
I worked with Lupe years ago and she made a mark on my life. She had such an incredibly joyful spirit. She was always so calm and positive. She made such an impact on so many children and their families.
I pray that you all feel comforted by Jesus during this very difficult time.
Staci
Mary Moreno
February 17, 2021
Our Memories will last forever in my heart little sister.
Mary Moreno
February 17, 2021
To my beautiful sister Lupe,
I can't forget the great lesson I learned from you. It was to live each day as if it was your last one.
I have a poem about my sister Lupe:
L is for Love of a sister
U is for always Understanding
P is for your positivity and patience
E is for energy and happiness you gave to everyone
We begin and end as family. We will miss you so much. Rest in Peace Little Sis.
Christina Ponce(Moreno)
February 17, 2021
🌼Aunt Lupe🌼
For as long as I can remember you have always been the most sweetest kindest person I’ve known. I remember when I would go to Aunt Frans house and you either had a smile upon your face or you were laughing away with our family. I enjoyed the sense of humor you had within you. Your memory and Legacy of your Caring❤️Heart will live within your children. I will forever miss you. I love you...and if you can please tell Grandma and Grandpa I said hello. I can’t wait to see you all one day.
Love ❤️ always your niece:
Christina
Michael Hernandez
February 17, 2021
Aunt Lupe my memory I can’t ever forget It was when I got on top of that horse with no money and took the pictures andyou had to cover the tab After babysitting for free. Your soft voice and calm demeanor is different than what the arenas are used to specially most of us but it is calming and your words and comments are always uplifting
Anissa Arenas
February 17, 2021
Auntie,
I will always remember your warm welcoming smile and loving heart. Ill never forget the huge hug you gave me when I saw you last. Your face lit up the room when you saw me walking in with the kids. You brought so much joy to everybody and your laugh was contagious. Your memory will live on forever through us and your kids. You are loved so much. You will be missed deeply. See you in the high heavens. Give huge hugs and kisses to Grandma and Grandpa for me.
Daniel Moreno
February 17, 2021
I remember going to the family events you were always there. No matter how short notice or how far you were, you always made it to the big events when it matter most.
Family is an importance to you. I appreciate you Aunt Lupe and your family. I am blessed to be close to your family and happy you were my aunt.
Thank you for always being sincere and loving.
Love always
Daniel R. Moreno
Jennie Arenas
February 17, 2021
I wanted to express my gratitude to many of you that have come to know and love my sister Lupe. She had a warm heart filled with care and concern for others. I am especially thankful for the love and kindness she had toward my own children. We will truly miss her. Her and I had a special relationship in that we had a unique sense of humor and laughter no one else seemed to understand. Even though there was some distance between us, I will miss our phone conversations over coffee on Saturday mornings, our sharing of recipes and our visits. I appreciate her gift of connecting with others by her smile, her friendship and willingness to lend a helping hand. I wish I had but a part of her qualities. I love you Lupe and will miss you very much.
Margaret Fass
February 17, 2021
I was privileged to have Lupe as my friend. She was a sweet, gentle soul who put others ahead of herself. We worked together at Barnstable Early Learning Center & later, at Centerville Elementary.
We often met for coffee, monthly dinners, family occasions. She was always welcoming. I remember the card she wrote when my husband passed13 years ago. It was so comforting & I still have it. As I write this, I'm fighting back tears, but I know I have many fond memories of Lupe to comfort me.
Her light will shine on in her family. .My deepest sympathy to all of you. She loved you all with all her heart and she was so proud of you. She will always be in our hearts.
Artie Hernandez
February 17, 2021
With such a great loss, I want to say that I love you. Memories of times when I was a child laughing, playing games, helping you babysit, going out to eat, dancing, just talking, calling each other on our birthdays. She was more like an older sister than an aunt.
Always an Eagle
Merciful, Wise, Brave
John H . Glenn High School Class of 1991
Artie “Bogarty” Hernandez
I will always love you
Daniel and Andrea Chavez
February 17, 2021
Aunt Lupe, I remember the first day I meet you at Grandma Arenas house. You were so friendly and welcoming. You made sure I was eating and asked me if I would like anything else. From that day forward I knew what a loving and genuine person you were. You were different Aunt Lupe, in the best way possible, you stood out. There’s not many people like you, we’ve truly physically lost one of the best. Daniel always reminisced about how you wouldn’t like him to sleep with you because he would grind his teeth. but mostly he remembered your beautiful smile and kind spirit. He remembers going with grandpa to pick you up from work and you bringing him chicken sandwiches. Thank you Aunt Lupe for your love, kindness and sincere heart. Rest In Peace and know that you will never be forgotten. Enjoy dancing with the angels.
Love, Daniel and Andrea Chavez ♥️
Caprice Edwards
February 17, 2021
May you rest in peace. Now you with the Angels flying above looking over us making sure all of us are OK. Lupe my angel now was a wonderful woman ,friend ,coworker ,mother , grandmother , teacher words can’t explain how kind she was to everybody God bless the family!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💜. Rest in peace Guadalupe💜
Kathy Chavez - Landeros
February 16, 2021
My best Friend Lupe was my sister for many many years we have been friends since I moved to Norwalk California. We had many moments of laughter as well as growing up together throughout grammar school and high school. We always have been close even when she moved away, we always kept in touch wherever we moved to. When she came to visit family in California we made sure to get together with so we could hang out and play cards or games. She even taught us to play new games that we have never heard about. I loved her company and all her family, always reminiscing about fun times we had as growing up together. My dear friend you will always missed, but I know you're now at peace with God, and also your Mom and Dad. I'll always remember you my friend. First with tears in my eyes and a broken heart, but as I recall the memories we shared. I will remember you with joy in my heart, and a smile on my face. Just like the one you always had on your face no matter the circumstances, and every time we saw each other. Until we meet again, I love you always.
Irma Nunez
February 16, 2021
Lupe used to live across the street and babysit my sister, brother, and me when we were kids. When she was still a kid herself. She kept us safe and happy and exercised her bedtime authority with kindness. Mostly, she would make up games for us and join in our imaginary adventures. My favorite was when we'd play "Make Me Laugh," like the TV show. She could have us in stitches in no time with the smallest gesture. A funny walk. A playful smile. The word "hello." After, she'd make us cream of chicken soup, but lumpy, which we liked. She became such a natural presence in our family, she even joined us on vacation, camping or to Las Vegas. She made everything more fun. We adored her. I'm very happy that Lupe had such a big, loving family of her own and continued to work with children, who always remember their most tender caretakers. How lucky we were to have her in our lives. My sincere condolences to her family and all who loved her.
Kathy Duran
February 16, 2021
Dearest Mariah (Valerie) & Elizabeth and Family,
Your Mom, Lupe, was an Angel on this Earth,
Her smile was sunshine and her warm embrace let you know everything was going to be alright. She was generous with her love and every child or person who knew her is better for it. The light of her love continues to shine through each of you, it can be seen in your loving smiles and tender hearts. Your mom raised such beautiful children. She is your Angel now, the love you share is eternal. Now she is in God’s warm embrace, resting in Peace.
All my Love & Prayers, Ms. Duran xo
Diana Vasquez
February 16, 2021
Aunt Lupe,
To say you were a wonderful person would be an understatement. You were a pure example of love, patience and the definition of family. I’ll never forget when my daughter was born- you made an effort to check on me regularly. Your tender loving heart was easily recognized by my daughter the very first time she met you. She still has her cute “Cape Cod” dress from you and her “HEI-HEI.” Aulani knew you loved her and would get excited every time we would FaceTime you. When I got married, without hesitation you came to California to celebrate my new husband and I. You were so loved by Kevin also. My family’s last FaceTime with you was on New Years eve- we spoke about this past year and being blessed to have survived 2020. We talked about Disneyland and about going back if the doors opened up again in August this year. We spoke about your next visit and what we were going to do. I will cherish the last words we exchanged over our last text messages days before you left us. 💔 My summers will never be the same without you Auntie. The memories we have spent together will forever be in my heart. You truly made an impact on my life and I am going to miss you so much- I LOVE YOU LUPITA!!!!
Love your niece Diana ❤️
Frances Estrada
February 15, 2021
Lupe was like a daughter to me. When she came to California to visit, she loved to eat at her childhood food places and pass by her old family home. She loved to visit her family and friends. She enjoyed playing card and other games and liked going on vacation. She used to say i was like her “mama.” I have attached our last vacation together in Puerto Vallarta. She will be greatly missed. I love you Lupita....
Love, your oldest sister Fran
Carmen Arenas
February 15, 2021
Today we honor the legacy of our sister Lupe. The memory we will cherish the most is when she was diagnosed with cancer and told us not to worry because she was accepting it and it would break her heart to know if any of her siblings were to get this terrible disease. She was an amazing woman with so much LIFE to give to all despite family conflicts. Lupe, you are our new angel now along with Mom and Dad. They say God takes only the best.. We will continue to pray for all your beautiful children and grandchildren. Your loving and positive smile will be deeply missed. Love, Sis Mary, Brother Paul and Sister Carmen
Carmen Arenas
February 15, 2021
Kathy Finnegan
February 14, 2021
Lupe was well loved and will be remembered always as the beautiful person she was by those of us that had the pleasure of working with her 💔
Ethel Lucas
February 14, 2021
I’m so very sorry for your loss my condolences to the family
Bryan Ayres
February 13, 2021
RIP Lupe, I will never forget your warm smile and loving spirit.
Heavenly Mitchell
February 13, 2021
Veronica
Sending sincere condolences and prayers of peace and comfort to you and your family during this difficult time
Heavenly Mitchell
Nancy Walsh
February 13, 2021
I have so many wonderful memories of Lupe from monthly faculty meetings at school, Playmaker retreats and just being out and about in the community. She was one of the kindest people that I have ever met. She would be the first one to offer help if you needed it. She had an amazing smile. She was such a bright light. Rest in peace, Lupe. My heart goes out to her family during this sad time. I hope that memories bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Mary Ware
February 13, 2021
Lupe will always have a dear place in my heart. It has been a privilege to have had her care for both of my children over the past 5 years, as well as to witness her love and compassion for all children at both the high school daycare and the preschool. Early on I was delighted to discover our shared connection to California, and over the years we eagerly shared travel plans (and flight prices) in hopes of visiting when possible. I will miss her bright smile and her positive outlook, and wish her family and friends comfort during this difficult time.
Krista Campbell
February 13, 2021
Lupe will be missed so much. I am so happy that I got to work with her and be friends for the last 15 years. I remember that a few years ago a restaurant in Hyannis would have a Mariachi band play once a week. We would go and they always loved to come over and play songs for Lupe specifically because she would smile so brightly and looked so happy! She had a way of making so many people happy with that smile.
Maureen & Frank Brillo
February 12, 2021
Trish and family
Our heart goes out to you. God must have needed another angel. Stay strong through these very difficult days.
Love you
Maureen & Frank
Laura Goddard
February 12, 2021
Mireya, sweetie face and family I am so sorry for your loss. I love you. Know I am always here for you. Be strong my young one. Loving you. Laura and Chad. <3 xo
Abby and Mike Smith
February 12, 2021
Lupe cared for our two kids, Bo and Josie for the past 3 years. She brought a kind of tenderness and warmth that is rare to see in someone who is working at their “job”. But it never seemed like a job to her. Her smile lit up the room each morning we would walk in and hand our child to her with full confidence that she would care for them like her own. We were about to get married in the summer of 2018 and Lupe would always make Krista play the wedding song every time we walked in. She would then quietly snicker thinking she was pretty slick. We loved her. Our kids adored her. We thought you should know.
Terri Rivera
February 12, 2021
So many fond memories. From girls night out, paint nights., Game nights, lunches , dinners and margaritas and Mariachis, Weekend retreats playmakers and so much more. Heaven has gain another angel. We will miss you dearly Lupe. My heart goes out to all her children , brothers ,and sisters whom she loved dearly.
Francisca Mignone
February 12, 2021
My condolences to the Romero family. May Guadalupe rest in peace. Prayers for all the family.
Lorayne Morales
February 12, 2021
Aunt Lupe,
Thank you for all your Love.
Here on Earth we will all miss you Deeply. In our hearts we carry great Memories of your life.
Love your Niece Lorayne ❤
Angie Moreno Gutierrez
February 12, 2021
Aunt Lupe , I know heaven is beautiful right now because they have you ! I miss you and love you aunt Lupe. My sincere condolences, love and prayers to my family. 🙏🏼💕