Thomas D. Jenkins Jr. (Tommy, Tom, T, Sweet Music) passed away Thursday June 3rd 2021. Tom is survived by his wife Christine Curnow Jenkins; his two children Harleigh and Hayden Jenkins; his mother Ruth McGillen Jenkins and two sisters Katie and Jill Jenkins . As well as his in-laws, cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and countless friends that he considered family.
As a proud born and raised Cape Codder, Tommy loved all things Cape Cod; the beaches, the fishing, the rinks, the ball fields, and the fried food joints . He would turn every pond skate and bonfire into THE place to be! He loved spending his days on Sandy Neck whether it be in a camper or on a boat. It is rumored that he was the first to take a pontoon to the sandbar. But true to his nature it was because he wanted to get as many people out there with him as possible. When he did venture off Cape he loved camping, floating on the Kangamangus, visiting York Beach or skiing with his childhood friends and their families.
When it came to sports he spent countless hours coaching, reffing or just cheering everyone on. You could always find him at the games and tournaments. He truly enjoyed watching all the kids (following their college/professional careers as well). His favorite post game traditions were sharing a box of twinkies or a trip to the ice cream store.
Tom was famous for declaring every event “a tradition” but he was most proud to be considered one of the founders of the decades long “Thanksgiving Family Football” game in which he voted himself MVP every year.
He had an amazing gift for making friends. He never held back his love, ending most visits, calls and texts with a “Drive Safe”, “I Love You” or even better “LUM” ( Love You Man). If the measure of man’s success is his impact on others Tommy was world class. And if you are among the many that he called a friend, you can consider yourself blessed.
Of all the things Tommy loved (and there are many) he loved his children the most. He was proud of them and he let you know it. He felt lucky to be their father, but also their friend. One conversation with Tommy and you would know that being a Dad was by far his proudest achievement. One way or another the best times of his life were because of his children.
Tommy was truly larger than life and will be missed by all. His legacy will live on with every memory shared, story told, and 70s song played.
Do a little dance, make a little love , get down tonight!
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to your favorite youth sports organization, or beach preservation organization.
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