Lillian L. Neidel
May 8, 1932 – August 15, 2018
Obituary of Lillian Louise Neidel Lillian Neidel, 86, of Independence Missouri, passed away peacefully at home on August 15th, 2018 surrounded by her beloved family. Lillian was born on May 8th, 1932 in Peculiar, MO to Matthew and Mary Pursley Hightower. On September 9, 1950 Lillian married the love of her life Russell Neidel at the Waldo Avenue Baptist Church in Independence, MO. Lillian was preceded in death by her parents, and her sister Rosalie Smith. She will be lovingly remembered by, her husband Russell of 67 years, her children, Jim, Melinda and Michael (Laura); her grandchildren, Ren, Lacey, Ryan (Holly), Samantha (Byron), Matthew (Katie) and great grandchildren, Jade, Logan, Kolten, Lilli, Johna and Layla; niece Rozanne, nephew Danny. Lillian was a graduate of William Chrisman class of 1950 and then spent her work years at Macy’s Department Store and B-B’s Super Drug. However, her favorite job/hobby was baking beautiful Wedding and Birthday cakes for many friends and family. In their free time Lillian and Russell had a passion for travel which included visits to all 50 states and all Canadian Provinces usually with Russel at the wheel of their motorhome. She was lifetime member of Susquehanna Baptist Church, her funeral will be held Tuesday August 21st at Newcomers Nolan Road Chapel, 509 South Noland Road, Independence, MO 64050, visitation will be at 10:00AM, Services at 11:00AM immediately followed by burial at Salem Cemetery in Independence. Pallbearers: Jim Neidel, Michael Neidel, Ren Neidel, Ryan Harshner, Matthew Skinner and Byron Nellis
- Matthew Hightower, Father
- Mary Hightower, Mother
- Russell Neidel, Husband
- Rosalie Smith, Sister
- Jim, Melinda and Michael (Laura), Children
- Ren, Lacey, Ryan (Holly), Samantha (Byron), Matthew (Katie), Grandchildren
- Jade, Logan, Kolten, Lilli, Johna and Layla, Great Grandchildren
- Niece, Rozanne and Nephew, Danny
- Jim Neidel, Pallbearer
- Michael Neidel, Pallbearer
- Ren Neidel, Pallbearer
- Ryan Harshner, Pallbearer
- Matthew Skinner, Pallbearer
- Byron Nellis, Pallbearer
- Visitation Tuesday, August 21, 2018
- Funeral Service Tuesday, August 21, 2018
- Committal Service Tuesday, August 21, 2018
Lillian L. Neidel
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Liliana Castañeda Rossmann
August 21, 2018
My deepest sympathies to Russell, Jimmy, Melinda, and Mike Neidel and their families, as well as Sharon Conn (niece) and Larry Neidel (nephew)
Lillian was a dear friend of my family and my host mom while I attended Fort Osage High School from 1977-79. She introduced me to the Susquehanna Baptist Church community and to the beauties of Independence, MO.
I shall forever be grateful to her for her warm hospitality, her Midwestern cuisine, and for an unforgettable Sweet Sixteen surprise birthday party, among other delights.
Rest in Peace.
August 17, 2018
Lillian was always so kind to me, and treated me like her own granddaughter. Christmas and birthday cards to Matt and me were always addressed to her grandson and granddaughter—along with her annual Hallmark ornaments. We were always made to feel special and loved by a generous and thoughtful woman. She will be greatly missed. We are so fortunate to have introduced her to Layla at Christmas and are very grateful for that opportunity. Sending our condolences to the entire Neidel family and lifting you up in love and strength at this difficult time.