THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF MY PRECIOUS PALMER.  I HAVE MANY GREAT MEMORIES THAT I WILL ALWAYS CHERISH.  TOOTS

Still think of y’all with love!
Donna Dearing

Dear Joy, 
Thanking of you today and your loss of Palmer.  Remember he is in Heaven having a wonderful time with loved ones that were waiting for his arrival.  Love you my dear friend and praying our God is giving you peace and comfort.
                Love,
                     Bettye

TODAY HAS BEEN THREE YEARS SINCE PALMER LEFT US TO GO TO HIS HEAVENLY HOME.  THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DON'T MISS MY GRANDSON.  PALMER BLESS OUR FAMILY IN SO MANY WAYS AND TODAY OUR FAMILY HAS THE BLESSING OF HAVING HIS SON LIAM DOWN FROM NORTH CAROLINA TO BE WITH US.  HE BRINGS SUCH CONFORT TO BRIAN AND KIM AT THIS TIME AND FOR THAT I AM VERY THANKFUL.  PLEASE KEEP US IN YOUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TODAY .  LOVE YOU PALMER YOUR GRANDMOTHER "TOOTS"

Dear Kim, Brian & Family,

I don't know what to say.  I never met Palmer, but I have known him for years.  I prayed for him and even reached out to him to let him know that.   Thank you for sharing those photos and memories of the beautiful boy you raised.  

I mourn with you but thank God that He is there to receive Palmer and comfort you.  

Your Sister-in-Christ,
Lynne

Brian and Kim,   I am so sorry for you loss, keeping you and the girls in my thoughts and prayers.

Whenever I think of Palmer I think of the smaller kid grinding away on the Jax Golf driving range for hours hoping to play with the "big kids."  I always enjoyed playing with him because of two things....he was always overly polite and because he had a drive that was unlike any other.  He believed in himself more than most,  and I always admired that about him.  I related to Palmer in the way Jordan Dempsey related to me.  One time on the range Palmer was hitting balls and I watched him hit a few shots that weren't so pleasing.  I said "Palmer, you're never going to get to the next level swinging flat man...no one that's any good does that."  He replied:  "I do!" and proceeded to flush it with a big grin.  To the kid who wanted to play golf with the big kids, know that we wanted to play golf  with you just as much.  Looking forward to our next match and hopefully a jam session!    

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.   💔

What a touching and beautiful service. We had no idea Palmer had such a wonderful voice. Thank you for including us. We love you, Terry and Shari Jaymes

I would be a lot of words over if I were to try and put our friendship and memories into only 2000 characters. I couldn’t even try to put into words the kind of caring and genuine soul you had. They say a picture is worth a 1000 words and this picture is worth 1000 memories to me! Riding up to golf tourneys 6-7 deep, Joel Davis late, me you and drill bumping wiz in the 4 runner.... great times with great people! My prayers and best wishes go to the entire Kelly family and all of his close friends! I love you legend, I’m going to miss you Palms, but I will never forget you. Rest easy brother I’ll see you again! 

Palmer was one of the most genuine and kind hearted people i have ever met. I was so blessed to call him one of my best friends. We had so many great times together I cant even keep track. He is gone but I will never forget him. He was like a brother to me and ill miss him everyday. My prayers go out to the Kelly family. Your son will be missed dearly. I cant wait to tee it up with you again up in heaven, rest easy palms love you. 


Brian, Kim and Family, Palmer will be truly missed.  But now he can watch over everyone and feel no pain.   He will be able to see his son, Liam,  daily and watch him grow up.  I think that what Palmer would have liked.   May God be with you guys today and everyday.  

Kelly Family, 

I am so sorry for your loss. I always felt Palmer was a genuine & kind light with a beautiful heart, I loved being around him. Our friendship was brief, but I will always remember him. I pray that you find peace & comfort. blessings. 

Caitlin 

Dear Brian, Kim, and family,
Please know that so many are praying for you. I know that your love for Palmer is beyond the expression of words. I am confident that Palmer always knew that he was loved like crazy and that you wanted the best for him. For the years that I've known you, I have prayed for Palmer and for you. I thank God that He has given you precious moments with Palmer that you will treasure always. I thank God for the precious gift of Liam, who is a part of Palmer that you have to love here on this earth. We don't always understand why we have to endure such pain on this earth, but we can rejoice in the fact that we are also able to experience and live in joy...the  joy that Christ has won this battle.  I wanted to share the lyrics of a song that has sustained me over the past months:

I'm not afraid
To show You my weakness
My failures and flaws, Lord, You've seen them all
And You still call me friend
'Cause the God of the mountain
Is the God of the valley
There's not a place Your mercy and grace
Won't find me again

Oh, there's nothing better than You
There's nothing better than You
Lord, there's nothing
Nothing is better than You

You turn mourning to dancing
You give beauty for ashes
You turn shame into glory
You're the only one who can

Palmer is being held now in the arms of our God who loves him, comforts him.  gives him peace, and has healed him...taking away all pain and struggle. I pray for peace for all of you and that the memories you hold will be ones of happiness.

You are loved.
Denise Sweat

Kim I am so very sorry to hear such sad news for your family.  Listening to his tribute and seeing all of the photos is beautiful.  Yes, Palmer now has his wings and is being held and loved on by Jesus.  Sending love and healing to you and your dear family.
Love,
Jeannie

I am so happy we got to spend the time we had together Palmer was one of the nicest people i could have worked with he made working fun he would always start the morning by saying “Full Eyes Clear Heart Baby.” And it would fill everyone with joy and make the day go by and enjoyable thank you for the talks we had and I will see you in paradise some day Rest Easy Fam.

Dear Kim & Brian,

I am heartbroken to hear about the loss of Palmer. I will forever cherish the love and kindness he brought into my life. I pray you find comfort in knowing Palmer is smiling down upon us all. 

With Love,
Will

All I can see is your smile and I can hear your voice thanking me for inviting you to spend 4th of July with my family and I. If I knew that would have been my last time seeing you, I would have hugged you tighter, told you I loved you with more umph and said thanks for coming with more sincerity. If 😢If 😢If. Im so sad, and  so heartbroken💔 you were one of my office kids. I loved you then and I love you now. Sleep in peace my little baby face office Son❤❤❤

Kim,
My heart is broken for you and your family.  May the Lord be with you and your family and friends through this very trying time.  Much love,
Kathy

Palmer, you were such a joy to be around.  Your presence, kindness and light are missed. To those who knew you as I did, you were universally loved and respected... The memories you created with us will be forever cherished. My condolences to the Kelly family, your loss is monumental as Palmer was truly a gifted, talented and inspiring young man at his best. Love you always Palmie.

Dear Kim and Brian,
I am devastated to hear about your loss. I can’t imagine what your family is going through. I always thought Brian was adorable. I remember when he signed your name to something from school and you asked my advice on punishment . I recommended that you have him write it 100 times and you told me he hated it! What we go through with our children and every memory is precious! Please accept my love and heartfelt sympathy. God bless your family.
Love ,
Donna

Dear Brian, Kim, Lindsay and Peyton- I am so sorry for your loss. I just hope that all the love and joy you shared with Palmer during his short life and knowing that he is no longer struggling will bring you some peace and comfort. Thank you for sharing these pictures!

I am so sorry to hear of Palmer’s passing. I remember him as such a cute and sweet little boy at San Jose. Please accept my sincere condolences. 

Dear Brian and Kim, 

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Karen Shook

Our dear friend Palmer's Grandmother Joy Camp,  and all your family.  Our hearts are broken for you.  We are remembering all of you in prayer that our God will give you peace and comfort in knowing that Palmer is now well and happy in heaven with Our God and family that have gone on before him.
  Love you,
         Ray & Bettye Blankenship

Kim and Brian,

Marc and I send our deepest sympathies to you and your family.  May you be comforted with loving memories of your precious Palmer. 

My heart just breaks for the whole family. May you forever remember all the great times you had with Palmer as each day is a gift from God. 
Lisa Brown

Kim & Brian 
I am so shocked and saddened by the passing of Palmer. I want you to know he was always so kind and respectful to me and my family. I pray for you and your family as you grieve.

May God Bless you and grant you peace!

Brian, Kim, Peyton and Lindsey,

Sweet Palmer is home at last.  He is in the arms of Jesus and the Angels.  Michael W. Smith, "I can only imagine" plays over and over again in my head.  

I remember your Sweet Loving Smiles and Hugs and for that I am grateful.  Memories will sustained us until we meet again.  

You will be missed but we have faith and know we will see you again.  Thank you for so many Sweet Memories.

Love, Aunt Melanie 

To the Kelly Family,

I will be forever indebted to Kim and my mother, Mary for bringing Palmer and I together and into a day one friendship like the one you both maintain to this day. Palmer was truly the light on a dark day and brought positivity to everything he was apart of. I will cherish the times we had together for the rest of my life. Palmer will always hold a spot in my heart as one of my first, and best friends as the Kellys hold a spot in my heart, and my family’s, as family. I will miss not having my long lost brother in my life, but his memory will remain and help get me through each day as I know it will to many others. Can’t wait to see you again.  I love you Palmer. I love you Kelly family. My heart hurts. 

Chase Acree

Brian & Kim,
There’s a great possibility you won’t remember me as we only met a few times 3-4 years ago, but I remember Palmer very well. I absolutely adored him as he was one of my favorites. His smile could light up the room and he had such a sweet, unassuming spirit. My heart aches for you and wish I had more to offer than words which I know don’t touch the pain. Praying for God’s comfort to meet you, His grace to carry you through, and His wisdom to offer understanding. I also wish I could attend services so I could hug you in person. Please accept my apologies for my absence. 

Brian and Kim.  Our prayers are with you for comfort , peace and understanding after hearing this sad news.  Palmer is now healed from his demons.  We are here for you.

FOR MY PRECIOUS GRANDSON.  PALMER I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVED YOUR FAMILY AND HOW HARD YOU FOUGHT THIS ADDICTION.  YOUR TOOTS WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW MUCH I WAS BLESSED TO HAVE YOU FOR 26 YEARS.  I WILL CHERISH ALL THE MEMORIES I HAVE HAD WITH MY PALMER . LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART.  YOUR GRANDMOTHER TOOTS

I recently had the honor of spending time with your son. In the short time we spent together it was apparent that Palmer was a kind, compassionate, considerate, intelligent young man. I was truly looking forward to how he would emerge from this and grow as a man. Since you really don't know me I can only offer these words and please.... know that they're true... Palmer was truly a good person in his heart and soul. The context in which I met  and spend time with him  just made it more apparent... I offer my deepest and most heartfelt condolences to you and your family...  May he rest in eternal peace.

To The Kelly Family, 

There’s a possibility you may not remember me. 
Palmer was the first boy to ever show me what love was and I will always be grateful it was him. He had a big heart that shined through his contagious smile and cared so deeply for everyone he crossed paths with. The memories I shared with him will forever be cherished and Palmer will never be forgotten. 
My love and prayers go out to your beautiful family and all those who encountered him. May he be at peace and soar beyond the clouds. 

With love, 
Chelsea

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Kelly, 
I’ve never met you but I believe you know my ex-husband Ron and my son, Spencer , my name is Lisa Reed. I lived in JGCC a number of years. 
Just want to say that sweet Palmer never failed to wave and/or honk at me as I walked through JGCC. 
I last saw him on the campus of Santa Fe In 2013 when I was there with Spencer. Of course Palmer came over to give me a hug. What a great guy he was. 
My condolences, 
Lisa Reed

Dear Brian and family, 
My heart is broken for you. I don’t know your beautiful Palmer, but listening to him sing gives me an idea I would have been a huge fan. I’m praying and trusting our Lord to bring you peace during these upcoming days and weeks.... I’m so sorry for your loss.... 

OBITUARY

James Palmer Kelly

December 11, 1993 – July 11, 2020

Hardage-Giddens Oaklawn Chapel & Oaklawn Cemetery

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