

Born on May 25, 1951, in New York to M. Stephen Bremer and Patsy Raskob Bremer, Mary grew up in Easton, Maryland, where she developed deep roots in the Talbot County community. She attended Saints Peter and Paul High School, where she graduated before beginning the next chapters of her life. Mary later relocated to Palm Beach County, Florida, where she spent many years building a life filled with family, friendships, and the activities she loved.
Mary was known for her wonderful sense of humor, generous spirit, caring heart, and strong-willed personality. She had a way of making her presence known, sharing a laugh, and standing firm in what she believed. Those who knew her understood that beneath her determination was a woman who cared deeply about the people in her life. Her warmth, humor, and independent spirit made her someone who would not easily be forgotten.
An avid equestrian and lifelong horse lover, Mary found great joy in owning and riding horses. Her passion for these magnificent animals was an important part of her life, reflecting her appreciation for their beauty, strength, and independence. Whether spending time with her horses or enjoying the outdoors, her love of the equestrian world brought her happiness throughout the years.
Mary also had a love for travel and the opportunity to experience new places. She enjoyed the adventures, experiences, and memories that traveling brought into her life. Ireland held a special place in her heart, and she had hoped to return for another visit. Her plans to travel there again reflected her adventurous spirit, her curiosity about the world, and her desire to continue enjoying all that life had to offer.
Professionally, Mary worked as a pharmaceutical technician before retiring. Throughout her career, she demonstrated dedication, responsibility, and a strong work ethic.
Above all, Mary was a loving and devoted mother and grandmother. Her children and grandchildren were an important part of her life, and she took great pride in their accomplishments and the individuals they became. She treasured the opportunities to spend time with family, share stories, enjoy laughter, and create memories that will remain with them for generations.
Mary also understood the importance of lasting friendships. She especially treasured her longtime friendships with Kathleen "Kathy" Weigel and Rita Wilkins, whose companionship and friendship were meaningful parts of her life.
Mary leaves to cherish her memory her three children, John Kirkland "Kirk" Howie, Sr (Anna), Jason Stewart Howie and Jennifer Anne Howie Sims; she was the proud grandmother of seven grandchildren, Jaylen Howie, John "KJ" Howie, Jr. and Teagan Howie, children of Kirk; and Mason Sims, Kaden Sims, and Luke Noble, children of Jennifer; and Daniella Davidson; her brothers, Dr. William Bremer and Robert Bremer (Stephany); her sister, Anne Staley (Carl); along with extended family members and dear friends.
Mary's life was filled with moments of laughter, love, determination, and devotion. She was a woman of strong character who lived life with a sense of independence, cared deeply for those closest to her, and appreciated the people and passions that brought her happiness.
While her family mourns her passing, they find comfort in knowing that her final moments were peaceful and that she was surrounded by the people she loved most. Her memory will live on through the stories shared, the laughter remembered, and the love she leaves behind.
Her spirit, her strength, and her love will remain forever in the hearts of her family and all who knew her.
A graveside service honoring and celebrating Mary's life will be held at St. Peter's Catholic Church Cemetery, 5319 Ocean Gateway, Queenstown, Maryland 21658, at 10:00 a.m. on Thursday, December 10, 2026.
Family and friends are invited to gather to remember Mary, celebrate her life, and honor the many memories she leaves behind.
Forever loved. Forever remembered. Forever in our hearts.
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