OBITUARY
Joseph "Joe" Edwin McCoy
February 16, 1948 – February 16, 2021
Joseph Edwin McCoy of Basehor, KS passed away peacefully at Providence Medical Center on Tuesday, February 16, 2021. Joe was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, entrepreneur, business owner, philanthropist, horseman and friend. His constant positivity and generosity had a profound effect on everyone he met. He will surely be missed by his family and friends.
Joe spent his entire life in the Kansas City Metro area, and loved his home town. He was born on February 16, 1948 in Kansas City, KS to his parents Rolla “Barney” and Dorothy (Thomas) McCoy, and grew up in Kansas City, KS with his 5 brothers James, John, Robert, Richard and Patrick. He graduated from Wyandotte High School in 1966, and attended Kansas City KS Community College. In 1970 he went to work with his brother John as a partner at McCoy Sales Company a manufacturer representative in the plumbing industry. In 1976 Joe and John enlisted the help of their brothers to purchase Orion Fittings a plastic pipe and fittings manufacturing and sales operation which they ran together until selling the company in 2004. In 2008 Joe recruited his son Jeff to take the reins at McCoy Sales Company as he transitioned to semi-retirement. Joe was a giant in the plumbing industry both locally through his work at McCoy Sales Company, and nationally through his work at Orion Fittings.
Joe approached life with gusto and always had a smile on his face. He had a contagious laugh that would fill a room. Throughout his life family always came first, and he had a selfless nature that always put others ahead of his needs or wants. You could always depend on Joe to be there with advice, support or help no matter the situation. Joe had a lasting effect on everyone he came in contact with, and he left this world a better place than he found it. As he moved into his retirement years his greatest pride was his four grandchildren. He loved going to their school events, games and enjoyed fishing with them at his house. They loved their grandpa too, and they will miss him dearly.
Joe was preceded in death by his father and mother, and his siblings James McCoy, Robert McCoy and Patrick McCoy. He leaves behind to cherish his memory his wife of 16 years Linda McCoy; brothers, John (Claudette) McCoy and Richard (Amanda) McCoy; son, Jeff (Sarah) McCoy; step son, John Forbes; and grandchildren, Charlie, Mimi, and Ruby Jean McCoy and Logan Forbes.
A private ceremony will be held Tuesday, February 25th at Chapel Hill-Butler Funeral home in Kansas City, KS with a visitation at 12:30 followed by a service at 1:30PM. The service will be live streamed at facebook.com/chapelhillbutler. Shortly before the appointed time, the livestream will begin. If you do not see the livestream on your screen, please refresh your page. You may need to scroll down to see the livestream. Interment will be immediately following in Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers the family suggests memorial contributions be made to Jeff McCoy in order to set up an education fund for Logan Forbes. Please send contributions to: Jeff McCoy, c/o Chapel Hill-Butler Funeral Home, 701 N. 94th St., Kansas City, Kansas 66112.
PALLBEARERS
- Johnny Forbes
- Eric Hendricks
- Ryan Hendricks
- Travis Moats
- Matt Robb
- Brett Bartley
- John McCoy, Honorary Pallbearer
- Richard McCoy, Honorary Pallbearer
Services
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Virtual Funeral Service
Thursday, February 25, 2021
Memories
Joseph "Joe" Edwin McCoy
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ADD A MEMORYWarren Rosenbrook
February 25, 2021
Our Engineering community has lost a giant of a man. He was a leader, businessman, mentor and teacher. I learned so much from him over the years specifying the product McCoy Sales represented. He was also a Charter member of the Kansas City Chapter of the American Society of Plumbing Engineers and was part of the formation of the Chapter. He assisted me as Chapter President under two separate terms. I really appreciate the advice he gave me on several occasions. His problem solving skills, knowledge and leadership skills are going to be missed.
Rest in peace Joe! I will never forget you.
Daniel Smith
February 25, 2021
So sad to hear of Joe's passing. A nice genuine man for whom I
did work for over 30 years. My kind regards and sincere condolences for his family.
Dan Smith
Lenexa, KS
Pat Hixson
February 24, 2021
I'm sorry to hear about Joe. He was a good guy and I know his family will miss him. We used to play basketball, do a little beer drinking and cards and laugh a bunch. He was a pleasant
man to be around and I know you'll all miss him.
Kevin lutz
February 24, 2021
Sad to read of Joes passing. Truly a Giant in the Plumbing industry,
From my early days at Reeves Wiedeman , to Lutz Plumbing and as a fellow Rep. Joe was always happy to help. Cheers to a Life well Lived.
derek riggs
February 23, 2021
I will always remember Joe as being a very helpful and kind person. He was a leader in our industry and the ASPE golf tournament just won't be the same without him. He will be missed greatly.
michael dennehy
February 21, 2021
So sad to hear of joe's passing. he was a true friend and a real leader. he helped me in so many ways during the time i spent with him both in business situations and fun times...I never heard anyone say a negative thing about Joe. When he came into a room shortly he would have everyone smiling and laughing. I know how much Jeff will miss him as well as his brother John...So many fond memories....Mike Dennehy
Ronald Hopper
February 21, 2021
What can we say when friends pass and it is so shocking to hear.
We wish we had the right words to say to Joe's family that would help to comfort them. But, we can't seem to find those words.
Joe will certainly be missed by so many.
Our sincere sympathy to Joe's family at this difficult time.
Ron & Joyce (Scott) Hopper
Kenny Moody
February 20, 2021
There is little doubt god made the mold for the most caring, genuine human on February 16, 1948. He is at the top of the list on case studies for positive human behavior...by a long shot (pardon me Joe, but I had to mention long shot from our day at the Breeder's Cup at Santa Anita). Until we meet again, RIP Joe McCoy.
Linda Dodd
February 20, 2021
Joe was the president of our HOA. He worked tirelessly to make sure that everything was done right and that our neighborhood was in tip-top shape. I so enjoyed our time visiting back and forth concerning HOA things, and about life in general. He never met a stranger, and made it a point to visit our new residents and welcome them to our neighborhood. We were so fortunate to call him our leader and more importantly - our friend. Condolences to his wife Linda, his family, and his friends. Joe, you will be missed!
Jolene Harris
February 20, 2021
I had the pleasure of working wit Joe at Orion for may years. I can say that he inspired me to work harder and better. Because of him I went back to college and got my degree. He was the best person to talk to when you had a problem you needed help with. Never judgmental but always honest in his advice. He was the kindest person in the world as he would give you the shirt off his back and not gave a second thought about it!!
You were and will always be my favorite boss and one or my treasured friends!!
Sue Jochens
February 20, 2021
Condolences to Linda, Jeff, and your families.
When people talked about angels and saints on earth, they may or may not have known for sure what they were talking about, but for a fact, they were talking about Joe. One could not find a kinder, gentler, more caring, or more giving man, and he is missed by everyone that knew him.
A true friend to us for 30+ years, he quickly became family. In every way except DNA, he was my husbands brother. We shall never forget and always remember the gentle soul that was Joe. Rest in peace, our friend. Rest in peace.
Anita Macan
February 19, 2021
Joe was one of the best people I've ever met. I've had the pleasure of working for him for half my life. He was the eternal optimist - always looking at the bright side. He had an immense love of people, whether you were the janitor or the CEO, he had a way of making you feel special. When we painted our offices many years ago, the painter walked into the biggest office and said "Is this Big Daddy's office?" We laughed, and Joe was Big Daddy hence forth. I'll miss our coffee and talks in the mornings. I'll miss everything about him. There's a special place in heaven for him.
Tom Jochens
February 18, 2021
To the best and most unique person I have ever known, and the best friend one could ever have. I and all of my family personally owe so much to him. He made all of our lives better. We were all so fortunate just to have known him. I tip my glass for the final time. I will miss him terribly.
Dan Shelby
February 17, 2021
Joe was one of the first people I met at Wyandotte High school, 1964. We played softball, sand lot football and basketball in our younger years. Had lots of wild rides in my dad's car. Lots of laughs, it's a wonder we made thru. Kept in touch thru the years. He would take us to football and baseball games. He was a great friend and will be missed! Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Loved his laugh!!
Jerry Goldsberry
February 17, 2021
The generation of field salesman and manufacturer's rep that Joe was a big part of will forever be missed for all the knowledge and value that they bought to the table. Joe belongs in the Elite ranks of these fellows.
I am very grateful to have known him and worke3d with him.
Humbly,
JerryG/
M Stan
February 17, 2021
Joe had a unique sense of humor and could make you feel at ease or push you almost in the same sentence. As a young man joining the industry, I was amazed by the stories and knowledge from all the years he spent working with so many people. My condolences to the family and the sales team.
Steven Chromey
February 17, 2021
I was shocked this morning to hear that Joe passed away. I work for Jay R. Smith Manufacturing Company and McCoy Sales was our representative for many years. Even after we went separate ways Joe and I kept in touch and I always looked forward to his phone call and his infectious laugh. He was a good friend and I will miss "keeping in touch" with him. I am sure he will be missed by many. He made a mark in our industry and will be missed on both a business and personal level. May he rest in peace.