Charles Dale Durbin

July 2, 1938December 18, 2020

Charles Dale Durbin, age 82, passed away on December 18, 2020 in Lee’s Summit, Missouri. Charles was born on July 2, 1938 to Charles L. Durbin and Mildred L. Durbin in Windsor, Missouri. He graduated from William Chrisman High School in 1956 and received a bachelor’s degree from William Jewell College in 1960. Charles Dale married Judith Ann Hachler on June 14, 1960. They demonstrated a commitment and love for each other that was a joy to behold. Charles worked for Business Men's Assurance company for 39 years. There he worked in the investment department. He retired in 2001. Charles was a deacon and active member of his church. He enjoyed photography and spending time with his bride. He is preceded in death by his parents, Charles and Mildred. He is survived by his wife Judy, his son Mike (Shari) of Boise, Idaho, his daughter Michelle (Randy) of Buckner, Missouri, his daughter Monica (Kevin) of Centerview, Missouri, his 7 grandchildren and 6 great grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made to Alzheimer’s Association, The Gathering at Noland Road, or a non-profit of your choice.


  • Visitation

    Friday, January 15, 2021

  • Committal Service

    Friday, January 15, 2021


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Machille Schones

January 14, 2021

First, giving honor and praise to our Heavenly Father,
To his wife, Mrs. Charles Durbin and family, to our Sister in Christ, Michelle Arnold and family, Friends and Love Ones:
Under the leadership of Jesus, and Pastor Bob and Debbie Kaps; We, 'The Bunch of Ladies' Prayer Brunch,' and the church family of Heart of God Fellowship, extend our deepest heartfelt sympathy. Galatians5:22-23: The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, and temperance. I met Mr. and Mrs. Charles Durbin, when I entered my church to set up for a Prayer Brunch Meeting. The Arnolds, unexpectedly invited me, to join in on their Thanksgiving feast in
the dining area for their yearly family Thanksgiving get-together. Mr. and Mrs. Charles Durbin, welcome me, as did the rest of the family, with opened arms. I truly felt joy, love, and peace from the whole family, they may not remember, for it was a years ago, but I will never forget, the joy, love, and care that was shown that day. I can truly say the gentleness and care shown from Sister Michelle Arnold and the caring helpfulness shown from my younger Sister in Christ Ruth and her friend, McKenzie, who I observed a few years ago, surprising our pianist with an acapella Happy Birthday song, and who always seems to be helpful , which is a testament of Galatians 5:22-23, being passed down through Mr. Charles Durbin to future generations. We, like Mr. Charles Durbin, must join our lives, to Jesus. We must know , love, remember, and imitate Jesus. The results will be that we will fulfill the intended purpose of the Law: Loving God and man. We thank God for the 'joy,' that was shared through Mr. Charles Durbin and that continues to shine through his family.
Humbly and Prayerfully Submitted,
Under the leadership of Jesus & Pastor Bob and Debbie Kaps of Heart of God Fellowship,
Sister Machille Schones, Chairperson