I was lucky enough to meet Remington's parents on their recent trip to Florida. I was astounded at their strength and dignity exhibited after such a horrific loss. I pray for their entire family to heal. 
Much love. 
Michael Schultz
Naples friend 

Colette and family, I just found out of Remy's death in the last 30 minutes and have spent this time looking through the many pictures since last I saw him and your family.  I can't imagine a mother being more proud of the great man he was and I am so very sorry for the pain you are feeling. This is all so tremendously tragic and I am heartbroken for you. I am praying for strength for you as I know the grief you are feeling.

I remember when I was a freshman in high school and Remy was the manager of the basketball team he was always friendly and nice to the younger players even though he was already a senior. I will always remember him for his kindness and he will definitely be sorely missed.

June 17th, 2016: Our class graduation, he was a speaker and represented our class to the rest of Conference. Pictured with Isabella Pollato, Eric Dearborn, Kyesha Slaughter, Desmond Williams, Emma Bryant & many more.

June 16th, 2016: Our class graduation, he was a speaker and represented our class to the rest of Conference.

(2/2) He was always dressed and prepared for a press conference or a sit-down meeting. I, on the other hand, usually pulled out whatever I could find in my cabin, regardless of what it looked like. Remy was always considerate. Not only did he have the manners of a true gentleman at the age of 17, but he also was deeply and genuinely considerate of others.

I learned from him what it meant to think about others' positions while simultaneously holding true to yourself and your own values. This was something that I thought I understood at the time, but I only really understood it after talking with Remy about some heated political topics in 2013, 2014, 2015 and 2016. These were topics that we found ourselves coming back to again and again as we are both from Missouri–a hotbed for some major chafing between geo-cultural regions. These topics were very close to both of our hearts, and as we were living on the “front lines” of some of these issues, we were both very passionate about the ideas we had at the time.

Over time, Remy and I had several heated debates and sometimes, we just had to agree to disagree and walk away from one another. However, not once, not *once* in four years did I ever feel personally disrespected by Remy. He showed me what true, steadfast compassion for another person looks and feels like. After time, we really knew how to get under each other’s skin, but not once did Remy push the line between respect and disrespect. He was truly a deeply patient, compassionate, and thoughtful young person. I love him and respect him very much. I am a better person because I’ve known Remy.

I work everyday to be more like Remy. He was the example of a statesman, he was an example of a loving and responsible member of a community, and most importantly, the example of a dear friend. We love you Remy, and we will miss you dearly. I love you and I will miss you dearly. Go in peace friend.

Emma Bryant
NLC Class of 2013


Remington Williams III and I had a few things in common like: we are both from Missouri, both found ourselves in 2013 attending our first year at the National Leadership Conference, and we were both kinda stocky kids at a summer camp. There’s always an unspoken and immediate kinship with another stocky kid at camp–just in case you’ve never been a stocky teenager at a summer camp. I used to think that things like these were where our similarities stopped, seeing as there were so many things that we could point to that made us very different. For one thing, Remy was from Kansas City, therefore he was a Royals fan, and I am from St. Louis, and a staunch Cardinals fan. This was a major cultural difference between the two of us. However, these types of differences, geographical; cultural; political; they tend to at once fall away and heighten after a few days living in the forest in the heat with strangers.

The whole point or goal of the National Leadership Conference is to bring people together from different places, cultures and political ideologies. It’s a mighty task to pool hundreds of 15-21 year olds into wooden cabins during the summertime under the best of circumstances. It is an even mightier one to find those who might be on opposite ends of a geographical, cultural or political spectrum and drop them into an unknown location and then ask them to agree on anything, much less change the world. This is exactly what Remy did in his life, and I believe one of his core values: to change the world.

Our class name is ‘Yuíle Yuthókeča’ which translates “to ignite change”. All of us at camp, and elsewhere, had a different idea about what is right, what needs to be changed and what should be changed. Remy and I found ourselves in conversation more than once, usually having opposing viewpoints about the direction of change–even on the smallest of things. I never saw Remy dressed down, even at camp.  (1/2)

Our hearts ache for your loss and all the promise of what was possible with Remy's leadership, passion, and love for serving others.   His sweet soul and kind smile always made others feel seen and heard.  Remy's memory will live on in each of us whom was lucky enough to share a moment(s) in time with him in his all too brief of time here on earth.   Sending love to you all. 
Connie Hursh Drees 

My heartfelt love to all of Remi’s family and friends. I am so devastated to read this. Remi was a child of God, brighting everyone’s days with love and gratitude. I have never met a soul that was so kind, thanking me after every rehearsal and service at The Presbyterian Church of Stanley. I am so blessed to have known him and to have had the privilege to witness what special gifts he brought to everyone around him. My love is pouring out to all of his dear family and friends. 

Remy and his grandpa HR making the famous Williams Party Mix.

A tribute to Remy by the University of Missouri Kansas City



https://www.umkc.edu/news/posts/2022/june/celebrating-an-exceptional-student-leader.html



Sending all of our love to Colette and family.  We cherish the memories we have of meeting Remi and know his light will forever shine. We love you and lift you all in prayers. Love - Tim and Val (Suess)Lakey

We are sending our heartfelt condolences on the tragic loss of a beloved son, brother and friend.  We cherish the many shared experiences.  Much healing to you all.

I’ve been trying to remember when I met Remy, but I truly can’t, He’s always been my childhood friend from church. Remy had the best and most unique humor! He had the heart of a servant and could strike up a captivating conversation with anyone,  no matter their age. He was a regular around youth group and I have a million memories from our growing up years. It was so fun to see where life had taken him since high school and how successful he was at such a young age.  Remy was always destined to be great, to be in a role of importance. I haven’t managed to comprehend that’s he gone, especially so soon, but knowing Remy, he’s in heaven running all sorts of special projects for God. I look forward to reuniting with him one day in glory, where I’m sure he’ll tell me with a twinkle in his eye about all sorts of mischief and amazing work he’s been up to. My thoughts and prayers are with all his family and friends. He will be missed beyond measure. 

Remy was beloved at the Law School.  He was a special human.  Remy served as a Submissions and Symposia Editor on the UMKC Law Review and as the student representative to the University of Missouri Board of Curators.  He was other-directed, unflappable, kind, and smart.  I wish more law students would chart their own course, the way Remy did. I wish more law students would care about other people, the way Remy did.  Deepest condolences to Remy's family and friends. 

Remy was special.  He impacted hundreds of lives in his short time on Earth.  He was a role model, a joyous and loving person, and just an A+++ human being.  He was rare.

What a tremendous and devastating loss for so, so many.   Holding all of his family close in love and prayer. ❤️

Susan Miller

Remi was in my fifth grade class. He was such a smart kid, and a true leader in the classroom. My heart is so heavy and saddened for his family, and for the loss of a special young man who had a brilliant future in front of him. Prayers of comfort to his family and friends. 
Angie Kramer 

We honestly don’t feel like we have the words to express our  sympathy for your unimaginable loss. Remy’s smile could light up the room. May we all take a knee and have a moment of silence for #76. He was the kind of young man everyone would be lucky to have on their team. Our hearts hurt for all of you.
Our condolences, Laura, James and Tristan Threatt.

Remy always looked out for the younger guys on the football team. I was a freshman when he was a senior, and I remember him going out of his way to give younger guys rides and advice.  Really a great guy and will be sorely missed.

There are no words that can quantify just how much Remy meant to me. He was more than just my childhood best friend, he was my brother. We were the dynamic duo, partners in crime, and to know that he’s gone devastates me. Remy was truly extraordinary. Marty, Colette, and Easton, you all are like a second family to me and if you need anything at all please let me know. 

Dan Stilley

Collette,  Marty and Easton, my heart goes out for you so much. Words can not be said to describe what a loss this is for you as well as all of us who were touched by him. I have fond memories of him and how much he made me laugh. If there is anything I can do for you please let me know. My thoughts are with you and you are in my prayers. 

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Williams family. We hope and pray that their precious  memories of an amazing and loving son will provide peace and comfort. Remy had a heart of gold and was a kind soul. Our son, Dylan, went to PHS with Remy and enjoyed great moments together both on and off the football field. Here are the two of them along with another Raider on their way to Italy. Remy leaves a legacy of compassion and care for all others to follow. Rest In Peace REMY!

Remy was like my little brother we talked about life in general I know he used to help me with my daily Bible scripture I sent out. Will definitely miss him  he touched many lives including mine. Rest in piece little brother. 

Bro you had so much going for you! I know they say the good die young, but not this way!!! You will be truly missed. We just ask for you to keep watching over us and giving us that Remington Smile while we get through these hard times! We are sorry, but we love you bro! Never forget that! Your will always be remembered and never forgotten!!! Love you my brother, my friend, my role model, our angel, our protecter, and our watching eye!!! 🖤🖤🙏🏾🙏🏾🖤🖤

Remi, you did so much to get me where I am today, as a person, a fellow Eagle Scout, and as a Scout leader. I’ll never forget how you always looked out for me, whether it was getting me a soda when I had low blood sugar, cheering me on as I completed the Swimming Merit Badge, helping me when I was homesick, or just giving me words of encouragement and wisdom. I love you and miss you my brother

Wise beyond your years. You always kept us in line. Made sure we were always dressed sharp. And you are by far the best of us. We love you, Bubb. 

If school spirit were a person, it would be Remy. He belonged to schools and schools belonged to him. He made an impact and will be so dearly missed. With love, The Bethune Family

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Remington Rea Williams

September 29, 1996 – June 8, 2022

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