Dengler, Roberts, Perna Funeral Home

3070 Delaware Avenue, Kenmore, NY


Barbara J McCarthy

October 25, 1940July 23, 2020

McCARTHY - William “Donn” and Barbara J. (nee Bajorek) William “Donn” passed January, 27, 2020. Barbara J. (nee Bajorek) passed July 23, 2020. Loving parents of Bill (Abby) McCarthy of Arlington, VA, Timothy J. (Erin) McCarthy of Sleepy Hollow, NY, Molly (Bill Braungart) Ciocca, Julie, and Daniel McCarthy; survived by eight loving grandchildren. Donn is the brother of the late Dean (Kelly) McCarthy. Barbara is survived by her sister Nancy (Jerry) Okrzynski. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held in October at St. Mark RC Church. Memorials to WNY Alzheimer’s Association. Please share condolences: www.denglerrobertspernafuneral.com


  • No Prior Visitation, Mass of Christian Burial


Barbara J McCarthy

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Camille Kuczkowski

August 10, 2020

Sending my condolences. Your parents were wonderful people, and fondly remembered.

Patricia Kuczkowski

August 7, 2020

To the family of William and Barbara,
So sorry to hear of both your parents passing. We have many fun memories of your family inviting us to the Crystal Beach vacation house. Their smiles were always uplifting. They were lovely people, and they are at peace now. We hope that all of you will find the peace that you need to.
Stay safe.
With much sympathy,
Carl and Pat (Kuczkowski)

Richard Kijowski

August 4, 2020

We all grew up together. Barb and her sister Nancy lived next door to us. Their store was on Oliver and 10th Avenue. We lived right behind them. Awesome family and they were great to be with. God Bless Barb and condolences to the family.

Leo Fabrizi

August 2, 2020

I was acquainted with Barbara through her husband, Donn, the dictionary definition of the word "gentleman." Donn took this young lawyer under his wing early in his career and for the past 35 years I have tried to follow the honorable examples that he set for me not only as an attorney but as a human being. Donn's humility and kindness always made me feel that I mattered, and his selflessness has never been matched in my experience. I will always treasure the personal and professional life lessons he taught me. Rest in peace my friend and mentor, you deserve it for a life well lived.

Karen (Ruminski) Duff

July 30, 2020

Bill, Tim, Molly, Julie and Danny - I am so sorry and saddened to hear about both of your parents. I have such fond memories of our days spent at the beach over the years. I even had dinner with your dad a couple times more recently at Fox Run when he would come to see my dad, which was a pleasure. They were such good friends for so long. Interestingly, your dad passed away almost 2 years to the day that my dad did. My dad died on Jan. 28, 2018. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I hope you are all finding peace during this time.

Jean (Scheelar) Coad

July 26, 2020

Bill,Tim,Molly,Julie,Danny..your Mom and Dad were very special friends and neighbors. I have such wonderful,fun memories of both of them as well as all of you. Many hours at the beach, all the St Marks activities ,sledding at Delaware park..the list is endless. Although I haven't seen you in awhile. I know you are all great people because your Mom and Dad made sure they raised you to be great and successful. I send my love to all of you and my deepest sorrow for your loss.


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