Joshua Turner Norred

Joshua, "Hello Handsome"....I miss you Joshua, with every breath I take!! You are NOT and will NEVER be dead in my eyes, or my heart. It just cannot be true. My son, my life, my love, know how much your mama loves you, today as ALWAYS!!!!!

Every corner I turn, I expect to hear you say "Hello Beautiful...."

"That even in our sleep, pain, which cannot forget, falls drop by drop upon the heart, until, in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom through the awful grace of God.”(Aeschylus)......This was quoted by JFK.

This truly makes my heart weep thru my eyes. I love you baby...

~Mama 😥

(Beth Norred)

From the time you were in diapers up through playing baseball, football, getting your first car and all the other things you seem to have gotten into, even up to the last breath that I will take, you are my son. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think of you and miss you greatly, thoughts of the good times and the bad are just reminders that my heart breaks more every day and I know the emptiness will always be there. I always wanted so much more for you, at times I realize, I may have pushed so hard I was pushing you away. I know there is no such thing as a perfect parent and I have made my mistakes. I pray that you understand I always wanted the best for you and will always love you more than you will ever know.

~Dad

(Randy Norred)

When trying to decide on a story to tell that was special to me I realized that there were too many and was better off talking about the person who made them; Josh. He had a smile that you could spot across a busy street and regardless of the day that he was having it would be the first thing he greeted you with when you approached him. His smile was almost as big as his heart; he taught me from a young age helping someone is sometimes more important than helping yourself.

There were plenty of times when we were driving down the road and he pulled over so we could help someone change a tire or push a car off the road and help them get it running. His best talent other than his friendliness was his ability to tell a story. He could spin a tail that would have you sitting on the edge of your seat waiting on the next line. I have never met another person

that could put as much energy in to words like he could. My heart is heavy knowing that I will never see him again, but I have so many memories that they could carry multiple people through a lifetime. I will miss all of these things, but the one I will miss the most is his hug. Coming home after a year away, his hug always made it seem that I was gone a year too long. I love miss my brother and will think about him every day which will always bring a smile to my face.

~Tyler

(Randall T. Norred, TSgt, USAF)

I miss you dearly Joshua....for me to name just one memory would be a horrible injustice to all the times we shared.... I laughed the other day thinking about us "helping" santa put together toys one year....how we were sitting there for hours laughing at eachother....and im reminded often of our trip to Fla....having the kids see the ocean for the first time and laying on the beach with you while we watched them play in the sand. I remeber how scared you were when i was in labor and how proud of a father you were....to watch you hold each one of those babies my heart melted each time. i remember our get a ways to the casino and my birthday present....i remember you every day and every memory we have made together as well. I will love you eternally and i miss you every single day.

~Debra Jablonski Norred

Dear Josh,

Dammit man, just dammit!!! I miss you brother! I would have never thought that I'd be writing you this letter!!! It's still hard to believe that I'll never talk to you again, that Lillie will never hear you call her your little princess again, that you and Lloyd will never again discuss vehicles or carpentry again. The finality of it is overwhelming. I carry you in my heart every day. You touched so many lives and made such an impression on so many people and you left 4 beautiful kids in this world to make it a better place. I just really miss you Josh. Alot. I'll always miss you brother.

I love you forever,

Your big sister,

~Rebekah

Memories sure do last a life time! The first time I met you was with Jeff at your tattoo shop on west point road & I remember thinking you were cool as hell but seemed crazy as hell too. Then the next time I met you was a few years later when "Grazzhopper" brought you to my house in West Point, then I realized you were crazy as f**k 😂

You were so loud and blunt it was hilarious you fit right in with my family & the crazy people at my house. Thanks to Grazz we became really great friends & when he was arrested we remained friends & you helped me through a lot! I remember that crazy day the three of us left & went to PCB, you got so sunburned just laying on the beach & basically cloud glazing you never moved 😂😂😂 The time you were gonna race on the interest in Atlanta in my keep, or the drifting you done on my dead end road & the police got called you 😂

I really don't know what to say sometimes I still think I will hear that big booming laugh of yours & then I remember. But as I remember I also remember I'll always have the memories , the laughs, the jokes, & the tattoos ! I look at pictures of your kids and my heart breaks that they won't have you there for important times in their life, but they will always have you there in their hearts & in spirit. The world lost such a beautiful soul the day it lost you, you will always be remembered!

"Did you hear that?"

"What"

"This d**k you country a$$ bi+++"

😂😂 miss you man, fly high & rest easy!

~Kacey

Nick- I remember when Collins died. I was 14yrs. old. It was really tough, but all my friends were there and we were together in our grief, including josh. Josh and me and Deke and a few others rode to his funeral on the back of a truck with our Collins shirts on that josh had made. We all went to Collins moms house afterwards. Josh dared me to jump in the pool, even though it was freezing cold outside. I'm the only idiot who jumped in. And Josh laughed with that big ol laugh he had.

Taylor- Yeah, I'll never forget his laugh. 50years could pass and I know I'll still be able to hear it.

Nick- Yeah, me too. It sucks.

Taylor- Yeah, the world is missing something special with that laugh being gone.

~Nick

I remember one time when I came to your shop after I left nursing school. I had a fake leg injury because we had been practicing how to save victims from a tornadoe disaster. It scared the crap out of you when I showed up, but then you immediately bounced back with excitement of all the possibilities,

and we drove to a few stores so that you could tell them different stories(you had just accidentally cut my leg open with a box cutter, was recently in a car crash, etc.) You always had a sense of humor.

Another memory I have is you coming over for dinner about half a year before you passed away. Everyone was hanging out in the back yard and I thought Evan (3yr old at the time) had wandered off because I couldn't find him. You and Jordan both took off to look for him. You jumped the fence in the park instead of walking around and walked up to a group of people to question them, who were probably terrified to see you come towards them with such determination on your face. Thankfully Evan was safe and sound, but I'll never forget that you were ready to help when it was needed.

I remember your smile, your deep laugh, your quick temper, and your kind heart, your amazing story telling, your loyalty, your readiness for fun and to live life to the fullest. I miss you, and I will never have another friend like you again.

Love you Josh.

~Taylor Andriate

Its hard to believe that a year has gone by and your not here. Not here to talk, to hangout, to do a tattoo. I sit and think about all the good times, the time we worked on the little ranger at your house, the Atlanta race, getting you into cable with the long work nights, the many times grilling out having a few and hanging out, the long talks of life and our belief in god. The tattoo I have reminds me of you all the time, what a long night that was but a great reminder that I will always have. We may have not always done the right thing but we lived, we had good times, we had great times, and we had bad times. You lived life by your terms and headstrong in your choices, good or bad you accepted what happened by those choices. You had a way about you, a zest for life the adventure, and a huge smile that only got bigger when you became a dad. Everyone knew after seeing you with their kids that you would be a loving father and very protective over your kids. We all were cheated out of more time with you, its not fair as life continues to prove that with your absence.

We only have the comfort to know that smile, that laugh, those moments will not be the last as there will be a reuniting one day. Until then keep smiling, keep an eye on us and we hope to keep you entertained and proud as we continue our journey.

Death is but a door, time is but memories, emotions are but moments and forgiveness is eternal.

Love ya and ill see you at the gates!!!

~Daniel Sellars

Josh I cant begin to explain the pain we feel not having your huge smile to look at. We miss the safeness we felt when you were around. My boys and I never had to worry about anything or anyone when you were around. You had this way about you that made everyone feel safe. We had some good times Josh. The last time Tyler and I seen you, you were at Wal Mart. You were supposed to come and do a tattoo for Brenden that weekend. Who knew it would be the last time I'd get to hug you and hear you say "I love y'all". That day will forever be in my memory. We will meet again one day. Until then, fly high, watch over my boys and tell my daddy that I love him.

~Mechelle Sellars and Family

Who could ever forget that contagious smile Josh had. Not me. Always the biggest grin. Josh was the first child of my favorite cousin. I was living in LaGrange when he was about two years old. (really dont remember exactly how old, but he was little and Taylor was even

littler.) I was so happy to be able to be around him. Time went by and I went away. I was at Joshua's first wedding. He had a white suit on and I hugged him and got makeup all over his suit. Funny now..probably not then but he was cool about it. Josh grew up calling me Auntae~ Cynthi-A. I think he got it from his mother. Lol. But I always loved it when he did. It was my special name from him. It hurts my heart that he is no longer with us, but knowing he is in a special wonderful place looking over all of us and especially his kids makes me feel better about it.

Joshua will never be forgotten!!

Love you Josh.

~Auntae Cynthi-A

From Shannon Prophett

I go back and think of Josh and I from little kids growing up together to adults (we always said we were in diapers together...haha) he was my big brother who terrorized me but would beat anyone up that messed with me...I also remember his mom (Beth Turner Norred) you were always putting bows in my hair but had the best hugs too!! From going to prom with Josh and his mom and my mom breaking me out of high school early to take me dress shopping...I think they were more excited than me...cause you both just know how much I love to shop...NOT!! And Beth I still think u tried to put a bow in my hair! But by far my favorite memory of all was being there the day Joshua Norred became a dad!! To be the nursery nurse that day and to be a part of it...to watch my friend/brother hold his daughter the first time was one of the most beautiful moments and I was so blessed God put me there. I will always remember him in my heart and in my eyes the young boy that was my friend and who would beat anybody up that hurt my feelings...and the man that loved his family!! Prayers Beth, Randy Norred, Tyler and Josh's wife and kids...💗💗💗

Well I have so many memories with Josh!! He was my best guy bud...he was a protector, my big brother. All I knew if I had any problems he would come if I called. I have memories from the trailer (where you stuck bows in my hair), Harwell ave (when I lived at the apartments), from sleep overs, to finally going to the same school as him, I got some wonder full friends from him (haha 2 of his exgirlfirends), prom and our mom's breaking me out of school, to hanging out at your lake, him shooting fireworks at me, to him becoming a dad! My favorite moment 💗 His sister from another mister lol, Shannon Gouchenour Prophett

I would like to say I remember his robust laughter..his love for his family and friends..his many nights of starting out doing tatoos at my home.the many he done for me that I will cherish forever.. Josh was there for us when I lost my youngest son Ryan..He was an amazing person and one that I am proud to say was like one of my own sons.He is deeply missed.He was truly one a kind ....Sincerely..Kathy Holloway Weather's.

Dear Josh,

Your happy smile will always be a beacon from Josh. You leave behind a beautiful family: Debra and children, Taylor, Turner, Teagen, and Trace, parents, Beth and Randy Norred, a brother, Tyler and his family, and a grandmother, Betty Jayne Turner. You leave a hole in the hearts of all the Turner Clan. It was hard to accept; but God chose a different pat for you Josh.

I recall a comment from your Granddaddy, Pete Turner, who loved you dearly. He said, "Josh has a smile that always says how happy he is to be here." I am enclosing a favorite photo of you as a little boy that always stood on the bookcase of your MawMaw Turner and it remains there today Josh, at my house.

RIP Josh. I know you were welcomed with lots of hugs from Granddaddy Pete, MawMaw Turner, Aunt Doris, Aunt Frances, Uncle Donald, Uncle Richard, Uncle Sherrill, and Uncle Ricky. Shine bright for your young children, Josh, and light their paths as they grow in love. Aunt Brenda, Aunt Joann, and myself, Aunt Nancy send hugs. Love you. We always think of you when the red birds visit.

My Dearest Josh:

I have been asked to say something to you, your family and your friends about some memories I have of you. There are way too many memories to mention here but I will share a few of my special ones.

When your mama was pregnant with you, I was going to be an "aunt" for the first time. I was excited! When you were born, I was even more excited! You were this tiny, little, baby boy...my nephew!

Before you knew it, you were 3 years old! You had the prettiest smile and the longest eyelashes surrounding those big, brown eyes. You never met a stranger (as long as you lived)!

I have so many memories of you, Josh, it would probably take a series of books to write them all down. But I have one memory that I hold "special" in my heart, (and always will) and that memory is you calling

me "Aunte' LydiA" (which sounds like Untaye Lideeaye). That, your great, big, beautiful smile and those gorgeous eyes of yours will stay in my heart (and mind) forever...along with those big, bear hugs and your loud, boisterous laughter. These "special" memories of you, Josh, will be with me until I die.

I love and miss you SOOO much! You may be gone...but you will NEVER be forgotten!

Love Always,

"Aunte' LydiA"

These pictures were taken at Johnny & Rosalyn Norred's home. Josh & Tyler came to see their Great Grandmother, Rosa Norred. It was a fun day with the guys playing guitars and MawMaw singing. She was also able to hold her Great, Great,Grandchildren.

Johnny says one of his favorite memories & one that always makes him smile is when Josh & his family came with Tyler & his family. He sat & played guitars with Tyler & Josh while Mawmaw sang.

My best memories of Josh was his beautiful smile and his sweet hugs. He was the same sweet Josh no matter where or when you saw him.

He had a true heart of gold.

~Rosalyn

My memories... joshua was someone I was close to at one time. When you guys lived in the trailer on the hill I would come over with my parents. We would play video games and ride bikes. One night we were outside shooting bottle rockets. Tyler shot me with one and it popped right in my ear. I was so mad but Josh thought it was so funny, and him laughing made me that much more angry!! I cried that night but I did not let him know. I would go with you guys to your parents house to swim. We had so much fun. Josh was mad one day because your dad made him wash the car. He was washing it but your dad didn't like how he was washing it. He was telling Josh to start from the top and work his way down. After he left I helped Josh wash the car. Then there was the house on the lake. We got into so much trouble for going to the train tracks. We would rough house in the basement. After we got a little older we went our separate ways. I saw him in a bar one night and we talked for hours. We kept in touch for a while but it faded. After I heard of his passing I felt so bad about not being a better friend. It made me realize that friendships should be cherished while here on earth because you never know when a conversation will be your last. I miss Josh. I regret not making more memories. If I had all that time back I would have been there. I didn't realize that I cared as much until that time was gone. His passing hurt so much. I find myself with all the "could have... would have and should haves"... I love you Beth and I loved Josh.

~Dee Florence

Joshua Norred, i know we havent spoken in a few years, only because we grow up and life keeps going. But you were my best friend, i grew up running around with you at the lake and getting into all kinds of random adventures! I am so deeply heartbroken for you, your family, and everyone that knew you like I did. I loved you like a big brother and I know you will still be looking down over all of us! I pray for peace and strength during this horrible time for your mom especially, Beth Turner Norred. I will always miss you my forever bff!!

~Shelly Bailey Richards

Josh Norred was my nephew, however, growing up, he was more like my son. My son, Brant and Josh were like brothers. Every weekend and during the summer they spent so much time together. I remember family times, camping trips, holidays...so many sweet memories that I will cherish in my heart forever! Our hearts were broken to hear that he was gone. He has left behind four precious jewels that will forever brighten our days and our hearts. Josh will always be with us through his children. ❤️I love him and miss him so much! ~Aunt Cindy

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Joshua Turner Norred, 36, of LaGrange, GA passed away Saturday, September 10, 2016 in Clayton County, GA.

Joshua was born March 26, 1980 in LaGrange, GA. He had been employed with Caterpillar, Inc. and was the former owner and operator of Kut Throat Tattoo Parlor. Joshua was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, O.W. Turner, Sr., paternal grandfather, Jerry Norred, father-in-law, Gregory Jablonski, and mother-in-law, Debra Hutchens.

Survivors include his wife, Debra Jablonski Norred; children, Taylor Norred, Turner Norred, Teagan Norred, and Trace Norred; parents, Randy and Beth Turner Norred; brother and sister-in-law, Randall Tyler and Brittney Norred; nieces, Layla Norred, Emma Norred, and Aubrey Norred; maternal grandmother, Betty Turner; and paternal grandmother, Gloria Norred.

The gathering of family and friends will be Friday evening from 5:00 P.M. to 8:00 P.M. at Striffler-Hamby Mortuary, LaGrange, GA.

In lieu of flowers the family request contributions be made to - Benefit for Josh Norred Children, c/o Community Bank and Trust, 201 Broad Street, LaGrange, GA 30241.

Those wishing to share a condolence or remembrance with the family may do so by visiting www.shlagrange.com.

Arrangements are by Striffler-Hamby Mortuary, 1010 Mooty Bridge Road, LaGrange, GA 30240 (706) 884-8636