OBITUARY
R. Mark Acciavatti
October 19, 1962 – August 28, 2012
R. Mark Acciavatti, 49, passed away August 28, 2012 at his home in Toms River. Mark was a graduate of Middletown High School South and Lincoln Technical Institute in Union. Mr. Acciavatti was a first responder for the New Jersey Natural Gas Company for many years. Everyone he met felt like they knew him for a life time. He was a loving son, brother, uncle and nephew and will be greatly missed by all. Mr. Acciavatti is predeceased by his father Joseph in 2006. R. Mark is survived by his beloved mother, Carlyn, sister, Karlyn Acciavatti and her husband Kevin Murtha, brother, Joseph and his wife Sharon, Nephew, Joseph, Niece, Hayley, two Uncles, Thomas Acciavatti and John McCormick of California, Aunt, Rosalie Graham and two dogs his Akita Medusa and Dachshund Weasel. Friends may call Sunday, September 2, 2012 from 1-6 pm at the D’Elia Funeral Home Rt. 70 & Vermont Ave. Lakewood, NJ 08701. Funeral Mass will be held on Monday, September 3, 2012 at 10:30AM at the Holy Family Church in Lakewood. Cremation will be private. In lieu of flowers please make donation in Mark’s memory to the Popcorn Park Zoo Lacey Road PO Box 43 Lacey, NJ.
Services
- Visitation Sunday, September 2, 2012
- Funeral Service Monday, September 3, 2012
REMEMBERING
R. Mark Acciavatti
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RECEIVE UPDATESDecember 9, 2012
How I miss our weekly visits, So lonely without you, my son, my love,my life
Cara H
November 19, 2012
Oh Mark how I miss you! You have the BESTEST mom in the world! I wuv her! 3. Cara
Cara
November 9, 2012
Mark, miss you lots and think of you everyday! If I had just 1 wish it would not be for money or fame! My 1 wish would be that you were still here! Thanks for being such a great friend! See you soon!
November 3, 2012
Here it is November and I miss you more and more. Nothing is the same without you, I talk to you day and night. Weasel is wonderful here with me and Medusa is happy with Peach and MO. Love you beyond belief my son!
October 20, 2012
My Mark,your birthday was yesterday,I miss you so, life isn't the same. I will be with you one day.Rest in painless peace my son, all my love Mom
Angel
October 5, 2012
Thinkin bout u angel xxoo
mom
October 1, 2012
My Son My Love I am lost without you!
Cara Hartsgrove
September 22, 2012
Mrs. Acciavatti. ******* I Was Sitting Here In Heaven And Having A Wonderful Day. I Started Thinking About You And All The Things I Didn't Get A Chance To Say. I Don,t Want You To Worry About Me And Please Don't Shed Any Tears. Because I Will Wait For You In Heaven If It Takes 100 Years. Everything I Had On Earth I Have In Heaven Too! My Very First Day Here My Body Became Brand New. It Really Is Pretty Here And I Love My New Home! Although Your Heart Is Broken Because My Body Is Gone. My Love Will Always Be There As You Go Along Your Way. Just Take A Peek Inside Your Heart There Is Where I'll Stay. Know That I Loved My Family And All My Friends Too My Thoughts Will Be With Each Of You Your Whole Life Through! To Mrs. Acciavatti, I saw this poem and thought of you! Mark was truly a kind, caring, loyal friend! A friend who loved his mom to no end! A friend who expressed his dedication and admiration proudly, fondly and often of his beautiful mom! Always eager to converse about you! I am truly amazed to find just so many similar features, not only in appearance but also in personality, between mom and son! Remarkable indeed! I could easily see how he adored YOU!! Such a remarkable, classy, strong, beautiful woman! A sense of comfort radiates from within you as it did from Mark also! It is easy to now see where all Marks wonderful qualities came from! God Bless you! Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers daily! Thank you for such a wonderful son and friend who will be missed dearly by so many! I am always here if needed in anyway! Mark always said I had the gift of gab and I was so positive and comforting in my words. I hope this poem has put at least a small smile on your face! Lots of love and prayers to you and your family! CARA
Christine Pagano
September 5, 2012
I am so very sorry for your loss. If I can help in any way, please don't hesitate to ask. I work with Joe. such a tragedy. :(
Ann Nelsen Berg
September 5, 2012
Mrs. A and all of the Acciavatti family, I am so very sorry for your loss and I am so sad to learn of Mark's passing. You are all in my thoughts through this difficult time. May Mark rest in peace.
Uncle John McCormick
September 4, 2012
Too young to die but he lived life fully, greatly missed.
John and Maggie Huetz
September 2, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Gomez Family
September 2, 2012
To Mark's Family, we are sorry for you loss.
"We will miss you and your dogs"
Rest in peace neighbor.
nicole goldin
September 1, 2012
miss you mark
Rchard & Linda Gall
September 1, 2012
Joe and Family, I am so sorry for your Loss. You are in my family's prayers.
Michelle Strasser
September 1, 2012
There are no words that are going to make what everyone of you are going through easy. I worked with Mark he was always so nice and a hard worker. He will be missed by everyone who knew him. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
August 31, 2012
Carlyn, I am so sorry to hear of your loss....we are due to arrive home on Monday from our cruise so we will not be able to attend the services. I will speak to you when we get home. Vinny Bono
Chevon Davis
August 31, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss and know that there is nothing that can be said to ease your pain at this time but Mark and I worked together for many years at the Gas company. He was a special guy to many that knew him and I hope that he has peace as you are all in my prayers. May God be with you all in your time of grief. Chevon and Terrence Davis and family
Marcia Mansur-Wentworth
August 31, 2012
Mrs. A, Peach and Joey; I am so sorry for you loss, I am beyond words. You are all in my prayers. Love; Marcia
robin mansur hood
August 30, 2012
Mrs A, Peaches, and Joey (and spouses, family)....there are no words that will ever comfort you all with this early and terrible loss. Mrs A...i so wish my mom was here to give you someone who knows your pain. the loss of a child they say is the worst!!! i am so sad for you. no parent should ever have to bury their child. I think the last time i saw mark was when we live next door in middletown. I hope you all find some comfort knowing how many people will miss/loved mark. again...so sorry. robin mansur hood
sue boyd
August 30, 2012
my condolences to the entire acciavatti family..mark was my everything..he was the best friend i ever had..the pain i feel over the loss of mark is so deep my heart is broken..the relationship he had with his mom was amazing..carlyn my heart and prayers go out to you, i know you are suffering a tremdous loss..mark made us laugh, he would do the silliest things and you couldnt help but laugh..he was a kind man, opening doors, helping little old ladies to their car, helping any animal he saw that needed help..mark loved his dogs as much as we love our children, they were his babies..mark was always there if you needed a warm hug or just an ear to listen..he was a big part of my life and my childrens lives..we will all miss you forever..i love you mark and i know someday we will meet again..love sue xoxoxo
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