Hello Doc, Cassandra and Sam
I am so very sorry for your loss. It’s so hard to lose our loved ones. I’m sure you’re all just devastated. May God be with you through this very hard difficult time in life as you try to see getting through it without your husband/dad. I was blessed that I was able to be at the funeral through Zoom. About 15 minutes into it or so I was kicked off the side and was unable to get back in. I just get to hear you girls all speak. My heart is with you all. My prayers are always with you. God bless.
PS
Even under the worst of circumstances, it was really good to see you and your girls.

I looked at this page for a long time before I could even write. It’s still hard to accept that you’re gone.

I’ll never forget being on Crescent Ct, watching you eat refried beans on hard shell tacos—with ketchup. I remember saying, “Gross,” and you’d even add milk to the beans! I thought it was so weird and wrong. But now? I eat my tacos the same way—refried beans on a hard shell. I skip the ketchup, though. That part’s all yours. I’m sure one day my daughter Selah will do it, and when she does, I’ll think of you all over again.

I remember the time you played with the dog collar shocker—you clipped it to your neck, and couldn’t get it off fast enough. You shocked yourself two or three times (maybe more), and you just laughed so hard. You were wild, and it was hilarious. I hope I can be that fun with my kids—maybe not as reckless (haha), but I’ll try. I am a girl, after all.

I remember my dad and you always doing the same things—you two got along so well, even argued like a married couple. You were just that close. There was always laughter, even in the bickering.

I know I can go on too long, but there was just so much life lived. So many memories, so much love,.

I miss you. I hate that everyone’s hurting. But I know you’re not in pain anymore, and I’ll carry this sadness knowing that you’re OK—safe with Jesus.

Love you always.
Thinking of Cathie, Cassondra, Sam, Sean, Ella, and Wyatt too.

My buddy Steve!! I had the privilege of working with you for 18 years and still remaining friends after I left the company. Making it 23 years! Wow. So many memories in that time. You were always so joyful, respectful and kind to me! You always talked so lovingly about Cathy and your children. They were truly the light of your life!! I got to share in the joy of you welcoming grandchildren into your life and weddings and everything that your family did! You were always soooo proud of your family.  I enjoyed listening to stories of your Disney trips.  Every year during Christmas you always thought of us dispatchers and brought yummy gifts and that awesome joyful smile! Every year and even this year you messaged or called to wish me a happy birthday!! You shared your hard times with cancer too and it broke my heart because I know you were so worried to leave your family. Steve. I know where you are. We had talks of the Lord and we prayed together. I pray that your family can take comfort in knowing you are no longer in pain and that you are with our Lord and Savior. Until we meet again…Beca

Steve was a good friend growing up in Whittier. We went to the same schools from first grade all the way through High School. We played baseball on a few little league teams together along with his brother Stan.  He was always funny and happy as a kid.  Wish I knew him as an adult but our lives carried us in different directions after High School. I’ll treasure my memories of him.  God Bless his family.

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Steven Eugene Irvin

January 1, 1960 – May 22, 2025

Palm Southwest Mortuary

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