OBITUARY
Abbey T Flemming
October 22, 1959 – January 10, 2014
Funeral services for Abbey T. Flemming, 54, of Sundown will be at 2:00 pm, Wednesday, January 15, 2014 at First Baptist Church, Sundown with Rev. Randy Winfrey, officiating, and eulogy by Bob Brown. The family will receive visitors at the funeral home on Tuesday, January 14, 2014 from 4:00 pm until 7:00 pm. Cremation services are under direction of George Price Funeral Home.
T. was born on October 22, 1959 in Brady, Texas to Elmer T. and Georgia Luzelle (Owens) Flemming. He attended school in Brady and graduated from Brady High School . He attended Cisco Junior College and then went on to receive his bachelors degree from U. T. Arlington. He was the Assistant City Manager for Brady, the Director of Utilities for the City of Lamesa, and City Manager for Rockdale, Texas and in 2008, he moved to Sundown, Texas where he was City Manager. He married Elizabeth “Liz” Wilson on July 31, 2011 in Brady, Texas.
Survivors include his wife: Liz Flemming of Sundown, two daughters: Melissa Clause Harrison and husband Aaron of Round Rock, Texas, and Sarah Jacobs and husband Greg of Columbus, Nebraska; a step son: Jason Brewer of Paris, Tennessee and a step daughters: Heather Brewer of Cameron, North Carolina; two sisters: Bellann Richardson of San Angelo, Texas and Toni Brown of Lufkin, Texas and five grandchildren: Dillon, Miles, Julian, Ben and Sadie.
The family suggests memorials to We The People, c/o Sundown State Bank.
To join the family in celebrating T’s life please go to www.georgepricefunerals.com
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ADD A MEMORYLiz Flemming
September 11, 2014
T,its been 8 long, empty months since I lost you. I couldn't find the strength when I first lost you, to enter anything like this, T. You were the answer to my prayer...my blessing from God. I may have only had you for 2.5 short years (shouldve asked for lots of time:)), but they were and are some of the most beautiful memories and times of life. I will forever miss your smile, your slant of eyes when I would give you a crazy answer, your soft touch and strong hugs, your gift to me of the one thing that not many people ever find: acceptane for who I am, you saw past all my flaws, and loved me anyway. You were not just a husband. You were a wonderful confidant, friend, lover, father, husband, music wonder, brainiac, my partner for Jeopardy every day, and just plain GOOD. I miss you, T Flemming. My journey since your death, has been a lonely road of many things. In my heart, I know that you are definitely one of the "good" ones for God. Rest in peace, my "sweet T". Loving you with a head full of great memories, and a heart that will know I was once loved by you, just for me...just because .....Your wife, Liz.
luke ouellette
April 20, 2014
Elmer Brown
Gene Duncan
February 10, 2014
I became friends with T in 1979 when he showed me how to play my first guitar chords;we were rockin'guitar buddies ever since.I got him to play a concert with our band 'Freedom'at the Brady High School auditorium in 1981.That's probably the coolest memory I have of him out of so many.The last time I saw him was at my Mom's house in Voca.He,myself,and Lee Williams played guitar all afternoon.Unfortunately,we kind of drifted apart when I moved to Arlington in 1986 like a lot of friends do when we go our own ways in life.I've always regretted not keeping in touch with you brother all these years even though I always thought about you.Now I'm starting to realize just how much I really miss you.T,you were one of the coolest and funnest guys I knew and I'll never forget you.Rest In Peace,brother!
Shaunna Blair
February 3, 2014
RIP MY FRIEND.... You will be missed by so many, you were truly a very giving and kind man, cousin and friend.
Liz, I'm always here if you just want to talk, cry, laugh or whatever, I'm looking forward to finally meeting you... You're in my thoughts and prayers
janelle matlock
February 2, 2014
Well T you were a truly great man. Sure am gonna miss you. I am greatful for the opportunity of being able to have known you and have you as a friend. You will truly be missed.
Lee Espinoza
January 25, 2014
I first remember T.s named being mentioned to me in about 1979 as the "best guitarist from Brady Texas".
I had the privilege of jamming with him later as T. myself, Gene Duncan, and Deryl Shields used to hang together back in the day (1979-1980) when he was a lifeguard at the Brady Municipal Swimming Pool and it was during that period that we had a rock band together for a brief time "Freedom". We experienced the joy of playing an assembly at the Brady High School to the delight of about 550 screaming and cheering kids in April of 1980. He came to my house many times and hung out or practiced/jammed.
The last time I saw T. was before I moved to California in 1993. I moved back to Texas in 2005 but regrettably was unable to connect with him again.
One notable memory is that anytime T. picked up a guitar, one of the first things that would pop was a song by Sugarloaf called "Don't call us child we'll call you"
My appreciation to T. for the memories, and my deepest condolences to his family.
TW Winder
January 24, 2014
I met T when I worked for the city of Brady.back in '96. We became friends and worked together again in Rockdale. We had some really fun times together and I will miss him dearly. RIP old friend. Tom Winder
Venetta Spann Bell
January 21, 2014
My deepest sympathy to all of Abbey T' s family. I spent a lot of time in Brady during my childhood so I have memories of T from way back. Gone too soon...
Patty Jouett
January 18, 2014
Liz,
My prayers continue to be with you and your family as you face these difficult days ahead of you. I'm truly sorry I didn't get to know him longer. He certainly sounded like an awesome person. May God go with you today and days to come. May you always cherish your memories of your short time together.
Love,
Patty
January 15, 2014
I met T when he was a lifeguard at the Brady swimming pool. He was a great influence on the younger generation. He was always looking out for them. I crossed paths with him again when I became a director for the Brady Chamber of Commerce. He will forever be missed as one of the judges of the Goat Cook-off. Rest in peace, T...... Roxanne Turnell (Brady, Texas)
Marcos Garcia
January 15, 2014
You would always respond to the question: How are you "T". with the words that stuck with me....Just another day in Paradise!!! Well, old friend, you made it there....Miss you "T"
Kathy Roddie
January 14, 2014
T was my little cousin and a joy to our family.... Doted on by all. I was very proud to see him excel in his field and in community involvement. My love to his family. See you soon, T. Kathy Flemming Roddie
January 14, 2014
T was my little cousin and a joy to our family.... Doted on by all. I was very proud to see him excel in his field and in community involvement. My love to his family. See you soon, T. Kathy Flemming Roddie
Glenda (Flemming) Hees
January 14, 2014
As I am one of the
older cousins. I remember the day T was born. Such joy, Elmer finally had his boy..
He was a joy to all...made
his family proud....we always enjoyed when he would stop in for a quick visit when he was in the Metroplex area. He was a sweet, thoughtful young man.
We didn't see him often through the years, but usually at the cook off ... We will miss him.. I still miss all of our folks when I go to Brady. So many good memories..
Love and prayers to Liz, Tony and Belann...and all who love and miss him ...
May you find peace knowing he is with our Heavenly Father and is no longer in pain ...hugs to all ..
Jo Ann Franke
January 14, 2014
T was a long-time friend of mine. I worked with him at City of Brady and enjoyed seeing him at City conferences through the years. He always had a smile and gave a smile to each of us when we met him. He was a joy to know. My sympathy goes to all his family. God bless you all.
Rodney Floyd
January 14, 2014
So many good memories flashing through my mind that no words can express. Please accept my sympathy for your loss. T will be missed by many.
Janie Aguirre Bara
January 14, 2014
My condolences to the family and friends. He will truly be missed. Prayers to the family.
Mike Kilmer
January 14, 2014
My sympathy to T's family and friends. May God bless you in these times!
Alison (Adams) Comes
January 13, 2014
my condolences to the family
Lora Dockery
January 13, 2014
I planned on having many things to say at your T Party but the lord had other plans. So I will say as your older sister as you called me since we shared the same birthday but I was born earlier than you that I enjoyed getting to know you these last five years working with you at the City. You could always make me grin with your stories and tried to teach me not to sweat the small stuff. When you spend so much time at work in a small place we become family. Thanks for the short time I got to know you. We will miss you. But I am so glad you are not in pain or suffering anymore. I know you are in a better place than I am. I can see you smiling down on us with that little grin. Liz he was so lucky to have you.I know you are strong and will get through these tough times in the days ahead.RIP...
Theresa Lira
January 13, 2014
RIP My friend, you will be missed by all. My prayers go up and out for you and yours always. Now the world has earned a beautiful Angel.
Pat Riley
January 13, 2014
T was always helpful. We worked to help each other since we were neighbors (Sundown, Levelland). He will be missed. We will keep his family in our prayers.
Grady Adams
January 13, 2014
I am saddened to learn of the passing of Abbey T. To his family, I am truly sorry for your loss. He was in my brother's class of '78. I will always remember with fondness those days.
Lisa Fields
January 13, 2014
Condolences to his family and friends. I remember T from childhood. He was about my brother's age and the coolest lifeguard ever. He was a great guy then and from the many posts I've followed, was a greater man in adulthood. RIP, T.
January 13, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I feel privileged to have been T's classmate and friends at Brady High a school.
Jo Ann (Aguirre) Cole
Red Oak, Texas
Tim Nobles
January 13, 2014
My sympathy and prayers go out to all of the family and friends of T. I am glad to have had the pleasure to know him. A great guy leaves us much to soon.
Duncan Reno
January 13, 2014
Hadn't seen T for awhile but he was a real stand up guy and were all better off for having known him! Peace out T!!l
Shaunna Blair
January 13, 2014
RIP T, you will be missed
Until we meet again....
Gone but NEVER Forgotten..
Tammy (Everitt) Harner
January 13, 2014
Prayers to the family and friends left behind that grieve losing you! I am happy that you are not in pain or hurting anymore and I know that you are loving heaven.
Lisa Chrane(Gossett)
January 13, 2014
R.I.P. old friend.
Russell Hamilton
January 13, 2014
On behalf of the Texas Water Utilities Association and Central Office staff let us say that our prayers and thoughts go out to the family and friends. T was always willing to assist someone in need and lend his knowledge and experience to help others. It has been rumored that from time to time he might have been a little opinionated but the cool thing was, you did not have to wonder where you stood :) Very found memories.
Russell Hamilton - Executive Director
steve cook
January 13, 2014
T was a lot of things to a lot of people...but he was always T to each of us that knew him...and he'll be missed in the world
Jolene Streetman
January 13, 2014
Missing you already, T. Flemming! Sundown has lost a good friend. I valued your friendship, your willingness to listen, your concern for the community. And what a charmer! Thanks for everything. My love and prayers to you, my dear Liz and to T.'s many friends and family.
Bobby Mireles
January 13, 2014
Abbey T, you will be greatly missed and always remembered. Peace my friend.
dorenda richardson-white
January 13, 2014
my thoughts and prayers are with your family...you touched the lives of many...
Janie Deans
January 13, 2014
Abbey T Flemming, you will be missed. I remember you always with a sparkle in your eye, and a smile on your face. Always kind. I know the Angels are rejoicing as they welcome you this day. Janie Deans, Camp San Saba, TX
Amanda Sandoval
January 13, 2014
You will be missed dearly my friend. RIP...
David Payne
January 13, 2014
Prayers for family an friends. Another classmate gone to soon. RIP T.
David Bailey
January 13, 2014
Great friend and always full of wisdom. I lost a dear friend and the utility industry lost a great leader. My prayers are with the family.
TCMA
January 13, 2014
The Texas City Management Association celebrates your contributions to the profession and you will be greatly missed by all your colleagues.
Mary Ann Harris
January 13, 2014
Too many fun and fond memories of T to list. Prayers to all his friends and family during this time. Cheers to you, T! The good Lord just got a good one!
David Harris
January 12, 2014
As the VP or the Texas Water Utilities Association Double A club, I got to be involved in the long celebrated organized hazing we called induction. T worked hard to be in a club of only a few hundred active Double A operators in the state. He served as a Regional Director, VP and President of the Texas Municipal Utilities Association as well as teach utility classes to train water and wastewater operators around the state for years. T was a good guy that would help those in need even if it put himself in a bind. I have known T since he worked in Brady in the mid 90's but never had the chance to know many of his other friends and family. To those that were close to him, please accept my condolences and know that only through God will we find comfort. He will be greatly missed by many left here.
Kevin Scalley
January 12, 2014
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Mikey Holloway
January 11, 2014
You will be greatly missed Abbey T!!! May you rest in peace.