

Wheeler was born on June 27, 1940, in Cabarrus County to Julius Vance and Ida Elizabeth Buff. He grew up in the Baptist church and developed an early love for theatre and athletics, particularly football.
After graduating from East Mecklenburg High School, Wheeler attended Wingate College, where he played football and was an active member of the theatre department. His talent and dedication to the performing arts earned him numerous awards for his theatrical performances. Following his graduation from Wingate College, Wheeler enlisted in the United States Army and served in Korea.
In 1979, Wheeler founded Carolina PCO Supply Co., beginning a long and successful career in the pest control industry. He was instrumental in establishing local South Carolina pest control associations and remained actively involved in the South Carolina Pest Control Association, Midlands Pest Control Association, and National Pest Control Association. Throughout his career, Wheeler was recognized by each of these organizations for his outstanding contributions, leadership, and dedication to the industry.
In 1977, Wheeler married the love of his life, Barbara. Together, they built a life centered on family and raised two children.
Wheeler had a lifelong love of horses, and for many years, much of his free time was spent at horse shows. His children grew up riding and showing Tennessee Walking Horses, and he took tremendous pride in their accomplishments. He was an active member of the South Carolina Walking Horse Association and the South Carolina Horsemen’s Council. Beyond his love of horses, Wheeler was a generous supporter of Camp Kemo and devoted more than 15 years of service as a horse show director. His generosity and commitment to these organizations reflected his desire to give back and make a difference in the lives of others.
Wheeler is survived by his children, Andrew Allen and Brandyn Watkins (TJ); grandchildren, Kellen and Coby Foy and Parker and Brigs Watkins; siblings, Jewel Lee Buff Johnson and William Leonard Buff (Marsha); and many nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Barbara Harris Buff; his parents, Vance and Elizabeth Buff; his brother, Connie Mack Buff; and his sister, Betty Elizabeth Buff Hodnett.
Visitation will be held on November 12, from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m., at Caughman-Harman Funeral Home, Lexington. Family and friends are invited to gather to celebrate Wheeler’s life and share memories of a man who meant so much to those who knew and loved him.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the team at Interim Hospice, with special appreciation for his nurse, Shaunta. Her open heart, compassion, and dedication ensured that dad’s final days were filled with comfort, laughs, and dignity.
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