Sandra L. Narbut Solarski

While it is possible to receive good counsel from a wide circle of family and friends, few could do it with the skill and aptitude of Sandra L. Solarski. She had a true talent for helping others reach their full potential and brought out the best in those who sought her help. Sandra was a forward-looking woman whose personality was filled with empathy toward everyone she met. She could be quiet and reserved, but her style of communication was authentic and direct. An excellent communicator, Sandra was a master at using imagery when she explained her ideas and concepts. She seemed to have an endless supply of innovative concepts and strategies for how to help those around her. Her sensitivity, kindness and generous attitude made her a wonderful friend for all who knew her.

From the time she was born on July 7, 1944, Sandra showed a deep concern for others. She was a giving and caring individual, ethical and full of integrity and warmth. Sandra came into this world at Mother Cabrini Hospital, Chicago Illinois. In Chicago Illinois. Her parents were Alex and Adeline Narbut. Sandra was raised in Chicago Illinois.

Because fellowship was so important to her, Sandra promoted harmony with her siblings. She was raised with one sibling. She had one younger sister, Dorothy. Sandra was something of the family diplomat. She helped to settle problems and conflicts and kept the family running smoothly.

As a young girl, Sandra interacted well with other children. She was helpful. She was an independent person who had a vivid imagination. Sandra had a number of interests in her youth. She was an active child. She was a hall guard.

A good student who was enthusiastic about learning, Sandra was considered by many to be a high achiever. She graduated from Kelly High School in 1962. She enjoyed some classes more than others, having favorite courses and teachers. Her favorite class in high school was gym.

Able to maintain a positive focus on the potential good to be found in others, Sandra was always ready with solid advice and guidance to offer her group of friends. She was generally friendly to all who knew her, yet to some she seemed quite independent. For those who really knew Sandra, they recognized that she could be full of surprises. Sandra enjoyed a small but solid group of true friends. She would willingly support those friends when they needed it. Because of her ability to read people, she had an uncanny knack for knowing when a friend needed help. As a teenager in the late 1950's to early 1960's, Sandy belonged to a girls club called "The Fawns.". Her best friend, all her life was her sister Dorothy.

Sandra was romantic, even poetic at times. She was completely devoted to family and friends, able to show her emotions without going overboard about it. On October 20, 1962 Sandra exchanged wedding vows with William J. Solarski Jr. at Saint Daniels the Prophet Catholic Church of Chicago Illinois.

All who knew her would agree that there was a certain kind of magic in how Sandra was able to bond with her children. While she could be a firm disciplinarian, she could also fill the role of being a collaborator with her kids. Sandra was always a mentor who helped her family reach its full potential. Sandra was blessed with two children, two daughters; Laura and Lisa. They were also blessed with four grandchildren, and one great-grandson, Amanda, Ashley, Alexandra, Audrey and Aiden.

Sandra projected a subtle but positive influence in her workplace. She was comfortable working behind the scenes to help everyone get their job done, and she worked hard at all times to help others to reach their highest potential. While her colleagues did not view her as a high-spirited type, Sandra was effective at working with others to gain acceptance for her ideas. Sandra could be a perfectionist at times, but wasn’t one to seek out personal recognitions. She possessed excellent insight and a strong ability to meet schedules. She was an innovator who worked well independently, and she enjoyed the task of meeting a constant array of challenges. Her primary occupation was an accounts payable manager. She was employed for 45 years of various occupations.

As an imaginative and inventive person, Sandra was comfortable showing her creative spirit. She enjoyed her leisure time by taking part in various hobbies. Once Sandra took on a new project, she saw it through to its completion. Her favorite pursuits were sewing, reading, crafts and computers. She was content to enjoy her hobbies alone but was also willing to share her interests with others.

Sandra was one who put forth her best effort in every aspect of her life, and that carried over to her participation in sports as well. Her sense of diligence inspired others and in turn drew best efforts from her teammates. Recreational sports included bowling. Sandra was also something of a sports fan and enjoyed following her favorite events whenever she got the opportunity. She loved watching baseball.

Because Sandra was a person who enjoyed helping, teaching and working with others, she was a perfect fit for many types of organizations. Her ability to encourage others, energize the group and her ability to solve all sorts of problems made her a desirable member of a wide variety of organizations. In high school, Sandra was a member of the GAA Girls Athletic Association.

Sandra possessed strong skills in long-range planning and project completion, a quality that positively influenced her travel and vacation planning. Favorite vacations included camping with her children and grand-children, a cruise to the Bahama's with her mother and a cruise to Italy with her sister and cousin Connie.

Sandra was a lover of animals and cherished her pets. One of Sandra's favorites was Tootsie, a miniature dachshund. They were best friends for 6 years.

As someone who treasured harmony and quiet, Sandra accepted retirement and made the most of it. That day finally came in 2004, and Sandra was well prepared. Her new life involved relocating to South Elgin to be closer to her daughters and grand-children. In retirement, she found new pleasure in jewelry making.

Sandra passed away on August 8, 2011 at Delnor Hospital in Geneva Illinois. Complications from diabetes. She is survived by her children Laura and Lisa, her sister Dorothy, her mother Adeline and her grand-children; Amanda, Ashley, Alexandra, Audrey and Aiden. Services were held at Blake Lamb Funeral Home. Sandra was laid to rest in Resurrection Cemetery in Justice, Illinois.

Though she could be a private person at times, Sandra was always able and willing to give of herself. She was so in tune with others that she often seemed able to read their minds. Sandra carried with her an almost mystical sense of life. She was a person who was highly original in her thinking and used metaphors and symbols to describe many aspects of her life. A poetic, intuitive “teacher”, Sandra L. Solarski shared herself freely and family and friends will remember Sandra for the strength of her convictions.

Sandra L. Solarski (age 67) nee: Narbut. Beloved wife of the late William J. Solarski Jr. Loving mother of Laura (Tracy) Green

Lisa (Todd) Kufer. Cherished grandmother of Amanda, Ashley Pomplin, Alexandra Kufer, Audrey Green-Murphy (Eric) and

great-grandmother of Aiden Nilsson. Treasured daughter of Adeline and the late Alexander Narbut. Dearest sister of Dorothy (Tony) Reggio. The “Best” Dog Mom to Tootsie and Aunt to many. Sandy will be missed by all. Funeral Chapel Service:10am Thurs. August 11, 2011 at Blake-Lamb Funeral Home 5015 Lincoln Ave. lisle, IL. 60532. Visitation: Wed. 3pm-8pm.Interment: Resurrection Cemetery Justice, IL. In lieu of flowers Memorials can be made to: American Diabetes Association, 1701 North Beauregard Street, Alexandria, VA 22311, 1-800-DIABETES. For info: 630-964-9392