Benjamin Zev Shecter

It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Ben Shecter, a beloved artist whose creative spirit touched the lives of many. Ben's journey through life was a remarkable tapestry of artistic endeavors and rich experiences that left an indelible mark on the world of theatre and design.

Ben was born on April 28, 1935 in Brooklyn, NY and died on February 28, 2025.

Born with a passion for the arts, Ben’s journey began at Baruch College, where his love for theatre was ignited. His service in the U.S. Army provided him a unique platform to express his creativity, as he designed scenery and costumes for military shows, honing his craft and preparing him for future endeavors. After his honorable discharge, Ben pursued his dreams at the prestigious Yale School of Drama, where he deepened his knowledge of theatre design and became a proud member of the United Scenic Artists Union.

Ben’s professional career spanned the entertainment industry, where he made significant contributions to CBS television, Las Vegas musical revues, ballet and opera productions. A highlight of his career was collaborating with the legendary Tennessee Williams at the Spoleto Festival, where he designed the world premiere of "The Milk Train Doesn’t Stop Here Anymore." His talents were not limited to the stage; Ben also made his mark in commercial and residential design, working on notable projects, including the iconic Chelsea Hotel in New York.

In addition to his artistic contributions, Ben was a passionate writer and illustrator, creating numerous children’s books including When Will the Snow Trees Grow, Great Uncle Alfred Forgets, Grandma Remembers, Hester the Jester, Sparrow Song and Conrad’s Castle, showcasing his talent and imagination.

Ben's life was enriched by the love of family and friends, and he balanced his time between his Manhattan apartment and a serene country home. His legacy is one of creativity, resilience, and an enduring passion for the arts. He will be deeply missed but fondly remembered by all who had the privilege to know him.

Ben is survived by his partner of 62 years, George Barimo, his sister Nanette Matlick, four nieces, Bonnie Gurland [Keith], Karen Kavalin, Emily Beare [Brian], and Lisa Lippman, his 12 grand nieces and nephews and 25 great-grand nieces and nephews.

A funeral service for Ben will be held Sunday, March 2, 2025 at 11AM at Bernheim-Apter-Kreitzman Suburban Funeral Chapel, 68 Old Short Hills Road, Livingston, NJ 07039. The Burial will follow at New Montefiore Cemetery, 1180 Wellwood Ave, West Babylon, NY 11704. Memorial Contributions can be made in Ben's Memory to Animal Kind.