My condolences to Robin’s family.  We met in the fall of 2020 attending workshops through Zoom.  We had a lot in common.  I admired her diligence and how she inspired me.   Robin posted this saying in one of our groups:  “You meet thousands of people, and none of them really touch you.  And then you meet one person, and your life is changed forever. “    She will always be in my heart.

I met Robin more than 20 years ago , I was working at a daycare that Brandon and Katelyn attended. After leaving the daycare I was working at the elementary school where they were students and Katelyn was a Girl Scout in my troop. Off and on through Facebook Robin and I connected, her and David had my husband and I go to their home to cut some firewood to heat our house . My friend Maureen had gotten Robin to join our bowling league . It was always a blessing having Robin there ; she was always prepared with first aid items , nail files , Tylenol, etc. Bowling will not be the same without her .

Whether it was expended on behalf of family, friends or colleagues, daily, Robin fully lived a life of love and service.

In all spheres, with honest, kind advice she relentlessly sought to organize the messiness of life, rarely waiting until tomorrow to address what was needed today.

Her generous heart and actions, bright smile, and quick laughter is already sorely missed and will be long  and gratefully remembered.

Dear Sheila and Peter

So sorry for your loss!
May her memory be a blessing 

Ellen Andorsky Rothseid

Dear Rabbi Kasdan and Sheila…
    Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the passing of your beloved daughter Robin. There are no words to convey our feelings. Please note that we are with you in spirit and in prayer. With all our love and respect…
                    Toby and Steve Rome

Dear Rabbi Kasdan and family,

Our condolences on Robin's passing.  As another RK, I felt a kindred connection with her, though we never really "hung out."  I am sorry for your loss.  May her memory be for blessing.

Sincerely,
Judy Berkowitz (daughter of H. Philip Berkowitz z'l)

Roobin's strength and wisdom will inspire us to always try to be a better version of ourselves.
With love,
Connie and Gerry Sanders

Robin was a beloved friend and co-worker to all of us at Port Jervis Community Development Agency. Both Robin and I were hired the same year within a few months of each other. She was skilled, incredibly organized, and efficient in her job. She even made a binder of local restaurant menus! We teased her about it, but we were grateful to have it. 
She would share stories about her weekly bowling league, the road trips and how much she enjoyed them. I remember her excitement when she would come to work and announce the high score at the lanes and when her team rose in ranking.  
Most importantly, we had no doubt that she genuinely loved us. It was crystal clear in her words and actions. She brought us “gifts” from Amazon that were always thoughtful and useful. There was no special occasion, she just brought them because she loved us. She made us soup and cookies, even the healthy cookies were delicious and had the most important ingredient- “love.”  I always got excited when she texted “who wants soup?”
 When she asked how we were doing she listened intently and remembered every detail until the next time we spoke. She spoke with pride about her children, how much she loved them and would fight to the end for them if necessary. I am humbled by the ease and intensity of the love she had for us. She was a living example in how to love. Although my heart is heavy, I can appreciate Robin’s words that were shared today, and I will carry them with me. Robin is and always will be, “in my heart.”

Dear Peter and Sheila,

I somehow deleted Debbie from my earlier message and didn't catch it. I apologize.

My heart is with you all. Again, my deepest sympathies.

Lance

Although we only knew Robin as the rabbi’s daughter, watching the service just now and hearing everyone speak was wonderful to hear. 
She sounded like an amazing person to everyone whose life she touched. 
Our hearts go out to both of you. May your wonderful memories carry you  through this difficult time.
Sorry we could not be at the service. 
Sharon and Alan Saltzman

Dear Peter and Sheila,

I am stunned and so deeply saddened by Robin's death. She and I connected several years ago via Facebook, and it was a joy to engage with her during these years. 

I can only imagine the depth of the pain of losing your beloved daughter. I'm so sorry for your loss.

May the love and support of family, friends, and community bring you comfort. May her life and memory be a blessing to you, to Andrew, and to your entire family. יהי זכרה ברוך

Lance Colie

I will miss you Robin, I am so grateful I was able to know you first as colleague and then as a friend.

My heart is broken at your passing sweet friend. I'm very grateful for the livestream to be able to honor your beautiful life with your friends and family. I am ever grateful for your friendship and will miss you deeply.

We only met once, one summer at Kutz Camp, maybe 50 years ago, as Faculty Brats. Nevertheless, I'm shocked and sad to hear this news.  My heart goes out to all who loved Robin. May her memory be for a blessing.

Katelyn & family, our condolence on your loss. Port Jervis Free Library

I met my cousin Robin when she was thirteen, preparing for her Batmitzvah.  We both accompanied our Aunt Betty on a memorable trip to Washington DC. We reconnected via Facebook some years ago when Robin was researching the Aaronson family tree.  My deepest sympathy to all the family.

I will always remember our bowling times and the trips we took. We also had good times on our Wednesday matinee trips to Forestburg Theater.  I will miss you.

OBITUARY

Robin Jill Kasdan Tobey

March 28, 1964 – February 8, 2025

Bernheim-Apter-Kreitzman Suburban Funeral Chapel

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