Name: Luyben Family Dilday-Mottell Mortuary
Address: Long Beach, CA

Steve & family:  I just learned of Pam's death and I can't tell you how sorry I am for your loss.  My trips to California to visit Aunt Ellen were not complete without spending time with Pam!  Her laugh still echoes in my ear and makes me smile.  What a loss!

Jo Flint

Aunt Pam, no words will ever be able to express how much I love and will miss you.  You were there for me at a time in my life when no one else was.  I will cherish every moment I spent with you and Uncle Steve.  You will always have a very special place in my heart.  My thoughts and prayers are with you Uncle Steve, Angie, Greg, John, and your families.  Love, Julie

Dear Steve and family,
I'm just hearing about the loss of Pam and I'm so saddened and shocked.  We made a move to Half Moon Bay, Ca in Sept. and I recently sent Pam an email telling her of the change.  Linda Anderson Hanson called me yesterday to tell me the news.  We will always remember the wonderful times we had as teenagers together.  Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and we send our deepest sympathy. 
Rita and Bill Lynes

Dear loved-ones, I thank each of you for the devotions to Pam.  We kicked around together for over 51 years and now she is with the Lord; every hour is difficult.  Her Christian values and strength of character will endure in our family.  Please accept my heartful thanks for the tribute paid her at the 10-12 funeral and your words of encouragement, hugs and prayers.  Goodness and kindness transcend all else and we are blessed to have had Pam and blessed to have so many supportive friends.  Remember, it's never "goodbye" it's just, "so long for now."  Steve

Dear Greg,

I am deeply saddened to have heard of your mom's passing. I know how painful this experience can be. I am sorry I never had the chance to meet her although through the many years our friendship has grown, I am sure there is so much of her in you. You are a wonderful freind and pray that God will ease your suffering.

Love Perry

Mom (Grammy),
We will always miss your love and hugs, but you will be in our hearts forever.

Steve and Family,
Pam will live in the hearts of everyone who loved her.
Beyond the darkness, light.
Beyond the sorrow, peace.
Wishing you everything you need to get thru this difficult time.
Pam's in our heart and your in our prayers.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Gary and Terry

Dear Steve and Family,
My heart goes out to you and your entire family.  It's been 50+yrs now since we were all in high school together and you and Pam and I and Benny used to double date that many years ago in high school.  Pam and I also shared many great times and adventures together in Socii. She always had a twinklel in her eye, a smile on her lips, and fun in her  heart!  She will be greatly missed by all of us. She was a very  dear and special friend. May God Bless you and surround you and your entire family in His loving care at this most difficult time. Keeping you in my prayers.  Love, Hugs, and Prayers,
Betty (York) Shumaker XOXO!  (Huntington Beach, CA.)

Steve, Angie,Greg,John,
 We are so saddened by the loss of your wonderful wife and mother. May God be with you and comfort you! Our thoughts and prayers are with you!

Dear John and Family,
 We are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your mother. We will miss seeing her smiling face on early morning walks in the neighborhood. May you find peace in knowing she will always be remembered by not only family, but neighbors too!
May God bless you during this time.

Steve and family - I feel your pain.  It was my pleasure to have plyed golf with Pam and Steve.  She kept her brother, Bob, in line. She will surely be missed.
                    Sid Smith

Steve and family,
I cannot tell you how sorry I am.  Pam was a great friend at L&G.  Our hearts and prayers go out to you all at this sad time.

Steve and family - I can't tell you how sorry I am for the loss of our dear Pam. She has always held a very special place in my heart! She was one of the kindest, most nonjudgemental angels on earth and she will be missed by all of us. I hope that you will gain some joy in remembering all the good times, all the love and graciousness that came from such a beautiful person inside and out. Please know that all of you are in my prayers for that peace that surpasses all understanding . . . Love and blessings to all of you -

Pam-

Thanks for all the memories from Holmes Elementary, Hoover, and good old Lakewood High School. I'll always remember you with a smile on your face, and your enthusiasm for life. 

A friend,

Dennis King
Class of 1963
Lakewood High School

Dear Steve and family, I was shocked and deeply saddened to get this news. Words cannot express my sorrow.  I don't have to tell you, Pam was the best! 
I will be there in spirit on Friday.

Jim DePass Madison, WI

Steve, Angie, Greg and John - my heartfelt sympathy goes to you at this very sad time.  I know her sudden death must be devastating for you.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers. With love  Lois Schneider (Long Beach, CA)

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Steve & Family,
We have very fond memories of our Candlewood days with Pam and you. We offer our deepest condolences to you and your family.Please know that we will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers. May you find some comfort in God's grace.

Dear Steve and the Miller family...we are so sorry to hear of this tragic news.  Our heartfelt sympathy to all of you at this difficult time.  Pam was a wonderful, caring person who meant so much to us both.   We'll always cherish her memory in our hearts.  Bob and I are out of state in Montrose, Colorado right now and won't be back to Long Beach till the end of October. Our sincere condolences....

Pam, You will be deeply missed by all who were fortunate enough to call you a friend. I will miss your quick wit, warmth, kindness and especially your ability to bring a smile to the face of anyone near you. You were truly a very special woman!

My heart is so sad over the loss of our dear friend and CAMEO leader.  Pam and I had become such good friends and I loved seeing her - she always made me laugh with some dry little quip.  Pam, I love you and I will miss you so much.

Pam was a friend who was always there quietly in the background whenever I needed a hug or encouragement.  She was fun, honest and dependable. I will miss her enormously. My deepest sympathy to Steve and her family.

Pam will always be in my heart - her charity, compassion and grace - we've lost a truly lovely lady whose legacy will live on in those who loved her. Thanks for your laughter Pam!

Pam.  One of the sweetest women I have ever known.  I will miss her serene face, wry wit and generous nature.  I only knew her a few short years but I'll feel her loss keenly. I can only imagine how hard the loss is for her family.  Steve, you and your loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dear Steve and Family - my heart goes out to all of you at this very sad and difficult time. Pam's loss is a huge loss for CAMEO and personally for members who became good friends with her. I will always remember Pam for her genuineness, her silliness and great sense of humor and hard work. There will never be another Pamela Ellen Miller. I am so saddened and my heart is broken because she left us so soon. I wish better days ahead for you as you transition into a life without someone so loving and vital in your lives.

Pam,

Your kindness and ability to make everyone feel welcomed and valued will be missed.  You made us laugh...at ourselves and with others.  Our lives are better because you were a part of them.

Kathie Grubb

Services will be held for Pam Miller at the Lakewood Village Community Church on Friday, October 12 at 10:30. A reception will follow.

We love you, Grammy! Forever, Nicole, Karyssa, Makenna, Max, Charlie, Sophia and Elijah.

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Pamela Ellen Miller

May 26, 1945 – October 4, 2012

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