I can't even imagine what you and your family have been going through.  It is so hard to lose a child now matter how old.  Just remember she is living with our Lord now and an Angel in heaven with no worries, no pain.  Gayle, is watching over you sending her love.

Dear Allan, Ginny, and family,
I am so sorry to read about Gayle. My heart aches for all of you.  From the posts, I can tell she was an amazing woman! I will pray for strength and comfort to all the family. May fond memories of her amazing life give comfort to you and ease some of your the pain.

Cecilia and family,

So sorry to hear of your loss. Altough I haven't seen Gayle in many years I will always remember her strength and individuality. My thoughts are with your family at this time and may God bless you all.

Gayle, I'm sorry to have missed so much of your growing up, I will always remember your smiling, happy face when you came to visit.  May God bless you and your children, I'm sure they have your soul in them. Rest in peace.
Love, Auntie Linda

Shayne and Chelsea...I was a friend of Jackie Abney, which was how I got to know your mom. She was one tough cookie and will be. Prayers to all of you and know that God is keeping you in His Hand. Much Love, Shelly Gallenstein

We will miss you Gayle forever, May you rest in peace, God be with your family through hard time

Gayle, I will miss you for the rest of my life. Our trips together, fun times and spending the last mounth with you. I know you are in gods hands now I will love you forever. Your dad.

To The Family,
  I was so shocked to hear the news. My family moved away from Lville about 12 yrs ago.  The time we knew Gayle was filled with many memories. From our trip to Gatlinburg in the worse snow storm ever to morning coffee and chats at the bus stop in Farmgate Meadows.  To my business associate in Mary Kay to many times I watched the children.  Gayle you always made me feel like you'd known me forever.  I pray God be with all the family and give you comfort in the days that lay ahead.

to gayle's family, our very  deepest condolences and prayers. the Lord be with you all and help you through this sad and difficult time.
sue filippone and frank viscardi

My dear friend Gayle, today you will be laid to rest..... I still can't believe that you have gone. I will miss you so much, we've had some fun times and I am left with good memories of you. I will look in on Shayne and Chelsea from time to time, they will be fine you have raised some awsome people Gayle and they know you loved them very very much. Rest my sister, until I go to meet up with my friend and we will see each other again. I love you... 
Kimberly Speaker~~~

Dearest Gayle,  I truely cherish the times we shared together.  You were truely a good friend and girlfriend of mine. I will always remember you, and promise to watch over Tonya, Shanye, and Chelsea.  RIP G until we meet again in heaven.  Your Mike

My thoughts and prayers go out to Gayles family and friends. We will miss her.

i will never have a neighbor as fun and close as gayle was all the years she lived next to me. we shared some crazy times, we were partners in crime. i miss those fun days, i pray that angels surround and protect her children and grands. yes, gayle, you will be missed. love ya,

To Chelsea, Shayne, and Tanya,
Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.

My deepest sympathies to you and your family, Chelsea. I am glad you were able to share happy thoughts about your mom with me.

I miss you auntie! i love you!!!! You will always be in our hearts!!

Allan, Celia & family,
My knowing of Gayle went right from her being a tiny tot, suddenly to this.  Really wish that I had gotten to watch her grow up because from her facebook entries it was very obvious that she loved enjoying life to the fullest. Her passing like this has ended her pain but left pain for those who are still here.  I hope that you can all find peace in pleasent memories of how much she was a part of each of your lives and be happy for her that she has moved on to the part of her journey that is pain free and I'm very sure putting a smile on her grandfathers face.  I'm sure he was waiting there with open arms saying "come on little girl everything will be all right here for you".

my condolences,thoughts and prayers go out to gayles family and friends.I went to high school with gayle many years ago. we hung out a few times, but not too often.She was and is a great person and will be missed

My dearest Gayle you will truly be missed. I wish we could have kept to the plan to see each other in the up coming months to rekindle a special frienship. You have found peace and I am blessed to have you watching over me.

My Dear Friend Gayle:
It had been years since we spoke or saw each other, but catching up with you was like we hadn't miss a beat.  I will miss you very much.  Words can't describe what we all are feeling for your family.  God bless you and fly free.

Dear family I am in shock as I write this note.  Gayle was one of a kind.  I love her so much.  When she first came to Louisville she and I were very close friends. I talked to her about a year ago and we always just pick up where we left off. I am praying for you kids Tanya, Shayne and Chelsea.  She loved you guys very much.

Gayle i will miss you very much. We had great times in are teen years. You were such a great friend. I love you very much. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. You will never be forgotten. I'am glad your not in pain any more. Your in a better place. And I no god is taking care or you. Love Rhonda Glennon.

Tanya,Shayne and Chelsea my thought and prayers are with you and your family,Gayle was a wonderful person and she will be missed.....

gayle & I lost touch when we both "grew up" & our lives took different directions. we all know how that happens! facebook brought us back together again....which I am grateful for. we endured some rough times after her family moved to parker street! I wasn't the friend her parents wanted her hanging with...that's for sure!!! but eventually I think they liked me....lol. I am sorry for everyones pain....but I want to believe that she is in a better place. no more pain. no more suffering. gayle....please tell my gram I miss her? I love you...

May God keep you close in his arms, to your family I am so sorry for your loss. Gayle will never be forgotten and forever be loved. She will live on in the hearts of all that knew her.

Dearest Cousin Gayle,
Ah, the crazy times we shared ;) The many times we laughed until we had tears in our eyes. It is to soon to say good-bye, so i will say , until we meet again know that i love you and I always will.. Love Cousin Linda-Musche Zbink

Gayle you will always be reambered and loved.My heart goes out to your family!They are in our prayers.May you reast in peace, no more pain! We Love You!!

Hi To All: I went to school with Gayle a long time ago. I am sorry about your loss and my prayers are wtih all of you Sincerely .Emerald (Ringland) Welvaert..(Gardner Ma.)

to gayles family i am so sorry for your lost she will be missed may God watch over her and you at this sad time

Thank you Gayle for the precious moments we share just a few weeks ago. I will miss you. You have brought to my heart to never forget family no matter how crazy life is. God Bless sweety

I will miss you my Dear Friend, you will never be forgotten! My prayers and thoughts are with her entire family and friends!!! I love you Gayle!!

God bless you all at this time and always.  I hope all of the happy memories will bring frequent smiles to your faces and your hearts.  I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.  
Sincerely,
Felicia Vidito

Once in a while a friend is found,
Who's a friend from the very start.
Once in a while a friendship is made,
That really warms the heart.
Once in a while a friendship is found,
To have a lifetime through.
It really does not happen once in a while,
It happened to me and you.
I Love You, Gayle...

Dear Family,

I went to school with Gayle many years ago she was a very good friend of mine. I am so sorry to hear about your loss and my heart goes out to all of you. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Susan Gonyea

Celia and family please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers . losing a loved one is never easy, but let the happy memories bring you some comfort in this time of sorrow.

  Dear Gayle, we were just starting to get to know each other again.  I'm so glad we had that little chat a few weeks ago.  It brought back so meny memories, I smiled all day. 
   My family and I will never forget the fun we had back on Sterling St in Clinton.  It was a great day when you guys moved in next door, it seems like it was yesterday.  We will remember you always.

I'm so sorry for your loss..Gayle was a one of a kind even after all these year talking to her was like yesterday she will be missed! She will keep them running in heaven thats for sure! Your all in my thought and prayers!

Dear Tanya, Shayne, and Chelsea I am very sorry to hear about your Mom. May peace and healing embrace your hearts and may God hold you gently at this sad time and always remember how much she loved each of you. If there is anything we can do for you all please let us know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Jim,Jackie,Cody & Megan

OBITUARY

Gayle Helen Musche Upton

October 20, 1964 – May 18, 2010

Arch L. Heady at Resthaven & Resthaven Memorial Park

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