Kay Coplen Putney Gantt

Kay Coplen Putney Gantt, 85, of Lynchburg, Virginia, passed away peacefully at her residence at Westminster Canterbury. A woman of grace, wit, and profound creativity, Kay’s legacy will forever echo in the hearts of her family, friends, and the community she adored.

Born June 7, 1940, in Oakland, California, Kay was the daughter of Spencer A. Coplen and Mildred Soule Coplen. As the daughter of a military father, she experienced the nomadic life of a military family, moving often and embracing each new chapter with resilience. But it was in Lynchburg, Virginia, that Kay found her heart's true home. She fell deeply in love with this community—its charm, its warmth, and its spirit of togetherness. She chose to raise her family here, laying down roots in a place that would become an integral part of her identity.

Kay was twice married, first to Irvin Turner Putney, and later to Joseph Isley Gantt, both of whom preceded her in death. She was also predeceased by her daughter, Sharon Putney Barham; her sister, Bernice C. Kirwin; her stepson, Joey Gantt; and her granddaughter, Sierra Dufault.

A proud mother of three sons—Dennis I. Putney (Ann), Donald C. Putney, and Jeffrey T. Putney (Amy)—Kay was also a loving stepmother to Canden Walker, Carson Nahitchevansky (Tony), Bob Gantt (Lynne), and Betty Jo Dufault (William), and stepdaughter-in-law Debbie Gantt. Her devotion to family extended through the generations, with seven grandchildren—Miles Putney, Wesley Putney, Turner Putney, Reese Putney, Jordan Barham, Victoria Putney, and Irvin Putney—and nine step-grandchildren, including Maya Platt, Jennifer Rotunda, Zoe Dufault, Betty Treschilta, Collin Gantt, Bryn Gantt, Jacob Gantt, Marcus Borel, and Taylor Usry.

Kay’s professional life was equally fulfilling. After twenty years of service, she retired as the director of major gifts at Lynchburg College. Her dedication to education and her commitment to the college community reflected her deep appreciation for Lynchburg and its future. A lifelong learner and advocate, she built lasting connections that were rooted in her genuine care for others.

But it was in her writing that Kay truly left her mark. A prolific writer and poet, she was known for her beautiful words and keen insight into the human experience. Her passion for poetry illuminated the quiet moments of life, and her works inspired all who had the privilege of reading them. Kay’s words will live on in the hearts of those who were touched by them, a testament to her unique ability to express beauty through language.

As a member of the First Unitarian Church in Lynchburg, Kay found community, peace, and purpose. Prior to her membership there, she had been an active member of the First Presbyterian Church for many years. Her faith was an enduring source of strength and solace throughout her life.

While Kay’s family, friends, and community will feel the ache of her absence, they will also carry forward the lessons she imparted: to appreciate the simple joys of life, to find beauty in the everyday, and to hold close the relationships that truly matter. Kay's love for Lynchburg, her passion for writing, and her unwavering devotion to those she loved will continue to inspire all who knew her.

A celebration of Kay’s life will be held from 2 to 4 pm Sunday, July 20, 2025 at the bridge at Westminster Canterbury.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions be made to either the University of Lynchburg (www.lynchburg.edu/alumni-friends/giving) or to the First Unitarian Church of Lynchburg, 818 Court Street, Lynchburg, VA 24504.

May she rest in peace, and may her words continue to inspire long after her passing.