Ryan Christopher Crilly

Ryan’s life was defined not by the number of years he lived, but by the depth of the love he gave, the strength of his faith, and the lasting impact he had on everyone fortunate enough to know him.

Ryan had a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. In the highs and lows of life, Ryan was very intentional about thanking God for his blessings and trusting the Lord to carry him

through his darkest moments. Ryan’s faith had developed throughout his life, specifically his adult life, and had been especially strong during the last two years of his life.

His generosity was one of his most admirable characteristics. Ryan quietly looked for opportunities to bless others without expecting recognition. He often paid for a stranger’s groceries simply because he could. While traveling out of the country, he would generously give to people he met, hoping not only to ease a financial burden but also to share the hope he had found in Christ. He faithfully supported charitable organizations, readily helped family and friends during times of need, and consistently gave without ever seeking acknowledgment. For Ryan, generosity was never about being noticed—it was simply the natural expression of his heart.

Ryan knew from an early age exactly what he wanted most out of life—to be a husband and a father. Those were never simply titles to him; they were his calling. He believed that being a husband came first and that being a father flowed from loving his wife well. He lived that conviction every day.

To his wife, Ryan was everything she could have ever hoped for in a husband. Their marriage was marked by laughter, adventure, unwavering friendship, and intentional love. He delighted in making her feel cherished, whether through handwritten love notes, “just because” flowers, thoughtful surprises, or extravagant gifts she never expected but that he simply wanted to give. He made quality time a priority and found ways to make her laugh every day.

Some of their favorite moments happened long after everyone else had gone to bed. They would often stay awake until the early hours of the morning simply talking, laughing, dreaming about the future, or sharing whatever happened to be on their minds and hearts. Those conversations became some of their most treasured memories. Each year of their marriage was better than the one before. Together they explored 27 states and two countries, creating countless adventures and memories. They were, without question, the loves of each other’s lives.

Ryan was an extraordinary father to his three daughters and embraced every joy that came with raising girls. He would let them paint his fingernails and toenails, braid and decorate his beard with glitter and bows if it meant making his girls smile. He proudly bought each of them their first pair of diamond earrings, coached their soccer and flag football teams, and cheered them on at dance recitals and cheer competitions.

He was also, by unanimous vote, the fun parent. He happily spent evenings watching reality television with his girls, racing them in Mario Kart, building LEGO creations together, and inventing traditions that became cherished family memories—including the Father’s Day water bottle chugging competition that included video replays and much debate to determine the winner.

His love often revealed itself in the smallest moments. On rainy afternoons, he would meet the girls at the end of the driveway with umbrellas so they could stay dry on the walk home from the bus stop, then run back to the house himself without one—even though few things bothered him more than wearing wet clothes. It was simply who he was—always willing to accept an inconvenience himself if it meant making life a little easier for someone he loved.

Ryan’s love extended far beyond his immediate family. He proudly told his wife on their first date that he was a “Mama’s boy” and that one of his favorite songs was Boys II Men’s “Mama” because of the love he felt for her. He shared an especially close relationship with his father, built on love, mutual respect, and friendship. He also cherished his relationships with his older brother and younger sister.

Even the two dogs he originally insisted he never wanted became some of the greatest recipients of his affection. Before long, they had completely captured his heart, and he naturally became a proud doggy dad who loved them as members of the family.

Ryan’s compassion extended beyond his own family and into his life’s work. He earned both his bachelor’s and master’s degrees in Criminal Justice before discovering a calling in social work. He spent several years serving with Adult Protective Services, advocating for vulnerable adults and helping those who often had no one else to speak on their behalf. Caring for others was never simply his profession—it was part of who he was.

Ryan could strike up a conversation with anyone, and a complete stranger often became a friend after just a few minutes with him. He wore his heart on his sleeve, remained unapologetically true to his convictions, and stood firmly for the things he believed in. His authenticity drew people to him, and he was deeply loved by so many.

Ryan was also a man of many passions. He was a lifelong New York Yankees fan and remained forever loyal to the Washington Redskins. He loved sports of every kind, was deeply patriotic, and held profound respect for America and for those who served it. He was a steadfast supporter of veterans, active-duty military members, and law enforcement officers.

Ryan was preceded in death by his grandparents, Edward and Muriel Crilly and Donald and Barbara Morgan.

Ryan leaves behind a family who loved him beyond words and who will carry his legacy forward every day. He is survived by his beloved wife, Jessica; his three cherished daughters, Hannah, Lila, and Selah; his parents, Mark and Hilda; his older brother, Mitchell Morgan and his wife, Elizabeth; his younger sister, Ashley Easley; his lifelong best friend and brother by choice, Billy Roach and his wife, Jessica; the children who proudly knew him as “Uncle Ryan”, Jordan Crilly, Colton Roach, Stella Morgan, Lucas Morgan, Landon Easley, Kayden Easley, and Caitlyn Roach; and two gentleman whom he considered as family, Jesse Stubbs and JC Christian; along with countless extended family members, dear friends, and all those whose lives were forever changed by his love, generosity, unwavering faith, and joyful spirit.

Although his family grieves the unimaginable loss of a husband, father, son, brother, and friend, they find comfort in knowing that Ryan’s greatest hope became his eternal reality. Because of his faith in Jesus Christ, they rejoice in the promise that this goodbye is only temporary and look forward with confident hope to the day they will see him again.

A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, July 11, 2026 at 11:00 a.m. at Whitten Timberlake Chapel with a reception to follow.

The family will receive friends on Friday, July 10, 2026 from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Whitten Timberlake Chapel.

If anyone wishes to make memorial donations please consider, Tunnels to Towers Foundation, 2361 Hylan Boulevard, Staten Island, NY 10306 or https://t2t.org/donate .