Carla, so glad I had a chance to see you last winter after so many years away. I hope you're enjoying your reunion with Sadie and Dani and Raider and all the rest! Tell my kids HI for me. Love ya

I'm so Sorry For The Loss, God Bless All Of You, Prayers Today And Always...

Dear Dave, family and friends my deepest sympathy to all of you. I have known Carla since the early 90's when we showed in obedience, UKC, breed when Carla showed Linda's Belgians and agility. Carla was a wonderful trainer and competitor.
Very sad for your loss,
       Paula VandenBoom

I haven't seen you in many years but I will always remember your beautiful smile!  All the memories I have as a child spending time with the family all came rushing back. I will miss you deeply. My heart goes out to the family and I love you all so very much.

To Dave, family and friends of Carla.  I will always remember Carla as a kind, gentle, quiet, and caring soul who loved her friends and her dogs.  The dog world, indeed the whole world, lost a great one.  Rest in Peace Carla.  May you happily run barefoot...

My friend.  I will miss your smile, your hugs, your encouragement and your humor.  The one thing time can never erase is all of the beautiful memories.  May you rest in peace Carla.

Dear Dave and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I met Carla through AKC Agility. I will always remember her smile and kindness towards others. I am so thankful that she touched my life and I will treasure those moments! Prayers to you and your family.

I met Carla in 1995 because I saw her Golden Raider's photo in the GRCA Yearbook and I was smitten with his expression and wanted to find out more - I'm originally from Indiana so when I visited my parents, I contacted Carla to see if she would be interested in breeding Raider and I drove from near Indianapolis up to Detroit (forgot how far it was!) just to meet Raider.  Well, not only did I get to meet Raider, I got to meet Carla.  I couldn't believe how nice and welcoming she was - she even invited me to attend an obedience class (in NJ at that time I'd been involved in obedience for over 5 years and had never had anyone actually welcome me to anything) - in class she taught me a neat release move where I spin my dog to the left and celebrate! I still use that to this day and in class this week when I released my dog Clue in that manner I remembered Carla and tears flowed.  I again drove to MI from NJ two years later and bred my Golden Levee to Raider - my wonderful Goldens Blue and now Melt are from Raider's gene pool.  I've since met Carla at several GRCA National Specialtys - the last being this year in Ohio where I got to thank her for my wonderful Golden Retriever Melt (Raider's grandson), met Walker, and experienced firsthand the special bond between Carla and her agility friends.  I know how special Carla is by just meeting her less than a dozen times and cannot imagine the loss you all have experienced.

I am so sorry for your loss. I have memories of all of us playing together as children.I think of those days and I smile.

Dear Edie, Al, Roxianne, Justine, and Dave:
We are so sorry about your loss of such a wonderful daughter, sister and wife.  We were lucky to know Carla when she was a young girl and watched her grow into such a wonderful woman.  She was such a sweet person with such a giving smile and attitude.  Her courage was so strong as she continued her battle.  She will be terribly missed by all that knew her.  Our hearts go out to you all.

Dear Retell Girls,

It will be difficult to think of all of you minus Carla.  She was a great girl from my memory and it seems she seemed to complete all of you as if you were each an appendage of the other forming a circle of love and respect that most sisters do not enjoy. I hope that  you all find strength in knowing that that Carla is and always will be in the thoughts and on the minds of everyone she touched. My family sends their condolences.

Dave, My thoughts and prayers are with you.  Always remember, the one thing  that can't be taken away from you are all of the happy memories you have of Carla.

                                                   Rosie VanHoek (Grosse Pte.. MI.)

Dear Dave and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Carla was such a sweet and kind soul who will be missed by so many. She loved her dogs and was a great trainer. I never knew anyone who ran agility barefoot before I met her! May you rest in peace, Carla.

Dave, my heart goes out to you at this time.  You two were the perfect picture of a happy loving couple. Anyone would be so lucky to have that in their lives. I, too, am lucky that I had Carla in my life for 30+ years as my best friend, traveling buddy, co-breeder on some great litters, training buddies, Disneyland partner in crime and she was just always there to lend a hand or give me a shoulder to lean on.  I will cherish our friendship forever and know that I will never have that kind of friend again. She was a one in a million, with a heart of GOLD, like her dogs. My memories of Carla will keep the hole in my heart full.  
I know that your heart is grieving now and all of us feel your pain...just remember that we will always be there for you , just like Carla was there for us !   Hugs

Karen Agacinski posted this on facebook and we all thought it was perfect!
Spent a lot of the day thinking about the gift of people who can "name you." We were members of St. Columban's Roman Catholic Community for nearly thirty years because naming and knowing each other was part of our who we were. Today, when I looked around at the obedience trial we were at, I thought about how lucky each of us is when we have people in our life who can name us, who rejoice in our presence, who miss us when we are absent, and who mourn our passing when we finally leave. We name you Carla Retell Haupt, we honor your life and the impact you had on so many people, we mourn your passing, and we thank you for everything you taught us about kindness and courage. We will miss you.

Carla was a valued member of our agility family. She will be missed.  
To her family and friends:  my deepest sympathies.

Although I don't know your part of the family much, it seems Carla was a beautiful person both inside and out.  May she rest in peace, and may you all find peace knowing she is now healed!

The agility community lost one of its brightest lights in Carla.  She embodied the spirit of dog sports, always smiling and loving every run she had with her dog!  Her spirit, friendship and comraderie will sorely be missed!  Our deepest condolences to those closest to her.

Dear Dave and family of Carla, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember her as a kind, sweet woman.

We will miss her quiet and gentle nature. 

Dave, Rita & Shannon Tyler (Canton, MI)

Rest in peace my dear friend, you will be missed by all who have had the pleasure of knowing you.  It's now time to reunite with all your furry kids that proceeded you to heaven (say HI to Maggie and Sadie for me).

Justine, Roxanne and families...so sorry for the loss of Carla.  Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Dave and family-  Carla will be remembered as a kind and courageous woman.  May you find comfort in your memories and peace during this difficult time.

Such a sweet woman.  She will certainly be missed.  Pat Parker

Rest in peace our Teal friend and sister. Heaven has gained another Teal angel. Our warmest thoughts and prayers are with your family. We so enjoyed you attending our annual TTVT this past September.  
Cheryl DiChiera & Paul Potter (Rochester Hills, MI)

Carla was a kind, caring, loving person,and will be missed by many.
Our thoughts are with you.
Mary

Dave and family, and special friends, I know there are no words right now that can take away the pain of losing Carla so young. I've had the honor of cheering Carla on in agility, and even watching both of you way back when in obedience.  Carla always has a smile for everyone and was an amazing trainer. She will be in your hearts and watching over you and will be missed by many. I send prayers for you and everyone she touched with her gentle ways.

Sorry for your loss, may you all find peace knowing she is safe in the arms of our Lord.  Love - Tom & Lela Burgess and Family.

My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

You kindness, giving and loving heart will be missed by so many.  The gentleness about you is what I will remember most.  Rest well Carla, rest well.

I'll miss you Carla, we met as coworkers and remained friends through the years, thank you for your friendship.  Peace and comfort to you Carla, Dave and your families.

Dear Edie and family,
Jason has been sharing all his wonderful memories of Carla.  She will surely be missed by all.  Keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.  Sincerely,
Donna, Jason and Alex Sabins

Dave: I know that words are inadequate at a time like this but I wanted you to know how very sorry I am to hear of Carl's passing. You and her family are in my thoughts at this time.

I am so sorry for your loss.  She was a wonderful strong person who was always ready to pitch in.  May she rest in peace.

Dave: We have never met but I was one of those crazy dog people that Carla knew. I used to judge agility a lot and Carla was one of the handlers I loved the most to watch. The connection and joy that she shared with her dogs is something I will always remember. My sincere condolences...

There are no words....our hearts and minds will never be the same...I will truly miss the great hugs Carla always gave me...peace to you and your family Dave.

Dave:  My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.  Carla's personality touched all who knew her.  She will be missed.

Dave , there are no words at the moment that will comfort us . We have all lost a little piece of our heart ..Carla was a wonderful sister, I had the honor of being her "baby sister" for 52 yrs ..I can only imagine what a wonderful loving wife she was to you Dave ..my heart breaks not only for my loss , but for you as well. You were the love of her life ..Carla May you rest peacefully and keep a loving eye on all of us forevermore. XOXXO we luv'd you more than words can ever say !

Dave:
 It's so sad to hear of Carla's passing. She was a wonderful and caring person, who we will dearly miss. She was much to young to die. God must have a place for her to fill. She was great with her dogs and she did an excellent job in training them. May GOD bless you and her Family, to know we will always have you all in our thoughts.

  Carolyn and Don Harrison

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Carla Jean Haupt

December 30, 1961 – November 7, 2015

Edward Swanson & Son Funeral Home

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