Dear Elysse,
My name is Joanne Molodowitz. I worked  with my sister at IMCSI. for 20 years That is where I met Jeffrey.  You and I met several times.
Please accept Ken, my husband, and my sincere deep condolences.
Jeffrey was such a wonderful, fun person. He loved you so much and was so proud of his children. .
Toni just told me the sad news this morning..I wish that I could hug you and help you 8n this time of  pain and sadness.
My love to you and your whole family.
All my love
Joanne

My dear Jeffrey,

It is so deeply heartbreaking to know that you have left us. My heart goes out to your family and your loving wife—you spoke of her often, always with such affection—and your cherished grandchildren.

Every year, I would make that flight from LA to New York just to sit with you and go over my little business accounting. We'd meet at a café, somewhere in Midtown Manhattan, and somehow those moments always felt like more than just work. You showed me so much kindness and unwavering guidance. You were always available, always smiling, and always thoughtful—never forgetting a small gift at Christmas.

Though our relationship began as professional, it's remarkable how quickly mutual respect and a deep sense of connection grew between us. You understood people, and you made those around you feel seen and supported.

You will be missed, my fellow Virgo—as you used to say about the two of us—but you will never be forgotten.

Rest peacefully, Jeffrey. Keep smiling down on us, wherever you are.

With love,
Angelique

Still remember over 50 years ago when  Cousin Jeffrey offered to help my father with his accounting practice while my father was hospitalized for several weeks. He even offered financial help. I know it was a gesture that meant a lot to my dad and something I never forgot.

I will miss Jeff …..he is the guy that when no longer with us …you don’t always feel same.. I loved the “ Twinkle “ in his eyes..
He has been a great friend for over 40 years !!
His “Life experience wisdom shared  with me far exceeded his accounting abilities 
Jeff and Elyse vacationed frequently in Playa Del Carmen , Mexico ….it was my ultimate pleasure to see him relaxing on the beach reading a book or a play script, or just “vegging out”
We both loved food and shared manu wonderful dinners together..

I am blessed to have known Jeff …I will miss him very much

Amy, I am so very sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine what you’re going through but I’m here for you if you need anything. Love Barb Nogueras

My name is Pierre. He have been a friend since 1983 and later on switch is account to his son, so it has been 42 years through several businesses they have been very supporting to me ; wonderful person he will be missed.

I worked with Jeffrey for 20 years. He was always so kind and a very sweet man to work with. I will miss you very much, my Dear.

From college classes at Baruch College (Evening Division) more than 57 years ago to your wedding to reconnecting at Leslie's party, our lives have intertwined in so many ways.

Always with a smiling "Hello Jeckie" to a kiss on the lips, as brothers do, and always with a heartfelt hug, he greeted us regardless of how he felt.

Our families have shared many simchas and many sad times, but this is the epitome of sadness. 

May his name be for a blessing, and may you Elyse, Amy and Arthur find peace in the love of family and friends.

To Elyse and family— shock doesn’t say enough. Jeffrey was a favorite friend of ours, as you are. We cannot make the shiva or the funeral. Unfortunately Mike at 88  
and ill(leukemia) cannot drive. I recently had blood clots in my lungs. Don’t drive distances. Our love and prayers are with all of you. Was this sudden or was he sick? You can email me at pstweet@comcast.net when you are up to it. Take care of yourself. Love to you and Amy etc. ❤️

We weren’t related by blood, but Jeffrey felt like family to me. Our families have been friends for many years, and I always loved seeing him at gatherings and on holidays. His wit, humor and heart will never be forgotten. Rest in peace, Uncle Pickle. ❤️

Jeff was my beloved friend and accountant for the past 50 years. We shared lots of lifes stories ups and downs and I will trully miss him and the choclate liquar candies I received from him every Chanukah. He was a true mensch and he always talked about his family (good and difficult times) and he was also a prettyy good actor (Ha). My condolenses to the Millstein family.

A lovely, decent, Funny man. If “Leo Bloom” were a mensch, he’d be Jeffrey!  May his memory be a blessing.

HEY BRO, YOU CHECKED OUT TOO SOON. WE HAD A LOBSTER  DINNER DATE AT POINT PLEASANT BEACH IN JULY, BUT THAT  WILL HAVE TO WAIT.  WILL MISS YOUR FRIENDSHIP AND SENSE OF HUMOR. YOUR TRUE-FULLNESS AND  WARMTH.  G-D BE WITH YOU ALWAYS, ROBERT

I met Jeffrey in 1976 when I started working at JAD Films and he was our family's accountant since then.

He was the funniest account in the world, and he will be sorely missed.

We send our deepest condolences to Jeffrey's family.

Tony and Lisa Manne

OBITUARY

Jeffrey E Milstein

September 13, 1946 – May 27, 2025

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