Hi Barbara and Family,

It's hard to believe that three years have passed since Stans passing.
Pam and I often think and talk about the good times we had with you and Stan, and I have stated many times, we will never forget them.
Hope you are doing well.

God Bless,
Bill & Pam

We Miss you Stan.
Thinking of how many laughs we had and the good ole days at Knob Hill. 
Victoria and Ed

I can't believe two years have passed since we lost Stan. We miss you and  think of you often.  ❤️ 

Stan 
I cant believe a year has passed.  We miss your one of a kind personality,  quick wit and sense of humor.  Ed and I really miss weekend dinners with you and Barb.
I even miss when we butted heads over golf.  It drove everyone around us crazy but I knew you had a big heart and it was all in fun.   In many ways you were like a father figure. We think of you often and pray that you found peace and rest in the afterlife.   💓Victoria

Dear Barbara and Family,
Pam and I were so saddened to hear of Stan's passing.  As our  business relationship transcended into a personal relationship with you and your family, our memories of many dinners and New Years day together will never be forgotten.  Stan will be sorely missed by Pam and me.
If I may say, I will always remember Stan as a "Mensch among Mensch's".
Love and God Bless,
Bill & Pam Lahr


I remember first meeting Stan at Knob Hill GC. He walked into my golf shop and I swear he introduced himself as Stan Fester.  I said, “pleasure to meet you Mr. Fester, welcome to the club”.  He said, “NO!”  Adamantly of course as he always did, “it’s Fessler!”  We laughed like hell after that one. Since then I always called him Uncle Fessler or Uncle Fess 😊.  Since I had worked as an assistant at Maplewood CC, I spent a lot of time in South Orange.  We always enjoyed conversing about that area and him growing up there etc.   I needled him a lot about his golf game and he always needled me about anything he could.  We always laughed either way.  My condolences to Shari and Scott and all the Fessler Family!!   The Schaare Family has you all in our hearts and prayers!!  God Bless!! 

We miss you Stan.
 Our fondest days golfing with you and Barbara,  and getting yelled at for my "crappy "putting.  Then dinner at Peking Pavillion and your fav Mai Tai.  

Love Victoria and Ed



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October 20, 1942 – February 23, 2021

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