Leilani Murphy

Born November 24th 1932, in Kona, Hawaii to James Edward Mitchell (formally James Edward Saikichi Fujimoto) and Clara Kim (Gravitt). Lani was raised at the Salvation Army Girls' Home in Honolulu, where she later served as a housemother under the guidance of Captain Marion Mitchell.

She met her beloved husband Richard William Murphy, a Korean War combat veteran, while he was stationed in Hawaii with the US Navy. They were married in a double ceremony on January 23, 1954.

They moved to New Hampshire in 1955 after the birth of their first son. Together they had nine children:

John F. Murphy (married to V. Sue Murphy)

Richard E. Murphy (deceased)

Leilani T. Ulcickas (married Paul Ulcickas)

Paul D. Murphy (married to Diana Murphy)

Lisa K. Allison (married to Curtis Allison)

Kimo M. Murphy (married to Leigh Anne Richardson)

Lori L.Greene (married to David Greene)

Christopher G. Murphy (married to Susan Murphy) and Leigh K.Picard.

Lani and Richard were married for 70 wonderful years.

She was the proud grandmother of 26 grandchildren, Jason, Serena, Nicholas, Richard, Rebecca, Ryan, Adam, Laura, Lindsey, Kymlee, (Leanna), Shayne, Bryan, Tyler, Alex, Kiana, Ben, Kailey, Kristen, Michael, Kayla, Jennifer, Christopher, Cheyenne, Gabriella, and Haleigh.

And 31+ great grandchildren, McKenzie, Kheagan, Rogan, Ayden, Kailani, Malakai, Koen, Ethan, Corey, Aidan, Elijah, Kilohoku, Leila, Liko, Laynee, Leilani, Lucy, Lily, Luna, Gabe, Ezra, Rose, Leilani, Blake, Mckenna, Casey, Grayson, Colton, Kai, Dax, Rhen

Each of which brought her immense joy.

While raising her family on the West side of Manchester

she was "Mom" to the neighborhood and would feed them all. "What's one more mouth to feed". Always ready with a meal, a kind word, and a warm hug.

Lani retired from Osram Sylvania after years of dedicated service. She enjoyed many years of retirement and resided with her husband in their winter home in Homosassa, Florida, for 26 years before moving back to New Hampshire in 2021 to live with her daughter and son in-law.

Her unbounded love and dedication along with her husband to their family never wavered. Hard work and sacrifice for many years was their duty. They always wanted a big family, and they sure got one. Her grace, wisdom, endless optimism and love has passed down through the generations.

She lived a full life of which we're grateful.

Her love for reading, games, piano, music, dancing, cooking, family and friends was infectious. She would tell everyone of her kids, "You're my favorite" and we'd all laugh. Her family was her pride and joy and we felt it. We're better because of it.

She instilled greatness in all of us and we carry it with pride. She wasn't just our Mom, she was a benchmark, shining example, trusted confidant, steady hand, reliable friend and the matriarch of our family. She was a radiant example of a life well lived and will never be forgotten, because she lives on inside all who knew her. What a gift.

Her love and relationship with Jesus Christ was her strength, and she encouraged us all to walk with him.

You have our endless love and respect.

Your work on earth is done, and God has called you home. Your family in Heaven are cheering for your arrival, what a blessing.

Rest in peace mom, grandma, great grandma. Thank you... Ku’u Aloha, A hui hou. (My beloved, until we meet again)

She was predeceased by her husband Richard, son Richard E. Murphy, granddaughter Leanna Murphy, her parents, James and Clara, sister-in-law Kathleen McGranahan, niece Kathy Hennessey, and cherished relatives including Auntie Angeline and Uncle Pedro Sabog.

She is survived by many beloved family members, including cousins, nieces (Linda and Nancy), nephews, extended family, lifelong friends, cousin-in-law Doris Paquette, and her best friend Jeannie Lacey (Woodbury).

No service will be held as per her wishes.

Arrangements provided by McHugh Funeral Home in Manchester, NH.