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Hodges-Josberger Funeral Home

577 E. Elkcam Circle, Marco Island, FL

OBITUARY

Bernard "Sonny" Victor Cushman Jr.

November 8, 1947January 3, 2020

Bernard Victor Cushman, Jr., known to many as “Sonny,” avid music lover, skilled cribbage player, and U.S. Army Veteran, passed away peacefully on Friday, January 3, 2020 at Avow Hospice in Naples, Florida in the company of his son Daniel.

Longtime resident of Marco Island, Florida, Sonny was born on November 8, 1947 in the small harbor village of Port Clyde, Maine to Bernard “Spinner” and Alice Teel Cushman.

He recently spent the past four summers returning to Maine, where he enjoyed simple pleasures like baking, sitting on the dock of his grandfather’s fishing shack, enjoying the company of family and friends, and shooting at squirrels that invaded his bird feeders.

Sonny spent his life as a dedicated hard worker, serving our country in Vietnam and spending over 40 years in the food services and hotel industry. He was equally dedicated to the adventures of life, having picked up cruising in recent years, and regularly engaged in weekly tournaments at a local pool hall.

He leaves behind his wife Barbara, whom he was married to for 47 years; his four children Kimberly, Daniel and his wife Jenn, Alicia, and Bernie; his eight grandchildren Jimmy, Andrew, Devin, Kaylie, Torin, Daniel Jr., Amelia, and Brenden; his great-granddaughter Ariana; his sister Della and her husband Tim Carey; brother-in-law Raymond Upham; nieces and nephews Jeff, Raymie, Chad, Heidi and Matthew, as well as several great nieces and nephews and many aunts and uncles.

In thinking about his entrance to heaven, Sonny expected to “slide in sideways saying ‘oh what a ride!’”, where he would join his parents, sister Beverly, niece Tonya, “son-in-law” Lance, and many family and friends who would welcome him with a Bacardi and Coke in a Stan’s cup.

While he often joked in saying “you’re gonna miss me when I’m gone,” it’s safe to say that there was always some truth behind this statement – he will indeed be missed.

A celebration of life concert on the beach will be held at 4:30pm on Sunday, January 19, 2020 at the JW Marriott Marco Island Beach Resort, 400 S. Collier Blvd.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the family’s GoFundMe page at gofundme.com/our-american-hero.

Services

  • A Celebration of Life Concert on the Beach Sunday, January 19, 2020

Memories

Bernard "Sonny" Victor Cushman Jr.

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Jaclynn Dempsey

January 11, 2020

To many too write!
Number one:
Jimmy and Sonny’s pranks, friendship they have, and most of all, watching 2 men, love and respect each other as they do!

Number two:
The love I see in Alicia’s eyes for her Daddy! I love my Dad like you do!
That’s why I can see love between both of you! ( He is also with our Lord!)

True story! I said to Jimmy “ Wow Sonnys wife is so much younger than him! He needs a vivacious woman just like her! And she’s beautiful!!! “

He laugh that laugh of his...
“Jackie, that’s his daughter Alicia! “
Lmao

Dear Lord, I pray for all Family and Friends to watch him sore!
Some with Eagles!
Some with Turkey ~ Jimmy.......

Stay strong as Sonny always did!

Michelle Taylor

January 11, 2020

I’ll never forget Sonny’s 60’s costumes. He loved to have fun!

Sonia Fatheree

January 10, 2020

I met Sonny in June of 2002. The company I work for held a conference at a hotel on Marco. Sonny was our Conference Managaer. We immediately hit it right off. During the 17 years I had the pleasure of knowing him, he made a deep impact in my life. I will forever hold him and his wonderful, fabulous family & friends in my thoughts and prayers. Much love to all.

Kathy Daniels

January 10, 2020

Sonny was a dear friend, I met Sonny and Barbara my first day on Marco Island I moved in next door! They became My family while living there! Sonny was like a brother and always told truth about every situation. I have so many great memories! Let’s just say every weekend was like a vacation! My heart breaks for all his family and friends! So many prayers for all of you!

Lynne Stone

January 10, 2020

I had the most wonderful experience of growing up with Sonny in Port Clyde. He was part of the wonderful tribe of Port Clyde, America. RIP sweet man.

Paul Cushman

January 9, 2020

Sorry to hear of the passing of my cousin "Sony" We grew up together in Port Clyde, Maine and I have many precious memories
of our younger years together. Sending our prayers and love to the family. Dr. Paul L. Cushman

FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY