Thomas D. O'Toole Sr.

July 29, 1949July 14, 2013
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THOMAS O'TOOLE, on July 14, 2013 of Farmingdale, New York. Beloved husband of Eileen of 30 + years of marriage. Loving father of Michelle, Thomas Jr. and Ryan. Adored son-in-law Vincent. Cherished grandfather of Vincent, Taylor, and Douglas. Fond brother of Jimmy, Timmy, Carol, Denise, and Kathy. Thomas served in the United States Army during the Vietnam War. Thomas is retired from the Aer Lingus Air Lines. Missed by his loyal dogs Sammy and Bella. Thomas loved fishing and softball. Thomas played softball sponsored by Borelli's Restaurant in East Meadow.

Visitation will be held on Wednesday, from 2:00 to 4:30 and 7:00 to 9:30 p.m. ~ Religious Service will be held in the Chapel on Wednesday at 8:00 p.m. ~

Family and friends are welcome to the funeral home on Thursday, at 9:00 a.m., we will be leaving for the interment at 10:00 to Calverton National Cemetery, 210 Princeton Blvd., Calverton, New York.

~ We hope you can attend. Please access the following link for further details, floral orders, directions and to sign Thomas' Guest Book. ~

Offering our deepest condolences during this very difficult time. ~ The Staff of James Funeral Hom ~


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Jeanette Kerzner-Green

August 11, 2014

Thinking about Tommy. We had our annual reunion at Lido, and toasted to our friend. We miss him always, but so much more intimately when we have get togethers and miss his physical presence. Til we see you again TOMMY! <3


December 28, 2013

thoughts and prayers for otool family. Friends with tom jr

Debbie Walters Staley

July 19, 2013

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Tommy's family as he is laid to rest. His wit and smile will make Heaven an even happier place to be. Tommy, you will never be lonely again with Pat by your side. To say I will miss you is an understatement. This is a final salute to you from my son, who you admired so much. xoxo

donna lupinski

July 19, 2013

we are so sorry for your loss. my dad told me before he went home to the lord in march of this year, lifes about changing, it never stays the same. and he passed not long after that. My prayers go out to all of you, sincerely Donna Martin Lupinski UHS class of 73

Charlie Maguire

July 18, 2013

May my brother-in-law, Tommy, rest in peace. I will always remember how he took care of his family and treated Eileen and my mother with respect. He and I were stationed at Fort Jackson, SC at the same time.

Martin Kelly

July 18, 2013

My condolences to the O'Toole family. Was very sorry to hear that Tom
had passed away. We had some great times , and laughs with the
EI-CGO gang in JFK. He got his EO too early.
Martin Kelly (EX EI -JFK)

Gerry Frank Cahalan

July 18, 2013

My deepest condolences to the O'Toole Family. Tommy was a great guy and so much fun! He will be missed by many. Tom and his family will be in my prayers. RIP Tommy...

Linda Sippel-Carlucci

July 18, 2013

My condolences to Tommy and his family. Tommy was a close friend of my family and all the memories that I have of Tommy always will bring a smile to my face. Tommy was the greatest. Tommy you will be missed and never forgotten. Forever a fiend.

Frank O'Grady

July 18, 2013

Rest in peace Tommy
Have fond memories of you at Aer Lingus
God Bkess and a good journey to heaven

Fran Marra Wustenhoff

July 17, 2013

To Tommy's family & friends ~ Having only met Tommy a few years ago, it didn't take long for me to come to know the kind, thoughtful & compassionate person he was. Like so many, I will miss "visiting" with him on FB and seeing him whenever I've gone to Borelli's. Remember to keep his memory alive by remembering the good times, telling the stories & celebrate his life always. Will keep him in my thoughts & prayers. RIP Tommy