Thomas J. Pober

Visitation will be held on Monday evening from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. and Tuesday, 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. and 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. ~ Funeral Mass will be held Wednesday 10:00 a.m. at St. Rose of Lima RC Church . Bayview Avenue . Massapequa . NY 11758 ~ Interment to follow to St. Charles Cemetery . Wellwood Avenue . Farmingdale. NY 11735

Family and friends are welcome to James Funeral Home an hour before the funeral mass time.

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  • Visitation Monday, April 8, 2019
  • Visitation Tuesday, April 9, 2019
  • Visitation Tuesday, April 9, 2019
  • St. Rose of Lima RC Church Wednesday, April 10, 2019
  • St. Charles Cemetery Wednesday, April 10, 2019

Thomas J. Pober

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George Cline

April 9, 2019

There are no words to express the sadness and grief we all feel. You were a wonderful son, a caring brother, a fantastic nephew and a great friend. You were always right there in all of our times of need and your willingness to help regardless of the situation was a constant reminder of the generous soul that you were. We will miss you and pray for you and struggle to find the strength to live on. Rest in peace.
Love you,
Uncle George

Ed O'Donnell

April 6, 2019

TJ - I Love you and miss you so much. Our hearts are broken and things will never be the same. Be at peace ... always faithful.
Uncle Ed.