My condolences to the family
Sorry for your loss
Sadly missed
RIP❤️🌹

Next month Ilyssa and I would have celebrated our 35th friendaversary. Every year she would post a touching story of how we met and how our friendship blossomed over the years into something much more than that. Ilyssa was so special in so many ways. We could and would go for months sometimes without being in contact but always picked up our conversations like we just spoke the day before.  We understood each other and had mutual respect and love for each other. I will miss her immensely.
My sincere condolences go out to her family and all that knew and loved her.

-Kim Moore-Ward and Family

I have had the pleasure of being Ilyssa’s hairstylist the past couple of years. I really enjoyed our conversations, she was very knowledgeable and very caring. She was someone I looked up to. I related with her as I had open heart surgery at 1 years old, so we share a beautiful scar. I just saw her on September 7th and never did I think it would be the last time. We had just started a new process of getting her hair lighter, she wanted a change. As you can see with the pictures she sent me🥹 She was also telling me about an article she wrote on neurons (that I need to find)😊. I am going to miss her and our wonderful conversations. I am very sorry to Joe, as losing my mom at aged 58 also, has been the hardest thing in my life to deal with. I hope he can find comfort knowing she did a lot in her life to help others; which she enjoyed. Also, that she loved him and was so proud of him. And also loved her kitchen!!!❣️

Deep heartfelt condolences for the loss of such a loved soul. We went to the same Middle School, 
We had great conversations about New York food. Brookyn Resturants that she enjoyed and shipped special food items to California. 
The loss of how she loved others is so hard to understand that we won’t be able to chat anymore. She clearly was enjoying her life with her husband. She talked to me about it. 
This was a kind person to all she met. 
Expert in many areas. 
I will miss her so much.  I am fortunate we just saw each other. Gone too soon and will never be forgotten. May her memory bless all who knew this angel on earth. 
.

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Ilyssa Joy Esgar-DeCasperis

March 4, 1966 – September 20, 2024

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