Shirlee Joan Frey

It is with heavy hearts yet profound gratitude for a life well lived, that we announce the passing of Shirlee Joan Frey, who departed this world on April 19, 2026, at the age of 87, in Merced, California.

Born on September 2, 1938, in the city of Joplin, Missouri, Shirlee was the cherished daughter of Roy and Opal Moore. Her early life in Joplin was filled with the warmth of family, alongside her siblings, her brothers Roy Moore Jr. and Louise Grammar, and her sister Betty Calvert. The Moore household was a lively one, filled with laughter, love, and the values that Shirlee carried throughout her life.

A beacon of kindness and generosity, Shirlee was known for her infectious smile and sweet-hearted nature. Her compassion extended well beyond her family, as she made it a mission to contribute to her community in meaningful ways. Shirlee was a supporter of numerous charitable organizations, embodying touching the lives of many in her community.

Though Shirlee's formal education concluded in her junior year of high school, her journey of learning and service continued throughout her life. She dedicated many years to the Merced County Sheriff's Department, where her commitment to public service was unwavering. In a bold step towards leadership, she ran for election, an endeavor that spoke volumes of her courage and passion for her community. Shirlee served as a Matron for five years, leaving behind a legacy of dedication and care. Additionally, she was a respected member of the Merced County Board of Realtors, where she brought her characteristic warmth and integrity to the profession.

Shirlee's greatest joy was her family. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Clarence Frey, and her daughter, Debra L. Frey. The loss of her parents, Roy and Opal Moore, and her siblings Mitchell Moore, Louise Grammer and Betty Calvert. She leaves behind, her sons, Brett M. Frey and Bartt M. Frey. and also many grandchildren, who will forever cherish the memories of their grandmother.

A Celebration of Life to honor Shirlee's remarkable life will be held at a later date, allowing friends and family to gather and share in the memories of a truly extraordinary woman.

Through this site, we invite you to view and share cherished photos and videos, share fond memories and expressions of sympathy for the Frey Family or share the obituary with others via social media and email. Arrangements are under the direction of Stratford Evans Merced Funeral Home, Sierra Calvert, Funeral Arranger