Think of you often & miss our breakfast talks...Mesa too!!!

Hello friend, I think of you often miss you so much. Nothing is the same without you here. Not sure how to be happy with out you I try but nothing can change the past.

happy birthday too me friend. it will never be the same without you! pretty heavy heart today friend I love you

Brenda,
   I miss you more than anything in this life we will be together again I promise! I love you with all my heart.  
-Odes

Hey friend its been a real long time I'm still quite sad feels like im just standing still i miss you so much i lost more than a pice of me when i lost you im afraid to get close to anyone because i might loose them too love you with all my heart!
Love me

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.  May your memories bring you comfort.

Hi friend I not sure what I'm doing here o feel I'm just spinning in circles. I'm not sure it's going to stop. Things are alot harder than they appear. I'm trying to keep my head up but some days it's looking pretty rough not sure what to do!!
See you soon!!

Hi friend its me again sometimes I just feel so alone without you here. I miss you so much. some say it gets easier with time, but its looking like their wrong bucause it just gets harder.:( but I try to put on a good face see you soon:)

Hi friend it's me I think about you all the time Jessie says hello wish I was with you I could just hold you and watch the sunset love you friend

Hi friend I miss you and love you so much wish I was with you Jessie says hi. She is do better she still seems sad at work, I think she would rather be playin frisbee with you love always friend :(

Hi friend I miss you it's very hard with out you here Jessie says hi I wish I could be with you more every day I love you

My sincerest condolences to the family of Brenda and to Dan who lost the love of his life. I'm so sorry for your loss.  May you find comfort knowing that she will forever remain an ageless beauty in your hearts.  My thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.

I haven't seen Brenda since she was a very young girl.  She was always so full of life.  I was extremely sorry to hear about the accident, and send my prayers to Steve and Marla and their families in this time of loss.  Please get a hold of me if you need anything.  JillPepsi@aol.com

Jill Burns/Godfrey

Mi Amiga Blanca - looked forward to sharing so many more memories with you, the ones I have I will cherish. We had "songs to sing and tales to tell" - Miss you.

Brenda,
 It's Been very hard without you jessie and I miss you so much. love me

May god walk with you.. Dan... and Brenda's family in these difficult times. Lean on him for strength and direction. Brenda has touched the hearts and lives of many in the short time she was here and I truly believe her strong and precious spirit will also  continue to touch and guide each of you in the paths that lie ahead .

  Our condolences to Dan and Brenda's family.  Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.  Don & Maddie Holcomb

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child.  My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Blessed are the good and forsaken our we for the loss of the good- Brenda Perlman

We will miss Brenda greatly. I was so glad my daughter Farrah met Brenda when we moved to Tillamook. These Grade school girls soon became inspeperable. There were many sleep overs and great memories. The three of us getting lost after a late movie showing, the 2 girls catching thier bed on fire (very small fire) with a candle. Brenda moved in with us while she attended High school. She was such a hard working girl. She never got in trouble and was such a help around the house and like a big sister to my other 2 young children. Brenda had this great quality about her that is hard to describe, she was so sweet and nice, funny, and forthright and just knew what she wanted and would just do it! My whole family loved her very much. It was hard when she moved to Arizona her senior year. We looked forward to her visits with Daniel each year. Farrah would often complain to me how she could just not find a friend to hang out with like Brenda, and I told her she never would! Brenda was 'one of a kind'. We love you Daniel, and share in your great sorrow.

Brenda will always be in our hearts, minds and prayers.  She was so much more than Mesa's sitter (Maltese)...I am blessed and proud to call her friend and so much more.  We spent many great times together discussing our "days of our lives" and just life in general over breakfast and just spending time together.  We had many laughs, fun and play dates with Jesse and Mesa. To Daniel, Jesse and the entire family, my sincere and heartfelt sorrow for our loss and may the memories we hold bring you comfort in the days to come.

I will never forget Brenda, or the way that she opened her arms up to me, when i moved to AZ, without knowing anyone, except my b/f at the time.  She became my friend the first moment i walked into the house.  I will never forget how awesome she was and caring, and how she would do anything for anyone.  All you had to do was ask.  I will always miss you, and you will always be in my heart.  My sympathies go out to Dan, and Brendas family, she may no longer be with us, but always in our hearts!

We will miss Brenda, Her memory will fill our hearts forever, as we remember her smile and joy.

My dear sweet Brenda...I met her when she came to live with her Dad when she was a teenager.  I remember her Grandmother bringing her to my salon for a haircut...what a shy little girl she was.  I watched her blossom into a beautiful, kind and loving and funny young woman.  This truly breaks my heart as we talked about getting together this summer. I am honored to have known Brenda.  My deepest sympathy to Daniel and the entire family.

My heart is breaking knowing that we are here without you. I will forever miss your beautiful smile and heart-warming laughter. You will forever be in my heart and i think of you everyday that goes by. You are a best friend and a sister to me and I love you more than words can say.  I know you will be Daniels angel forever and keep him safe and smile down on him. I love you friend

I wish my wife and I could have done more to help out that day. My wife, who is extra sensory, told me later she felt Brenda pass and ascend into heaven. We know you are with the Lord. I hope and pray Daniel and Jesse are ok. You will always be in their hearts. My deepest condolences to the family for this much too untimely loss.

With deepest sympathy to Brenda's family for an untimely, tragic loss. The world was a much better place with you here. She was always funny, helpful and witty. Prayers for you all.

There are absolutely no words that can properly convey the sunshine that she brought to so many family members and friends! Brenda and I met at ASU and the minute she spoke to me I knew that she would forever be the best kind of friend anyone could have! She was extremely dedicated to anything she set her mind to! She was so vivacious and carefree that you forgot any struggle or difficulty that troubled you! She would go a million miles out of her way to help you in any way, shape, or form! And oh boy did Brenda’s personality beam like a thousand rays! Her giggles, jokes, and just her smile could make anyone’s day the best it could ever be! The memories that I have of us will never fade and will stay close to my heart forever!

 The kindness in which Brenda showed to my family and I could not have simply been repaid with just a thank you! She deserved to be placed on the highest pedestal possible! And that is what I had planned to do in the best way I could! She was to be a bridesmaid in my wedding of 2013 and in honor of her unfading friendship she will still be represented in my wedding! My heart aches that I may never physically see or hear my best friend again but I know she will be with me always! I thank the Lord for blessing me, even though only for a short while, with the time I got to spend with Brenda!

To Brenda’s family, my sincere condolences for your loss! You will all be forever in my thoughts and prayers for Brenda truly was an angel upon this earth! May the sunshine that she brought in each of your lives shine on evermore! 

To Daniel, you were the most amazing boyfriend! The love that you two shared was deeper that anyone could ever fathom! You two have brought such love into my family I could not thank you enough! Although Brenda is no longer physically here, she will always be looking upon you and guiding you! Again I so very sorry for you loss and we are all here for you!


Much love from my family to Brenda’s family and friends! And to my dear friend you will forever be missed but never forgotten! I love you with all my heart, rest in peace!

Her fingerprint can never be removed from every life she touched. My heart goes out to Daniel and her family.

I cannot even image the loss poor Daniel and the entire family feels....to lose the love of your life must be the hardest thing ever. Please Lord be with him and their families to help them through this tremendous loss and help them to heal while continuing her memory forever. Bless Brenda as your new Angel and allow her to help comfort all in their time of loss and need. You are all in my prayers every day!

It is still hard to believe that she is not with us anymore. Ever since meeting her in one of my college classes at ASU I just knew that we would remain good friends even if we didn't get together as much as we should have. The best parts were the fun times hanging out at my place or hers with Daniel and Brenna. And especially the Blake Shelton/Miranda Lambert concert we went to. We had a blast. She will surely be missed. You were a great friend Brenda and this world will not be the same without you.

Please Lord welcome Brenda into your arms. You lent her to us for such a short time. You allowed her to touch our hearts and our lives. Only you can ever know how very much we will miss her. Please be with her family right now. Comfort them as they go through this time of loss and mourning. Hold them in your arms as you now hold her. Let them know your peace and give them the strength to go on. Be with them in the days and years to come. Help her family with their grief. Please show them how to make it through each day. They need your strength and comfort. We thank you for the time we had while she was here with us. We look forward to seeing her again in eternity. We will never forget her.

brenda I miss you so much I have an emptyness inside that can never be filled I love you with all my heart. 
love odes

I cannot express the sadness I feel about Brenda's passing.  Even though I only knew Brenda for about 3 years, I always enjoyed our talks and making her happy when I groomed her dog, Jesse...My deepest sympathy goes out to Daniel and her family, as I know this is a huge loss for everyone.

 god recieve brenda new angel  one that is a kinder soul and a friend to all who will be graetly missed by family and friend god bless  her family in this time of loss. god bless them

OBITUARY

Brenda Lea Gemar-Prock

February 21, 1985 – July 4, 2011

Mariposa Gardens Memorial Park & Funeral Care

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