Well Ruby almost a month since you were called by god.  We Miss you so so much.  Not a day goes by without thinking about you.   We are taking very good care of papa for you.   He is eating very Well.  I sit on the pergular your son built for you And look at all your bird friends.  They sing And chirp like if it was you telling us you are in heaven And you are free of pain.  I Love u And alway Will. All the great memoréis.  David misses you dearly.

Mom I miss you so so much. You should be here with us. Daddy is doing good, I stay over there 2 nights a week but its not the same without you. I miss being able to talk to you abou things, Jailyn and Brookelyn and Sophia are getting big and they miss you alot. All the kids miss you and there is not a day that goes by that I dont think about you.I keep waiting to see you sitting in your favorite chair or on the front porch. People tell me it will get easier but I dont see that. I miss you too much to feel like that. Tell Maw-Maw and Paw-Paw and Granny & paw-paw that we love them and miss them too!! I love you Momma and you will always be with me.

momma, I miss you so so much. not a day goes by that I dont think of you. At your house I keep waiting to see you sitting in your favorite chair and smelling your cooking. The girls are getting big and they miss you so much. Daddy is doing good, I stay there 2 nites a week. But Its not the same without you, to be able to talk to you about things. I love you so much that it hurts. People tell me it get easier but I dont think it will for me. I love you so much, tell maw-maw and paw-paw and granny and paw-paw we miss them and love them. I love you so so much.The kids all miss you as well. They love you so much too!!

David, so sorry to hear about your Mom.  Everything I ever heard about her was what a wonderful Mother and Grandmother that she was.  Know that she is in a better place.  In time the pain gets a little better, but you will never forget.  Believe me, I know.  I've been down this road about 2 years ago.

Diane and Jay Jones

To my wonderful "Uncle DJ" and my cousins Nancy, David, Judy, Peggy, I will always cherish the wonderful childhood memories that we shared.  My aunt Ruby always had a special place in my heart and I will miss her dearly.           With deepest sympathy,  your cousin Jon Aldana (Marietta, Georgia)

Uncle D.J., Nancy, David, Judy & Peggy and families:  What a beautiful service and tribute to Aunt Ruby.  She was always so loving and we will never forget her or her loving smile.  May God comfort your hearts during this difficult time.  Love, Jimmy & Donna

DJ
Wendy + I would like to express our deepest sympathy to you + your family

We pray that the God of all comfort would bring all comfort upon you as you grieve the passing of Mrs. Ruby.  The Leonard family--Jim & Angie, Sara, Matt, Ginny.

Ruby I will miss you so much.  You were my mother in law and a friend to me.  I am so sad that you are gone.   I still cannot believe its true.  You are in a much better place with god and you are free from pain.   I promise to you I will take care of papa for you.

to my favorite uncle DJ and cousins,Nancy,David, Judy and Peggy:  I am so sorry for your loss.  I have so many fond memories of Aunt Ruby and Sundays at your house after church.  Your mom was the best at hugs and smiles and I will never forget her or her cooking! My prayers are with you now and always.

We wish to express our sincere condolences to the Scharfenstein Family, especially to D.J., and David and Liz, in the loss of Ms. Ruby; we are praying that the Lord surround you with His comfort and peace during this time. In Christian Love, Dennis, Carol & Christian Hawkins - Kingston, Tennessee

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Ruby Lamb Scharfenstein

December 2, 1930 – March 27, 2012

Leitz-Eagan Funeral Home

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