My Mom
She was a very strong woman…she could do it all.
I know now as a mother her concerns for raising us in a one parent household had to be extremely stressful.  The responsibility all fell on her.   She had to be everywhere and do everything…and the amazing part is she did it…and did it well.
Back in those days there was no such thing as a time out.  We felt our discipline, but the offense was quickly forgotten and we were continually showered with love.
How many times we heard growing up “God helps those who help themselves”…. She raised us to be responsible and accountable for our actions.  Life wasn't easy and she was going to make sure we were equipped and ready for it; by her words and more so by her example we saw true inner strength, integrity and love. 
Even though my Mom always had to work to support us she worked around our schedule and she was always there for us.  She took the time to instill values in us. Thru our mothers eyes…she saw all our possibilities, our goodness, our talents, our strengths, and she always saw the best and believed the best for us.  Even at times when we struggled she was there, knowing this too will pass, she never doubted us or our abilities. My Mom always said to me, once you lose your Mom you lose everything…because she was always the one who had your back, regardless of what you did or what you said…she was there.  Today I know exactly what she meant.
She built our family on traditions.  One of the strongest being every, and I mean every Sunday we went to church.   My Mom did not take that lightly, God always came first.  After services we would walk home to an Italian feast.  If it was football season she would pull out the card table and we were allowed to eat in the living room and watch the Browns play.  Secretly I think it was because she didn't want to miss a game.  Maybe truly next year will be the Browns year now that our Mom is with the Lord.
Looking back now I realize we didn't really have much in material wealth, but we had what we needed.  What we did have was far more important than anything money can buy we were a ‘family'. And that ‘family' extended out to our very dear friends, some of them even calling her Ma…because they felt the love that we were blessed to be raised with.  My Mom taught us what was really important…blood is thicker than water.  Today she can look down upon us with pride because what she taught us filters down to our children and grandchildren. Today I speak for my entire family when I say we have an extraordinary family who loves and cares for one another unconditionally. We are all so incredibly blessed to have each other.
My Mom never thought she was old and God help the man that said she was.  She never acted old either…she had unbounded energy.  Just about two weeks ago we were walking down the hall together in the hospital and she looks around and says to me “Cindy, there are so many old people here”.  You gotta love my Mom!
My Mom was competitive…and she loved to play cards…I often times wondered why because she usually lost and she wasn't too happy about it either….but she never quit and when she did win she glowed.  I have to say we have quite a few competitive family members…. just know you get that fine quality from your Gram.  
I'm thankful we were able to travel some when I was with the airlines, she was like a little kid with excitement and so happy.  For all the shopping trips, cooking together, the numerous times she helped me move, playing cards,  late night talks, laughing, hugging and the many kisses between us I am truly thankful.  I only wish now there were more and maybe I could just stop time and let the moment soak in a little while longer.
To sum up my mom it was all about family.  She made each of her grandchildren feel like they were her favorite and her heart overflowed when she was blessed with great grandchildren. And I know I speak for my brothers when I say she was truly the best Mom in all the land.  She taught us to be generous to give to others, the Am Vets trucks always stopped at our house for a pickup, when we were growing up, regardless how busy she was she still found time for charity work, and to be supportive of our school functions. She taught us compassion, when others hurt she hurt whether she knew them or not. She taught us tenacity… she got Franky home from the Army for Ricky's wedding by writing to president Nixon…my Mom did not take no for an answer…she could get things done.
She always taught us to do the right thing it was far more important to have a God centered life.
In the end it's not what you have when you leave this world it's the lives you impacted, the differences you made, the love you gave, the blessings you shared.  My Mom did all of that and she did it remarkably well.  
I would say she had an “S” on her chest but actually it's more like angel wings, she was an angel among us.  We today are the lucky ones we were blessed to call her friend, cousin, aunt, sister, daughter, great grandma, gram and mom….my mom.  .
Thank you Mom for loving us and for giving us the strength to be more like you…I love you Mom and I'm sure going to miss you! Cindy

We loved Mary so much. She loved talking about her family as all of you were the centerpiece of her life. We will miss her. All of you are with us in prayer.

Gramma Simon was the best. She will be soooo missed.. i loved her as if she was my own...

Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this time.  Her loving memory will live on in your hearts forever.  I remember her well from those days when we were in high school, Cindy....such a great lady.  RIP Mary.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God's love comfort you during this difficult time.

Mary, Thank you for being a great neighbor these past 6 1/2 years. We will never forgot your kindness and great big smile! 
Lots of Love, Ryan, Josalyn and Sunny Meyer

My sympathy to all the family. I remember your mom well...she was such a sweetie! She always made you feel welcome when you came to visit. I remember one time, many years ago, I was visiting and she was making meatballs and sauce! Oh it smelled so good! She offered me some...it was the best meatballs and sauce I've ever eaten!! You will all have so many good memories of her...cherish them. She will always be near your heart and in your memories. My prayers are with the family...those who are left behind....may the God of all comfort be with you during this time.

In loving memory of an amazing grandmother. We will love you and miss you always.

OBITUARY

Mary Simon

December 7, 1925 – December 17, 2012

Craciun Funeral Home

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