Michelle Lynn Crossland

December 1, 1974 – July 4, 2025

Michelle Lynn Crossland, lovingly known as “Shellie,” passed away on July 4, 2025, at the age of 50. Born on December 1, 1974, Shellie’s radiant spirit and boundless energy made an unforgettable impact on all who knew her. She was a devoted wife, mother, daughter, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend—her presence filled every room with warmth, love, and laughter.

Shellie made a lasting mark on her community through her work with the West Texas Geological Society, where she was known for her dedication and positive influence. She was more than just a colleague; she was a friend to many and a woman whose kindness and hard work left an indelible legacy.

To her family, Shellie was everything. She was the heart and soul of her loved ones, particularly her husband, Cody Crossland. The couple shared an extraordinary bond, built on love, laughter, and Cody’s unwavering support for Shellie’s every whim. Her devotion to her children—Celeste Helms, Hailey Chavarria, Xavier Ramirez, and Hayden Crossland—and her beloved grandkids, Jackson Cabrera and Toni Guerra, knew no bounds.

Shellie was known by many names—Yaya to her grandbabies, ‘crazy lady’ to her closest friends, and Shellie to all who were lucky enough to know her. She never met a stranger and considered her friends, including Tasha, Joel, Joe, and Stephanie, as family. Her hobbies reflected her zest for life, whether it was soaking up the sun by the pool, traveling with “the Vegas crew,” indulging in shopping sprees at Bath & Body Works, or simply enjoying precious time with her family and friends.

Shellie will be remembered for her fierce love of family, her infectious laughter, and her ability to light up every room she entered. A woman who lived life to the fullest, she was the loud, crazy, yet lovable lady who could turn any moment into a cherished memory.

Shellie is survived by her mother, Tonya Helms; her children, Celeste Helms, Hailey Chavarria, Xavier Ramirez, and Hayden Crossland; her grandkids, Jackson Cabrera and Toni Guerra; and her niece, Devyn Smith. She is now reunited in heaven with her loving husband, Cody Crossland; her father, Wayne Helms; her sister, Tasha Ramos; her brother-in-law, Joel Ramos; her niece, Kyndall Ramos; her grandmothers, Belvin Redus and Shirley Byrom; and her grandfathers, Wayne Helms Sr and Freddy Byrom.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Ellis Resthaven Funeral Home.

Shellie’s love, laughter, and vibrant spirit will be forever cherished and deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.