Reneé Csajko

January 23, 1957November 5, 2021

With deepest sorrows, we announce that Reneé, age 64, loving wife of Thomas; beloved mother of Justin, Amanda and Alex; and proud grandma of Scarlett, Landon and Weston passed on November 5th after a courageous battle with cancer. Additionally, she is survived by her loving sisters Denise and Leslie, along with many cherished nieces and nephews. She will be sadly missed by many friends, neighbors and all who knew and loved her, especially her dearest childhood friend Susan. Reneé is predeceased by her mother and father, Diane and Al Pagliaro.

Reneé grew up in Wantagh, NY and attended Holy Trinity High School, where she met the love of her life, Thomas, whom she married in 1979. After graduating from SUNY-Plattsburgh, she distinguished herself in the field of social work, where her compassion for others set her apart from her peers.

Her love for the beach was only surpassed by the love she had for her husband, children and grandchildren. Reneé's passion for life made a lasting impression on all who knew her and she will be deeply missed.

A visitation for Reneé will be held Sunday, November 7, 2021 from 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM and 7:00 PM to 9:00 PM at O.B. Davis Funeral Homes, 1001 Route 25A, Miller Place, NY 11764. Funeral Mass, Monday, November 8, 2021 at 10:30 AM at St. Mark's Roman Catholic Church, 105 Randall Road, Shoreham, NY 11786. Interment to follow at St. Charles Cemetery, 2015 Wellwood Avenue, Farmingdale, NY 11735.

In lieu of flowers, visitors may donate to Splashes of Hope, 101 Browns Road, Huntington, NY 11743, or to a charity of your choice in loving memory of Reneé.

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  • Visitation

    Sunday, November 7, 2021

  • Funeral Mass

    Monday, November 8, 2021

  • Interment

    Monday, November 8, 2021


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Linda Schmidt

November 8, 2021

I met Renee thru my sister Diane Holmes. They were neighbors, but so very much more than that....a deep, loving and abiding friendship grew. Our (Patti and I) first intro involved a huge smile, big hugs and loving words. Thru my sister Diane I have grown to know and love Renee and Tom. We don't see one another often, but they are in our hearts daily....and have been for some time.

May this beautiful loving woman rest in God's arms at peace.
We sincerely believe we will meet again.

God Bless Tom and will all remain in our prayers and candle lightings for a long time.

Linda Schmidt
Pat McMullen