Edward G Toti

September 8, 1930June 28, 2013
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Edward George Toti, of Monroe, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on Friday, June 28, 2013. Born September 8, 1930. He was the son of the late Thomas and Caroline Toti of Bridgeport and foster son of the late Wesley and Mary Haines of Trumbull. Eddie is survived by his loving wife, Lydia of 37 years. He was extremely proud of his son, Neil (Christina) Toti and his granddaughter, Giuliana of North Haven. He is also survived by two foster brothers: Joseph and Wesley Haines as well as many caring cousins and friends. He served for 20 years in the Navy, in the Korean and Vietnam Wars. He worked for the Town of Trumbull Police Department, maintenance for 17 years. In his retirement, he enjoyed sports especially the Yankees/Giants, word search puzzles, and long walks at the Christmas Tree Shop and at the Cape. Above all, he valued every minute holding and playing with Giuliana. Edward was a kind, whole hearted family man and friend to all. His twinkling eyes and warm smile conveyed his spirit for life.


  • Visitation Monday, July 1, 2013
  • Mass of Christian Burial Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Edward G Toti

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cheryl constand

July 2, 2013

Dear Lydia,
Bill and I want to extend to you our heartfelt sympathy during this time of loss. Eddie will be remembered by me as a sweet, friendly guy with an ever ready smile. As a young person, I was at my Aunt Mary's quite often and seeing Eddie there was always a pleasure. He was so good and generous to my aunt and he will always be thought of with great affection for how kind he was to her. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you. Peace, Cheryl (Ferruci) and Bill Constand

Anne McMenamey

July 2, 2013

Christina, Neil & Giuliani, I was so sorry to hear of Ed's passing. From the pictures I can tell he lived a very full, happy life. Treasure your memories of him, he will always be in your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.

July 1, 2013

Lydia, Our sincere sympathy to you and your family. Eddie will always be remembered by his wonderful smile and big heart. Love, Donna and Gary

July 1, 2013

Lydia, my sincere sympathy to you and your family on the loss of Ed.

Peace be with you.

Barbara Willisto

Cathy & John Ciaccio

July 1, 2013

Dear Lydia, Neil, Christina and Giuliana,
May God's gentle peace enfold you and comfort you, and may loving memories of Ed and his beautiful smile live in your hearts forever. We are so sorry for your overwhelming loss and wish we could be with you. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
With all our love, Cathy, John, and Domenick

Shawn Sember

July 1, 2013

Ed was a personable guy who was a true gentleman and hard worker. Ed came back to work at Trumbull Police even after suffering a heart attack because he was devoted to his job. Ed was always there to greet you in the morning and had nice things to say. It was a pleasure to know Ed and he will be sadly missed by TPD. Ret. Det. Sgt. Shawn Sember

Janice, Wayne, Melissa & Jennifer Prentice

July 1, 2013

Our sincere condolences to you in in the loss of Eddie. He will always be remembered by his big heart, Cadillac, smile and cigars! The good times at Casella's will always bring a smile to our faces and never be forgotten. May out Lord and Savior comfort you during this difficult time and give life everlasting to Eddie.

Maria Delmonaco

June 30, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, Love, Maria and Nicole Delmonaco and Salvatore Geremia

June 30, 2013

We are sorry for your loss. Our Thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times. Craig & Tom

June 29, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you are this difficult time. With sincere sympathy, Always Joanne Sapia