Michael J. Piatt

October 25, 1964March 6, 2021

Michael J. Piatt, 56, of Monroe passed away peacefully at home on March 6, 2021, surrounded by his loving family, after a courageous battle against cancer. Preceded in death by his parents, Ralph and Shirley Piatt, of Scarborough, ME; and brother, Ralph Piatt, of New York. Survived by his wife, Lisa Piatt, and daughter, Lucy Piatt, of Monroe, CT; sister, Nancy Shilling, and her husband, Tim Shilling, of Bridgewater, CT; brothers, John Piatt of Marietta, GA and Rob Piatt of Carmel, NY; niece, Jackie Shilling Boyle, and her husband, Matthew Boyle of Monroe, CT; nephew, Dan Shilling, and Christine Lehner of Danbury, CT; nephew, Christopher Piatt, of Florida; and nephew, Daniel Smith, of Akron, OH.

A 1983 graduate of Fox Lane High School in Bedford, NY, Mike became a Pound Ridge Volunteer Firefighter as soon as he could join as a teenager, and he stayed with the fire department until he moved away from Pound Ridge in 1990. A proud veteran, Mike served with the Military Police at Loring Air Force Base in Maine until 1988. Mike was always a builder, and he owned and operated his own company, M & L Building and Remodeling. He was Maintenance Supervisor for Fairfield Public Schools.

Mike loved wood and he loved working with wood, whether cutting down a tree for firewood for his family, building a house, or making fine furniture. Mike was a born leader and an inspiring example to everyone who knew him. Mike worked hard and brought out the best in everyone around him with grace and good humor. His first instinct was always to serve others before himself.

Mike was devoted to his family, and he was thrilled to do anything with them: from movies together on the couch, to fires in the firepit, to planning a Saturday adventure biking, hiking, walking at the beach, or a day trip somewhere fun.

Mike and his wife, Lisa, shared the rare gift of true oneness. They never had to compromise because they fell in step with each other naturally. They were made for each other, and they made each other complete. They did everything together, and loved all the same things: the outdoors, the sea, their black Labs, their cats, boating, biking, snowshoeing, and trips to Maine.

They loved grilling, building a cozy fire, cooking, entertaining, evenings around the firepit, and long walks on the beach -- in any weather. Their home was always a place of joy and laughter. Mike’s goofy, down to earth sense of humor could always calm, comfort, and make Lisa laugh.

Courageous, strong, caring, genuine, talented, Mike worked hard and always put others first. Mike influenced everyone he knew to live life to the fullest, to be generous, to be honest, and to be kind. Rest in love and peace, beloved husband, father, brother, uncle, until we see you again.

Mass of Christian Burial, St. Jude Roman Catholic Church, 707 Monroe Turnpike, Monroe, CT 06468, Saturday, March 20, 2021, 10 AM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the “Closer to Free” fund for Yale Smilow Cancer Hospital at


What is dying? I am standing on the seashore. A ship passes and spreads his white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the ocean. He is an object of beauty and I stand watching him tall. At last, he fades on the horizon, and someone at my side says, “He is gone.” “Gone where?” Gone from my sight, that is all. He is just as large in the masts, hull, and spars as he was when I least saw him, just as able to bear his load of living freight to its destination. The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me, not in him. And just at the moment when someone at my side says, “he is gone.” there are others who are watching him coming, and other voices take up the glad shout, “Here he comes, here he comes!” And that is dying.


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Aleta Blankenship-Coco

March 16, 2021

Katryn and I are so sad to hear of Michael's passing. I remember when Ralph and Shirley brought him home from the hospital and introduced him to us. Katryn has wonderful memories of playing with Mike when they were kids. We are sending our love and prayers to all the family-Aleta and Katryn

Maurice Maillet

March 15, 2021

To my boss Mike you’ll be greatly missed by me every day I walk by your office and see it empty. Every day I will try to walk by it fast so you were not asked me to do something for you I’m going to miss that. You are in a better place with God look down on us and pray for us especially for your wife and your daughter 😭😭

keith kali

March 15, 2021

I am very sorry for your loss. My condolences and prayers are with you and the family. May you rest in peace Mike. Miss you.

John Marini

March 15, 2021

Mike was someone you could always talk to. He was understanding, kind, and level headed. I not only considered him a boss but a friend. He will be greatly missed.

Robert Bergeron

March 15, 2021

We both have fond memories of Mike from school.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Bob & Christine Bergeron

Greg Jefremow

March 15, 2021

I was fortunate to have known Mike and work with him. He was a good friend and was always available for me. May God's peace, love and grace be with you all in this difficult time. He will live forever in our hearts and memories

mark volza

March 15, 2021

My deepest condolences to the Piatt Family. Rest in peace Mike. Mark and Marc Volza

Keith and Ewa Harper

March 13, 2021

Dear Lisa, Lucy, Chelsea and family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you remember Mike's wonderful and caring love for your family. We feel honored to have met Mike and your family and will cherish our memories of neighborhood dog walks and talks together. Mike openly shared his love for life, your family, and how very proud his is of you.

Our Sincerest Sympathy,

Keith, Ewa and Eddie Harper

Holly Rinaldi

March 12, 2021

Sending my condolences to the Piatt family. I have very fun memories with Michael in high school. He sat behind me in a science class and made me laugh so much! We had an odd teacher! Mr. Behonik. Michael also dated my best friend Karen Kerrane and we all went to junior prom prom together! RIP Michael. Love ya and prayers

Louis Meszoros

March 11, 2021

My condolences to the Piatt family..